10 things men wish women will know

**Artemis86** · 22-04-2008, 10:44 PM

Here's one for ladies....

By Shawn Mckee
eDiets Staff Writer

Spring is here -- and that means love is in the air! Flowers bloom, birds chirp and people wake from their winter slumbers, looking for love. Yes, romance blooms as the warm, spring air coaxes us out of our caves and into the sunny world around us.

For as long as people have been pairing up, they've had problems with communication. So to help alleviate some of the problems that arise when the sexes try to coincide in courtship, I've put together a list of things women should know about men. As a man, these are the things I wish every woman knew about me -- and my brethren -- to make life simpler for everyone.

We lie. But it's not as bad as it sounds. Generally, we do it to make you feel good or avoid trouble. Were you really looking for the truth when you asked: "Does this make my butt look big?" We think your butt looks great. Everything you try on looks "great." Let's leave it at that.

We're insecure -- just like you. This seems obvious, but since men tend not to open up about their feelings, it may be hard to actually recognize. We want to feel wanted and needed. Throw us an occasional compliment, ask us to help you do something manly or laugh at our dumb jokes. Pointing out our imperfections is painful for us, too, so take it easy when addressing our growing beer belly, receding hairline or bedroom prowess.

Your body is sexy. Fitness is sexy. You don't have to be built like a ballerina to turn us on, but the fact that you take care of yourself is important. Plus, we love seeing you in your sexy little workout clothes and we're hoping that when you get home from the gym you'll suggest we "hit the showers" together.

The eyes have it. We think you're sexy, remember? Sometimes our eyes wander, but that doesn't mean we're planning on straying. It's unnatural for a man to ignore a beautiful woman -- it's science. So, if you catch your man ogling another beauty, don't point out all her imperfections and call her a "skank." Jealousy is not pretty.

Acceptable actions for you to take: Punch him in the arm, make a smartass comment about her outfit, say "You wish," start ogling a handsome man in the area, suggest a threesome (then add "you wish") or anything else that's shows you're confident and can laugh off a faux pas as trivial as our naturally wandering eyes.

We're always ready for sex -- always. That's pretty much it on that one. So, feel free to initiate whenever you're feeling randy.

Subtly is lost on us. This is one that always seems to baffle women I know. "I flipped my hair, smiled and touched my neck, how could he not know I'm interested?" Because he doesn't get subtle clues, as a matter of fact, subtly is all but lost on the male species.

I'm not sure why this is, but if you want something, you may just have to ask directly. Is it as fun as dropping hints about what you want for your anniversary and being surprised when you don't get it? Maybe not, but it will eliminate a great deal of miscommunication.

Cookies, cakes and the kitchen. When you cook for us, it's the sexiest thing ever. We love food and we love women, so a woman who can feed us pretty much covers all the bases. Watching you cook is better foreplay than pretty much anything, unless you're cooking wearing only an apron, then it is the best foreplay -- ever.

You don't really want to know what we're thinking. Men's minds, like their eyes, tend to wander. You ask, "What are you thinking?" And you get a blank stare. It's not because we're not thinking anything, but because we know you don't care about the finer points of a 3-4 defense, who would win in a fight between a ninja and a pirate (ninja, in case you're wondering), or how many hot dogs we think we could eat in 20 minutes. So, when we reply, "How beautiful you are…" Just accept it.

Directions? We don't need no stinkin' directions! We don't ask for directions because we like to solve problems, it makes us feel accomplished. Half the fun of going somewhere is the trip, so getting lost and finding our way back is a big part of the fun of going to your coworker's birthday party. We're explorers by nature; let us have our great expedition -- even if it makes us late. You can blame us for being late -- we don't mind.

Stop asking, "Where is this going?" We don't know. We know where we hope this will go, but we're not going to stop and ask for directions. You have a right to ask this at some point as the relationship develops, but we're trying to enjoy the trip, not rush to the destination. Asking will just make us feel pressured, so just skip this question all together and enjoy the ride.

We really just want to make you happy, that's all. More often than not, we'll do the right thing, but take it easy on us when we act like the cavemen we are, at least we're trying.

Shawn McKee is not a doctor, psychologist or relationship expert of any kind. He is, however, a man. Which he thinks gives him the authority to write about things men like.

**MiRyung** · 22-04-2008, 11:43 PM

Does this apply to most men? Heh.

Sooo.. no subtle hints for the guys eh?? But, how do you take it if a girl is being direct wif you?

**inle** · 22-04-2008, 11:53 PM

hahaaaa....

Kaze.YonGMinG · 23-04-2008, 12:02 AM

lol. quite true

stinky_shawn · 23-04-2008, 12:10 AM

[QUOTE=Artemis86;863596]Here's one for ladies....

