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Afraid Of Making New "Friends"

Posted 01-06-2009 at 06:13 PM by Toxic Insanity
Updated 11-06-2009 at 10:15 PM by Toxic Insanity

I was Once told ...Friends Come and goes.. like the wind.. it's part of life..

but now i'm afraid of making new friends as i'm afraid of losing them, afraid that history repeating itself..

we came together as a group of friends though we shared the same interest...but the friendship we had did not stood up against the test of time, as the days pass.. problems appear. one after anther.. after each problem the group got smaller.. and there was once .. i was told by them. that i was a problem.. and was force to leave...so i did.. after a few mth's i heard form one of the guy that the group spited up..it was my fault after all..... but i can't make any amendment .. it all to late... i've tried to accept other people as friends but i can't now..i'm just tired of trying...

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Its not true that friends come and go, there are always one or two that stick around by your side. If your a student, you have a limitless amount of opportunities to go make friends, if you work, you have your co-workers to start somewhere but if you havent got an occupation then you need to look towards joining a club/group. Friends are easy to make but its hard to make them stay if things dont work out. Good luck mate

Posted 04-06-2009 at 11:05 AM by polai2 polai2 is offline

	Friends come and go, but only true friend remains.. You would hav to search endlessly for that friend, but it wouldn't hurt to hav others friends too. Take it easy Its part of life.
	Posted 04-06-2009 at 08:36 PM by thegirlx

dont be disheartened . you learn as you go... when u found the right friends, you dont have to make them stay...

Posted 04-06-2009 at 10:42 PM by Stanstan
Not trying to be negative, but at some point of life, learn to live alone and you will realize something you never know.

Posted 05-06-2009 at 12:13 AM by samwize

	yes i agree, friends come and go, even those you thought are your really close friends could leave you eventually. learn to accept it. it doesnt really matters if they come and go, just make sure you have a couple of friends by your side is good enough =D
	Posted 05-06-2009 at 12:42 AM by echoedecho

	yes i agree, friends come and go, even those you thought are your really close friends could leave you eventually. learn to accept it. it doesnt really matters if they come and go, just make sure you have a couple of friends by your side is good enough =D
	Posted 05-06-2009 at 12:44 AM by echoedecho

	@thegirlx as easy as it seem ... ya they come and go like the wind... @ Stanstan true enough.. donnoe why i even bother to be sad over them.. @ samwize i'm not afraid about me being alone.. but with "friends" @echoedecho i've accepted the fact that they arn't here anymore.. but stil...
	Posted 05-06-2009 at 06:59 PM by Toxic Insanity

	i used to be like you.. but learnt to accept it xD ever heard before '' let those you love go, if they come back, they were always yours if not, they were never yours '' =D
	Posted 07-06-2009 at 10:32 PM by thegirlx

eh.. heard it before.. somewhere.. long ago...

Posted 08-06-2009 at 07:14 PM by Toxic Insanity
cheer upps! ((: life has its ups n downs! (:

Posted 11-06-2009 at 06:49 PM by t0xiclove

	those that leaves you when problem arises are not even called friends. real friends will support you in whatever you do, discuss over anything to solve the situation together in order not to hurt the relationship of both of you.
	Posted 12-06-2009 at 09:23 PM by kirinz