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Old 22nd December 2008, 03:23 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Has anyone has such an ex bf?

Anyone has an ex bf, who keep wanting to get their "first-time", but unsuccessful. Then you request a break up, upon break-up, sms you insulting stuffs? Like how good your body is, how he feel when he touches you, how "shiok" he feel when you two were physically close, all the insulting stuff?

What will you do if you encounter such a ex bf? This happen to my friend, that ex bf still sms her now and then stuff like "Really miss your nip*le and br**st, can I meet you now? 20mins will do.", once he even call using a unknown number, then my friend doesnt know and pick up, he know my friend aint those who slam at phone. And he told my friend to "moan" like last time so that he can mast**bate.

What should my friend do?

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Old 22nd December 2008, 03:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

I've never have such a ex-bf before but I have those who spread untrue rumors about me.

My is really small case, your friend's is really serious.
This has to be reported to the police because it's really considered harassment. Bring your friend to the police station and tell them exactly what happen to her. Save all his sms-es and record all the calls he made (if any) for further evidence to the harassment charge. It is not right to keep harassing a girl and it may lead to depression for your friend.

If your friend is embarrassed, tell the officer you would like to speak to a female officer. Donít let this type of guy go scot-free!

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Old 22nd December 2008, 03:41 PM   #3 (permalink)
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go msg zelcadence. :x

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Old 22nd December 2008, 03:42 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

Sorry, I got to add one more thing. After break-up, he tell you what he has been lying to you all the while. He told my friend that he never visit prostitute, but after break-up. He told her he LOVES prostitute and claim he NEED at least find prostitute at least once a week.

And upon break-up, he even say hurtful things like "Since we were so close last time, why not just let me "enjoy" now, since you are single and you wont "Shao Yi Kuai Rou" too." To make things worse, he say all these thing in a very polite manner. Makes my friend more depressed.
My friend now feel she is a very very cheap girl. Her body is dirty now. She cried everytime she bath.

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I've never have such a ex-bf before but I have those who spread untrue rumors about me.

My is really small case, your friend's is really serious.
This has to be reported to the police because it's really considered harassment. Bring your friend to the police station and tell them exactly what happen to her. Save all his sms-es and record all the calls he made (if any) for further evidence to the harassment charge. It is not right to keep harassing a girl and it may lead to depression for your friend.

If your friend is embarrassed, tell the officer you would like to speak to a female officer. Donít let this type of guy go scot-free!
Fyi, this friend of mine come from a very strict tradition family, she is the only daughter. Parent dotes her a lot, high expectation. If she really report to police, things goes public, I don't think she will have the courage to live on. Who will want her next time? All my friend can do is post forum online, vent her depression, cried to her friends everytime.

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Old 22nd December 2008, 04:13 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Sorry, I got to add one more thing. After break-up, he tell you what he has been lying to you all the while. He told my friend that he never visit prostitute, but after break-up. He told her he LOVES prostitute and claim he NEED at least find prostitute at least once a week.

And upon break-up, he even say hurtful things like "Since we were so close last time, why not just let me "enjoy" now, since you are single and you wont "Shao Yi Kuai Rou" too." To make things worse, he say all these thing in a very polite manner. Makes my friend more depressed.
My friend now feel she is a very very cheap girl. Her body is dirty now. She cried everytime she bath.

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Fyi, this friend of mine come from a very strict tradition family, she is the only daughter. Parent dotes her a lot, high expectation. If she really report to police, things goes public, I don't think she will have the courage to live on. Who will want her next time? All my friend can do is post forum online, vent her depression, cried to her friends everytime.
*Faints* I donít know what to say about this guy, heís useless junk in this world sia!
Try getting your friend to forget about him, if possible, get her to change hp number!

And also, if the guy is really saying the truth about visiting prostitute, your friend has to go check for any infected diseases just in case (you accompany her to go for the check up, HIV testing do not required her name/address so it can be anonymous). However, donít do all things at one go. Your friend is not in a good mental condition now and has to take things slow. As people say, time heals. Slowly get your friend to open up to other guys. If the harassing still continues, please go and report this matter to the police (last resort, seriously). Gather more evidence first. I know it might be hard since Iím not in her position but itís better to make a police report. Not all police report = make public unless some kapoh go tell news reporters.

Your friend will feel dirty because of all the harassing the guy did to her. Cut all her contact to the guy and even msn! Donít let him go near her at all. Assure her that everything will be fine and itís over already. Get her to see a counselor if possible for her depression, prolong depression makes no good for her as it will affect her in every ways (work, study, life, family, relationships)

Lastly, if you know where the guy lives, tell us! I want to go and whack this bloody idiot!

