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Old 18th June 2013, 08:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Do you accept disabled guy?

My colleague got a problem.

A office boy with cerebral palsy had a crush on her.
Every time, he passed by her work desk, he would stare at her.

he once commented that she is very cute, and look abit like Tracy Lee.

However, she would feel very stressed about his crush on her.

So, how do you react when you found that disabled guy had a crush on you?

How do you deal with this?

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Old 17th July 2013, 07:16 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

nops i will never accept a guy with disablity

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Old 17th July 2013, 10:08 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

Had a quite similar scenario before. With a cerebral palsy guy and a hearing impaired. The crush is not harmful in itself. And its kind of discriminating to abruptly just trash their attention just because they are physically challenged. Sometimes People with disabilities are better to love for you know they are not capable of deceit. Besides, love knows no boundary. When it knocks, the heart will succumb no matter what.

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Old 30th July 2013, 12:15 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

If really cannot accept, then don't give false hopes.

Best is to siam whenever she can.

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Whatever u do, must always think of the future, not just the moment.

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NO WAY!!!!!!!

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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

It depends if I thought the guy was cute. Actor RJ Mitte from "Breaking Bad" has a mild form of cerebal palsy and I think he's cute. However, if I was in your colleagues situation and wasn't interested in the guy, I'd treat him the same way as any other man I wasn't interested in. I'd be kind but honest, about my feelings or rather my lack of feelings. To be honest though, I would be a little creeped out if a guy just stared at me, every time I walked by.

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If his condition is not too serious, i think i would still be able to accept him the way he is. But providing that i even feel for him. If not, i think i would avoid him as much as i can.

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Old 12th October 2013, 02:15 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

If your friend doesn't like him she should deal with it in the same manner you would anyone else. You politely tell him that you are flattered but you only see them as a friend and you are not interested in that way. You can't treat someone differently because they have a disability.

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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

If a disabled guy had a crush on me I would think it was cute. I would make him blush by saying thank you and smile at him. I wouldn't accept an invite from him but I wouldn't hurt his feelings if he asked me out either..i would let him down kindly or just tell him I had a boyfriend.

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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

You said it's just a crush. Generally crushes are gotten over within a couple of months. If not, then fine. If she feels the same way it won't matter that he is disabled. If she doesn't, it's just one of those things.

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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

Crush, like, love, being together, they are all different. The same go for 'feel sorry' for that person or really like that person from the bottom of the heart.

If the feeling is there, try it out I would say. If there isn't any chemistry at all, don't waste each other's time. Move on. Anyway, treat it normally. How would she know he is really having a crush on her or he is just merely saying? Anyway, just look away and don't ever look at him whenever he walked pass. If she don't look at him, she wouldn't know that he is watching. Ignore him!

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Old 22nd November 2013, 03:33 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: Do you accept disabled guy?

I had a pretty similar situation too. He's just some guy out in the mall wanted to be friend. Little did I know that he's mute and deaf. Yes, he did no harm to me and he seems like a nice fella. So I some what became his friend.

after only days he told me that he likes me. I did not give him any hopes or whatever. He just asked me out and I couldn't say NO. our conversation was tough because I'll need him to write in order to talk to me haha. It was funny thinking about it now. (I think i was in my teen).

He brought me to see his family and he didn't even tell me about it. So i guess he must have gotten the wrong intention that i had. Since then I didn't keep in touch with him anymore knowing that he might think i'm giving him hopes. I don't know if i did the right thing but It was TOUGH!!!

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