6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship. - Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Sitemap Contact Us FAQ Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Home Photos Member List Register Mark Forums Read  
Go Back Home > Lifestyle > Love & Relationships > Family Matters » 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

Why aren't you a member of SGClub.com yet??

» Join 130,000+ other members in chatting.
» Make lots of new friends here.
» Keep up-to-date with current events.
» Participate in Club outings.
» Download lots of Free Stuff!

Registration just takes 2mins and is absolutely free so join our community today!

I Want to Choose my Own Personal Nickname Now!


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 16th April 2012, 09:33 PM   #1 (permalink)
Janice
janice has a spectacular aura about

 
janice's Avatar
 
Posts: 8,695
Join Date: Feb 2007
Likes: 13
Liked 96 Times in 52 Posts
Gender:

6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

Maintaining a relationship over time is no easy task. Friends or lovers for lifetimes? Both of this relationship has its own meaning to us. Of course, they have different meanings but how you want to keep all these relationships grow like a tree or a flower. It needs food and loving care and time to go strong and become of lasting nature, test by hurricane and darkness of life.

True love only can flow when both partners permanently are open for god! But a relationship to persist all troubles of life, all downs, all “bad times” all wars and crisis of creation needs more than just a bare “IDEA” of I LOVE YOU.

1. A relationship needs to trust each other. Once relationship has undergone the initial delicate phase, the partner may participate more and more in normal life activities. Be together and venture into the storm of life in various part of the planet. Relationship will gain experience and confidence when both of you exposed to other people and dealing with difficult situation and difficult political or cultural environments.


2. A relationship needs daily cares just like a plant. Here on earth a relationship without a daily care and direct loves just like a young plant in the desert of Sahara in a hot and cold sand-storm. NO chance to survive or even grow strong. A partner needs your tender sweet loving care and affection. Daily. A relationship without daily mutual experiences and loving care is scheduled to break apart.


3. A relationship needs a daily spiritual love. Truly flowing spiritual energy from soul to soul direct or indirect. If indirect spiritual love is given, then more hours of indirect love are needed or the relationship will grow slower and be weaker or fragile or possibly break apart. God is resource for all spiritual love.


4. A relationship needs to share. In a well established and well maintained relationship, one day there will be more and more occasions to share with others. Share love, food, financial resources, help, and advice or supply products of their mutual creative and productive work for the joy and benefit of all creation. If you share positive ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.


5. A relationship needs a good communication. Like a plant without nutrient, minerals or fertilizer it can’t grow healthy and stronger. So, do us. Keep a good communication in you daily life. Try to solve any problem without scratching each other but having a talk and all can be saved. Listening to each other. It strengthens the bond between two partners.


6. A relationship needs a well understanding. Want to build a strong relationship? This is one of the important things you should cares about. Take care of all your beloved ones. Remember! They want you to understand them and think about their needs or welfare. What do they like and what they hates most. And believe me; you’ll get benefit in return. Love needs to flow to grow, love needs to be dynamic and varied, but always as direct as possible.

Sponsors:
janice is offline  
Add to janice's Reputation Reply With Quote
The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to janice For This Useful Post:
missy jermanie (19th April 2012), summer_rae (21st April 2012), themightyblue (16th April 2012)
Old 16th April 2012, 09:36 PM   #2 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
themightyblue has a spectacular aura about

 
themightyblue's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,423
Join Date: Feb 2012
Likes: 53
Liked 53 Times in 51 Posts
Gender:

Re: 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

I'm proud to say that we've achieved all of the above!

__________________
-Within the Darkness-

"I will take every morsel of light from this world, so that you have nowhere to run to but the shadows.
And when I find you, they will bring you bound by chains into my chambers where I shall look into your eyes before I rip you from your futile existence.

Your blood shall rain upon my throne of darkness, and seep into the cracks of a world once filled with light."
themightyblue is offline   Add to themightyblue's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 18th April 2012, 04:00 AM   #3 (permalink)
New SGClubber
citysights is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 20
Join Date: Apr 2012
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

I disagree with number three. Plenty of atheist couples can have solid - if not better - relationships compared to their god-fearing counterparts. Shared beliefs are important - just not the religious kind.

citysights is offline   Add to citysights's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 21st April 2012, 12:45 PM   #4 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
summer_rae is on a distinguished road

 
summer_rae's Avatar
 
Posts: 119
Join Date: Feb 2012
Likes: 4
Liked 4 Times in 2 Posts
Gender:

Re: 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

Great Article!

summer_rae is offline   Add to summer_rae's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 21st April 2012, 03:22 PM   #5 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
JoeR is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 84
Join Date: Oct 2011
Likes: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Gender:

Re: 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

Originally Posted by citysights View Post
Plenty of atheist couples can have solid - if not better - relationships compared to their god-fearing counterparts. Shared beliefs are important - just not the religious kind.
It doesn't necessarily prove that spiritual love is worthless. I worry you confuse spirituality with religion. Spiritual people are not afraid of God; religious people are.

JoeR is offline   Add to JoeR's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 21st April 2012, 07:57 PM   #6 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
Thinkinghard is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 75
Join Date: Nov 2011
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

Yes, sometimes people confuse spirituality with religion. Going to church every Sunday wouldn't make you a spiritual person. Spirituality is about loving God and all His creations. There is no hatred in spirituality.

