i seriously have no idea of what to blog, till this morning.. when i'm on my way to work, i happen to saw an old couple strolling along the walkway hand in hand.. this "marriage" topic came to my mind.


what is marriage to most ppl?
- a cert to bring love to kinship
- a paper to be bounded with commitment for life.
- a partner to walk on.
and the list goes on..


as most of my close friends should know that i'm someone...

just now i receive an sms from a friend "K".

(before that we are not smsing at all)

this is our conversation.

"K" : hey dearie, of cuz i want my dearie wife.. wad dream so scary"

me: huh? did you sms the wrong person?

"K": oh dearie, i love you sooo much! you are cailing ah.

me: since when i'm ur dearie? i think you get the wrong person.

"K" : you...

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Psychologist Dr. Michael Fenichel, who has published numerous writings on FAD online, describes it as a situation in which Facebook usage "overtakes" daily activities like waking up, getting dressed, using the telephone, or checking e-mail.

"The amazing thing is that, like cellphones, nobody seems to notice the vast amount of...

窗外是热烈的阳光，好象要把我烤透明一样，于是我在这个夏天的午后想到风吹过了，雨也下过了，封存的过去好 像有了味道，想想也没有人为我逗留,一切离我远去了。多少感情回想起来，只剩结局和开头。相信很多人都有自 己的过去，怎样看待自己的过去，是一个比较难处理的问题。正如区分喜欢和爱一样。其实喜欢是淡淡的爱，而爱 是深深的喜欢。知道了这个道理，就可以摆脱思念的苦恼。这就是我会想你的原因，但我不会再爱你 了。...

i dont understand why some ppl like to use their workplace as their hunting ground to have an affair behind their gf/bf.

is it because that it is more convenient or something?


recently,
a guy from another dept is somehow interested in my colleague,
and this guy has a gf outside le ( and i heard that the gf is quite pretty).
he keep asking my colleague, R out for lunch,
and he drag me into the water too,
as i assume he knows...

i find this article quite true,
thou is pretty lengthy..

cut and paste those you find it true and comment!


（一）
开始的开始总是甜蜜的
后来就有了厌倦、习惯、背弃、寂寞、绝望和冷笑
曾经渴望与一个人长相厮守，后来，多么庆幸自己离开了...

many ppl say,
you can have alot of friends, but true friends.. a few can le.
even you only have one true friend, is much more better than having many other friends.
till today,
i find that this sentence is very true.


is only till something happen to yourself, got yourself into deep shit, or hospitalised or blah..
then you only test out your friendship with someone.
these few days,
i see what is true friends,
...

have you ever felt disgusted by a friend behaviour before?
especially when the person turn out to be your best friend last time..


recently,
felt quite disgusted and unhappy bout a friend's behaviour, thinking and everything.

in the past, she used to be a very innocent and sweet girl,
but after when we all graduated from sec sch,
she totally changes to another person.
especially coming to recent years,
things has become...

爱一个人是有一点好东西也要拿去与他分享，尽管他并不在意。

　　爱一个人是打完电话后却不放下听筒，直到那边传来"咔嚓"一声轻响后才缓缓挂掉。...

went to the above restaurant (Tonkichi) last fri.
it's located at Orchard Central, the new shopping mall in somerset.


my first impression before i went in the restaurant was pretty fine,
the ambience looks great, and there's queue outside which make me and my friend assume that the food should be not bad.
hence, we headed in and give it a try.



at first when we went in,
as...