By Shawn Mckee

We're always ready for sex -- always. That's pretty much it on that one. So, feel free to initiate whenever you're feeling randy.

Subtly is lost on us. This is one that always seems to baffle women I know. "I flipped my hair, smiled and touched my neck, how could he not know I'm interested?" Because he doesn't get subtle clues, as a matter of fact, subtly is all but lost on the male species.

I'm not sure why this is, but if you want something, you may just have to ask directly. Is it as fun as dropping hints about what you want for your anniversary and being surprised when you don't get it? Maybe not, but it will eliminate a great deal of miscommunication.

You don't really want to know what we're thinking. Men's minds, like their eyes, tend to wander. You ask, "What are you thinking?" And you get a blank stare. It's not because we're not thinking anything, but because we know you don't care about the finer points of a 3-4 defense, who would win in a fight between a ninja and a pirate (ninja, in case you're wondering), or how many hot dogs we think we could eat in 20 minutes. So, when we reply, "How beautiful you are…" Just accept it.

Directions? We don't need no stinkin' directions! We don't ask for directions because we like to solve problems, it makes us feel accomplished. Half the fun of going somewhere is the trip, so getting lost and finding our way back is a big part of the fun of going to your coworker's birthday party. We're explorers by nature; let us have our great expedition -- even if it makes us late. You can blame us for being late -- we don't mind.

Stop asking, "Where is this going?" We don't know. We know where we hope this will go, but we're not going to stop and ask for directions. You have a right to ask this at some point as the relationship develops, but we're trying to enjoy the trip, not rush to the destination. Asking will just make us feel pressured, so just skip this question all together and enjoy the ride.

fully agree with the above points....

**happyjiin** · 23-04-2008, 01:14 PM

thanks for sharing, now I know a little more about men..

SupahStrider · 23-04-2008, 01:23 PM

SO true.

**khellvinne** · 23-04-2008, 01:48 PM

i also heart some from a radio station.

1: man cant resist flirt. no matter who is it, man cant resist when woman flirt with them, they like it.
2: Man will see every woman. no matter is beauty, ugly, slim or fat, they will see/watch! then they will discuss it. (eg. "wow, thats gorgeos hor?" ; "wah, look at the elephant!")
3: Man do not take hint. dun ask him "honey do u know what day is this sat?", dun ever think he will get, juz say: "honey, this sat is my bday, get ready a diamond ring and come back for dinner or else u juz get ready to sleep in the crouch!"
4: Man is like a big child!! yaya, thats why man brings their children to take ice cream, going fun fair happily~!
5: Man like woman to praise. for sure, man hope he can do everything, juz see they always like to help woman on doing something, juz because they like to get a praise from woman.

**Artemis86** · 23-04-2008, 10:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MiRyung

Does this apply to most men? Heh.

Sooo.. no subtle hints for the guys eh?? But, how do you take it if a girl is being direct wif you?

Haha well since its from a guy's perspective, probably most guys think this way.

I think most guys will be relieved if their gals juz tell them what they want instd of beating ard the bush??

So guys, clarify if i'm wrong, do u guys want ur girl to tell u whats on her mind directly??

SupahStrider · 23-04-2008, 10:33 PM

Must sticky this thread.LOL

**inle** · 23-04-2008, 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Artemis86

Haha well since its from a guy's perspective, probably most guys think this way.

I think most guys will be relieved if their gals juz tell them what they want instd of beating ard the bush??

So guys, clarify if i'm wrong, do u guys want ur girl to tell u whats on her mind directly??

sometimes n depends on situtions...
but i believe tat most gals tot tat us guys r fortune tellers or haf a crystal ball in our brain...

a hint will b great n the guessin will b great...
it will b best if both sides r sportin enough n hopefully no one end up in a arguement, a quarrel or even a fight ya...

Gela · 23-04-2008, 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by khellvinne

i also heart some from a radio station.

1: man cant resist flirt. no matter who is it, man cant resist when woman flirt with them, they like it.
2: Man will see every woman. no matter is beauty, ugly, slim or fat, they will see/watch! then they will discuss it. (eg. "wow, thats gorgeos hor?" ; "wah, look at the elephant!")
3: Man do not take hint. dun ask him "honey do u know what day is this sat?", dun ever think he will get, juz say: "honey, this sat is my bday, get ready a diamond ring and come back for dinner or else u juz get ready to sleep in the crouch!"
4: Man is like a big child!! yaya, thats why man brings their children to take ice cream, going fun fair happily~!
5: Man like woman to praise. for sure, man hope he can do everything, juz see they always like to help woman on doing something, juz because they like to get a praise from woman.

hahax, true~!!

shypineapple · 23-04-2008, 10:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Artemis86

Haha well since its from a guy's perspective, probably most guys think this way.

