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Youngest

Posted 23-09-2009 at 12:33 PM by cutepetz

Sometime I hate being the youngest in the family..
I can't do the what my sister and brother can do.. just because I am the youngest..
I am not allow to scold them or beat the, but they can.. because I am the youngest..
I always feel there is this unfairness in my family because I am the youngest I need to be lock in and have curfew and be restricted..
Now I wonder if I am 21.. Will I still be restricted or free.. Haihz..

Why does my siblings get the freedom and I don't..

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Just happen to drop by and find someone having the same situation with me that happened in my earlier age.

People say that the youngest in the family are always treated as an apple of 'their eyes', ironically this is not usually the case. The case when we get doted in the 'clear ways'. (We dont see lack of freedom as a form of love)

As the youngest of the family, we are controlled and restricted to things we do. My elder brothers used to abuse their seniority power to bully me when I was young. (yeah, that includes beating and scolding)

However, it was when I was 16 when everything starts to change. I'd grown tired of my family control and expressed my dissatisfaction. I severly needed respect and privacy at that age. (I am not even allowed to have my own hp)

So anyway, I had done things overboard in order to gain my freedom, making my own parents crying for my return. After then, they never restrict my freedom again nor getting involved in my stuff, afraid that I will run away again.

Well, I am not telling u to walk the same path as me because different type of families have different solutions to resolve. Usually they couldnt even sit down to discuss with u properly and u might need to use other ways to get them listen.

You will need your freedom soon. No worries. When your siblings are mature enough, they will learn to love and respect u. At the same time, let them know u feel demoralised and etc.

All the best to u. =)

Posted 30-09-2009 at 01:37 PM by uglybutadorable uglybutadorable is offline

	time will heal all problems...once ur siblings have matured...they will find it stupid to beat u,and embarassing to them shud it leak among their friends.If ur results are good,ur teachers have no complaints bout u,u r polite to ur parents,u can do wat u want,but the key is no Exploitation.
	Posted 03-10-2009 at 11:51 PM by thiru

im wondering how old are u? people get their freedom usually maybe around 16?
Girls probably 18? (:

Posted 05-10-2009 at 01:59 PM by danielove
thanks for your comments... yea trying to bite the bullet till i am 21...

I am 19 this year btw.. =\

Posted 06-10-2009 at 12:12 AM by cutepetz