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Old 22nd December 2008, 04:33 PM   #6 (permalink)
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this guy is jus some desperado voyeur sicko,
as said, report to police is the best.
if have photo of they two taken together even better, got picture for us to beat him up >

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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

this type of ppl fo report police as harassment sia...

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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

She don't deserve such thing.. Block him.. Since is thru sms.. Some company give blocking service. call up and ask.

reporting to the police won't change anything because police will just leave it aside.. damn them.

anyway, i got something.. but not like this.. somewhat only..
Ask her mom or parents to talk to the person. ask him to stop calling or smsing their daughter. would be best.

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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

Originally Posted by myzticalz View Post
Lastly, if you know where the guy lives, tell us! I want to go and whack this bloody idiot!
Jio me along oso, this kind of jerk deserve to be whack!!!



post his picture here and we can help to spread through all network^^

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Old 23rd December 2008, 02:09 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

omg. the guy is sickening.

my ex does this to me too, but not as serious as ur frens prob.

he keeps msn/msg me like : i miss ur kisses stuffs.

i just ignore and now, im having a peaceful life.

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nah, luckily nv encounter these before.
what a pervert. didnt know that there's these kind of jerks around.

maybe u wan to ask ur friend go see a psychologist?
it may help ya?

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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

GOODNESS.
your friend should change number!
if the situation gets worse, report to the police.

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Re: Has anyone has such an ex bf?

Originally Posted by Serene91 View Post
Fyi, this friend of mine come from a very strict tradition family, she is the only daughter. Parent dotes her a lot, high expectation. If she really report to police, things goes public, I don't think she will have the courage to live on. Who will want her next time? All my friend can do is post forum online, vent her depression, cried to her friends everytime.
dun worry, i'm sure your friend can request for a pseudonym even if the news really go public.

but i'm sure she has the right to request this to not go public?

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omg. the guy is sickening.

my ex does this to me too, but not as serious as ur frens prob.

he keeps msn/msg me like : i miss ur kisses stuffs.

i just ignore and now, im having a peaceful life.
Yours really don't sound so serious. Anyway, my friend is thinking of changing hp, but one problem, the number is under her parent's name. So she is thinking of "story" to tell her parent, her parent will ask her why she wanted to change hp.

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My ex also similar case, mine is more worse. I dun wish to give him my first time at the chalet where all our friends is there, he get so pissed off that he went out the room calling names and say i'm a slut say i'm a cheap gal... act virgin. Since he rank is quite high in his gang, so everyone believe in him and imagine that i can't even go my hse nearby shopping center cause there will be stranger come up and call me sluts or bitc*. Some ah lians will even think of gang up to beat me. My ex even call me in the middle of the night using public phone either keep quiet or calling me names. I have to avoid going shopping center and study another school.

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My ex also similar case, mine is more worse. I dun wish to give him my first time at the chalet where all our friends is there, he get so pissed off that he went out the room calling names and say i'm a slut say i'm a cheap gal... act virgin. Since he rank is quite high in his gang, so everyone believe in him and imagine that i can't even go my hse nearby shopping center cause there will be stranger come up and call me sluts or bitc*. Some ah lians will even think of gang up to beat me. My ex even call me in the middle of the night using public phone either keep quiet or calling me names. I have to avoid going shopping center and study another school.
These type of people deserve to die lah! How can like that? Did the tauntings stop already? For my character, I will not give in and sure scold the ah lians back one. I hate them. How can like that, girls should always help girls!

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Yours really don't sound so serious. Anyway, my friend is thinking of changing hp, but one problem, the number is under her parent's name. So she is thinking of "story" to tell her parent, her parent will ask her why she wanted to change hp.
Maybe say that there's always weird calls from China etc and you are irritated by them?

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i'll kill myself if I encounter one.. so sick.

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Originally Posted by alexis.075 View Post
My ex also similar case, mine is more worse. I dun wish to give him my first time at the chalet where all our friends is there, he get so pissed off that he went out the room calling names and say i'm a slut say i'm a cheap gal... act virgin. Since he rank is quite high in his gang, so everyone believe in him and imagine that i can't even go my hse nearby shopping center cause there will be stranger come up and call me sluts or bitc*. Some ah lians will even think of gang up to beat me. My ex even call me in the middle of the night using public phone either keep quiet or calling me names. I have to avoid going shopping center and study another school.
why give in? call ur other fren de gang and fight la!!!!!! if its me, that is. lol.

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Idiot guy.. hope she is ok. do go for checkup. to ensure herself.

ignore those msgs also.

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just go to the police, there is nothing much you can do. you want to beat him up? or you want him to get away? or you want your friend to pretend nothing happened and move on?

it's difficult to hold your emotions in such cases, at least let your friend have her own rights.

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