Thinkinghard is offline   Add to Thinkinghard's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 5th September 2012, 07:53 PM   #7 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
Andrew_Chris28 is just really niceAndrew_Chris28 is just really nice

 
Andrew_Chris28's Avatar
 
Posts: 3,924
Join Date: Sep 2012
Likes: 16
Liked 169 Times in 150 Posts
Gender:

Re: 6 important ways to maintain a lasting relationship.

Originally Posted by janice View Post
Maintaining a relationship over time is no easy task. Friends or lovers for lifetimes? Both of this relationship has its own meaning to us. Of course, they have different meanings but how you want to keep all these relationships grow like a tree or a flower. It needs food and loving care and time to go strong and become of lasting nature, test by hurricane and darkness of life.

True love only can flow when both partners permanently are open for god! But a relationship to persist all troubles of life, all downs, all “bad times” all wars and crisis of creation needs more than just a bare “IDEA” of I LOVE YOU.

1. A relationship needs to trust each other. Once relationship has undergone the initial delicate phase, the partner may participate more and more in normal life activities. Be together and venture into the storm of life in various part of the planet. Relationship will gain experience and confidence when both of you exposed to other people and dealing with difficult situation and difficult political or cultural environments.



2. A relationship needs daily cares just like a plant. Here on earth a relationship without a daily care and direct loves just like a young plant in the desert of Sahara in a hot and cold sand-storm. NO chance to survive or even grow strong. A partner needs your tender sweet loving care and affection. Daily. A relationship without daily mutual experiences and loving care is scheduled to break apart.


3. A relationship needs a daily spiritual love. Truly flowing spiritual energy from soul to soul direct or indirect. If indirect spiritual love is given, then more hours of indirect love are needed or the relationship will grow slower and be weaker or fragile or possibly break apart. God is resource for all spiritual love.


4. A relationship needs to share. In a well established and well maintained relationship, one day there will be more and more occasions to share with others. Share love, food, financial resources, help, and advice or supply products of their mutual creative and productive work for the joy and benefit of all creation. If you share positive ideas, you will think of each other as pleasant and enjoyable.


5. A relationship needs a good communication. Like a plant without nutrient, minerals or fertilizer it can’t grow healthy and stronger. So, do us. Keep a good communication in you daily life. Try to solve any problem without scratching each other but having a talk and all can be saved. Listening to each other. It strengthens the bond between two partners.


6. A relationship needs a well understanding. Want to build a strong relationship? This is one of the important things you should cares about. Take care of all your beloved ones. Remember! They want you to understand them and think about their needs or welfare. What do they like and what they hates most. And believe me; you’ll get benefit in return. Love needs to flow to grow, love needs to be dynamic and varied, but always as direct as possible.
Awesome!!!! =)

__________________
I'm The Last Nice Guy of my generation
Andrew_Chris28 is offline   Add to Andrew_Chris28's Reputation Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
How to maintain a relationship? janice Love & Relationships 9 9th February 2012 05:19 AM
Long Lasting relationship? Ipod-Lover Love & Relationships 1 9th August 2009 01:52 PM
How important is intimacy in a relationship? Revy Love & Relationships 31 18th September 2008 12:39 PM
What are the essential ingredients to keep the relationship Long-lasting.... diesopain Love & Relationships 0 5th May 2008 01:54 PM
What do u find/think important in a relationship? arty_29 Love & Relationships 58 20th May 2007 07:04 PM

» Sponsors
Watch Free Movies Online
Celebrity Gossip
Food Delivery

» Facebook Fans
» What's Going On?
Title, Username, & Date
Repost comment.
[Maid abuse] Singapore is a very evil and lawless country. There is broad daylight i
Stupid court of appeal gives red light running driver who hit pedestrian 15% discount
Mum's Kitchen Catering and Cherish Delights get licences suspended after nearly 40 people...
[PMD-pedestrian rules] Singapore Court judges are high handed and biased or court rep
Post anything random on this thread.
Ritter Sport chocolate recalled due to undeclared allergen
Aoki Hagane no Arpeggio: Ars Nova
I really hate my mother!!!
Transcend RDF9K2 All-in-One Card Reader
Transcend ESD250C, a portable SSD that’s super classy
How PAP exploited racial differences to impose FASCIST rule over Singapore.
Up to S$7250 of government $ misused for buying each vote in Singapore?
Funky Fields organic vegan spreadable recalled due to 'undisclosed allergen'
100 hawksbill turtles released into the sea after rare hatching on Sentosa
Inspirational Songs
MOH, SFA investigating after 18 typhoid fever cases in 3 weeks
By militarily invading Hong Kong, Xi Jingping is setting in motion, the wheels of nuc
Deng XiaoPing original vision for HKG- China reunification was for the two to unite a
HSA warns against three products
Featured Photos
by marisoljames322
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by marisoljames322
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by pdsubbu
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by Vikas Dhar
· · ·
Photography
35 photos
36 comments
by aaudreygan
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by aaudreygan
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments
by a8paris
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by a8paris
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by aaricia
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments
by aaricia
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments

 

All times are GMT +8. The time now is 02:42 PM.


Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright© 2004-2013 SGClub.com. All rights reserved.