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Old 28th March 2011, 04:15 PM   #1 (permalink)
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advices needed..

If u know there are problems between u and your gf what will u do?
1. Try to find out the problems first then initate the first step.
2. Wait for things to happen
3. Wait for her to initate the first step.
4. Just ignore and continue with life.

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Old 28th March 2011, 06:44 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: advices needed..

Be a man do the RIGHT thing.

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Old 28th March 2011, 08:56 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: advices needed..

definitely number 1.

2. its just a waiting for the problem to manifest =.=
3. well sometimes it can be 3, but as a bf our duty is always to do 1., 3. may just be a bonus at some points in life
4. u cant ignore it forever

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Re: advices needed..

It depends on how these potential problems make themselves known but I'd usually choose the first choice. However, I've experienced that there are girls (and apparently not only a few) who don't want to speak about such things and try to ignore it themselves: thus, there's a risk involved in exacerbating things if you start talking about it... so it really depends on the significance of the problem.

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Depends on the problems but I don't understand what you mean when you said you know there is some problems but then you still need to find out what the problem is. Anyway cheer up, everything can be solved. It's may be a test to your relationship.

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Depends on the problems but I don't understand what you mean when you said you know there is some problems but then you still need to find out what the problem is. Anyway cheer up, everything can be solved. It's may be a test to your relationship.
I'd strongly disagree. There are plenty of problems that cannot be solved - only buried. Especially the ones related to character traits, to insecurities and to emotions are just not solvable. They might decrease in intensity, if you're very lucky they might even vanish over time, but not due to an active approach of 'making them disappear'.

In the end, there are far more reasons for break-ups than for getting together in the first place. The secret of successful relationships is to compromise and to accept. Not to try to solve/change things.

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i suppose its right to do number 1. even if its not your fault, at least initiate the first step would help.
chances are, 3 have a very slim chance of happening.

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