I think most guys will be relieved if their gals juz tell them what they want instd of beating ard the bush??

So guys, clarify if i'm wrong, do u guys want ur girl to tell u whats on her mind directly??

yes, just be straightforward...it's better (:

we just can't take hints too well

**MiRyung** · 23-04-2008, 10:39 PM

I wish I can read minds sometimes..

**Simplicity~** · 23-04-2008, 10:40 PM

True True.
The most true one for me was
2. Every man will see every women.
I love to speculate on those stuff.
I rather girls be straightforward.
Most males are left brainers.
Logic work for us.

**Simplicity~** · 23-04-2008, 10:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MiRyung

I wish I can read minds sometimes..

Theres no need to read minds. Just be straightfoward. No matter how bad the outcome is.. You have to face it sooner or later.
PS: Sorry if that was OT.

**inle** · 23-04-2008, 10:41 PM

Quote: Originally Posted by khellvinne
i also heart some from a radio station.

1: man cant resist flirt. no matter who is it, man cant resist when woman flirt with them, they like it.
2: Man will see every woman. no matter is beauty, ugly, slim or fat, they will see/watch! then they will discuss it. (eg. "wow, thats gorgeos hor?" ; "wah, look at the elephant!")
3: Man do not take hint. dun ask him "honey do u know what day is this sat?", dun ever think he will get, juz say: "honey, this sat is my bday, get ready a diamond ring and come back for dinner or else u juz get ready to sleep in the crouch!"
4: Man is like a big child!! yaya, thats why man brings their children to take ice cream, going fun fair happily~!
5: Man like woman to praise. for sure, man hope he can do everything, juz see they always like to help woman on doing something, juz because they like to get a praise from woman.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xiiao Rongz

hahax, true~!!

only 4, i agree....

4. yap yap... only the toys differ wz ages....

1,2,3,5.... dun agree...

1. i basically like to flirt(wz words) to anybody,male, female, young or old.... i prefer to call it an art of seduction n influenue....

2. i dun discuss tat of women....

3. guys n gals cant take hints from each other equally well...

5. i think everyone will like to b praised... but guys like to b appreciated while gals will like to b pampered....

mayb both my rite side n my left side of my brain works equally well...

**Simplicity~** · 23-04-2008, 10:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by davidkwankk

Quote: Originally Posted by khellvinne
i also heart some from a radio station.

1: man cant resist flirt. no matter who is it, man cant resist when woman flirt with them, they like it.
2: Man will see every woman. no matter is beauty, ugly, slim or fat, they will see/watch! then they will discuss it. (eg. "wow, thats gorgeos hor?" ; "wah, look at the elephant!")
3: Man do not take hint. dun ask him "honey do u know what day is this sat?", dun ever think he will get, juz say: "honey, this sat is my bday, get ready a diamond ring and come back for dinner or else u juz get ready to sleep in the crouch!"
4: Man is like a big child!! yaya, thats why man brings their children to take ice cream, going fun fair happily~!
5: Man like woman to praise. for sure, man hope he can do everything, juz see they always like to help woman on doing something, juz because they like to get a praise from woman.

only 4, i agree....

4. yap yap... only the toys differ wz ages....

1,2,3,5.... dun agree...

1. i basically like to flirt(wz words) to anybody,male, female, young or old.... i prefer to call it an art of seduction n influenue....

2. i dun discuss tat of women....

3. guys n gals cant take hints from each other equally well...

5. i think everyone will like to b praised... but guys like to b appreciated while gals will like to b pampered....

mayb both my rite side n my left side of my brain works equally well...

Most males are better at maths and science or should i say topics that needs logic.
Most girls are good at languages or should i say creativity.
Both sides works well. Its just how often you used them.

**MiRyung** · 23-04-2008, 10:48 PM

Haha! I hate maths but love languages~

**Artemis86** · 23-04-2008, 10:53 PM

Try this little test to see if ur brain is dominating ur RIGHT side or LEFT side more

The Right Brain vs Left Brain test ... do you see the dancer turning clockwise or anti-clockwise?
If clockwise, then you use more of the right side of the brain and vice versa.

Most of us would see the dancer turning anti-clockwise though you can try to focus and change the direction; see if you can do it.

LEFT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses logic
detail oriented
facts rule
words and language
present and past
math and science
can comprehend
knowing
acknowledges
order/pattern perception
knows object name
reality based
forms strategies
practical
safe

RIGHT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses feeling
"big picture" oriented
imagination rules
symbols and images
present and future
philosophy & religion
can "get it" (i.e. meaning)
believes
appreciates
spatial perception
knows object function
fantasy based
presents possibilities
impetuous
risk taking