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Old 28th July 2009, 08:11 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Bad Relationships with family~

Im a 22yo guy and i had bad relationships with my family (Parents and Siblings). Im one of those very quiet guys that seldom talk ...either to family members or to friends.

Start having bad relationships with parents when they started working as vegetable sellers. They wanted me to help them temporary on weekends(from 8am) as its more crowded and 1 of the worker quited. They also told me they re now hiring new worker so after they hired a new worker ...i'll not need to hlp them. At first i was like ...umm...ok. Then as time pass...they expect much from me and they actually want me to continue hlping...like now waking me up on 4am ...and asking me to hlp them. I was like....first u told me ...because of lack of manpower ...i hlped...now u jus act like im one of yr workers ...a free one somemore. So sometimes i will like talk back to them when they tell me to do stuff.

When i told them, i dun wanna hlp them anymore...they'll like ...ur the eldest u know...a guy somemore...hlp parents cannot meh...take money u know...without working in market...u think u can get money from us ar....only know how to show black face and use computer the whole day...things do fast fast but not good.Even yr younger sis 20yo and younger bro 16yo hlped more than u ar.

Whenever they scolded me that....i'll jus keep quiet. I dun really let them know how i actually feel. I really feel that they r treating me more like a free worker than a family member...first u told me is temporary...then it becomes permament. Next, im getting more and more things to do ...even more than the other workers. The most i cannot tahan is they always say family members must hlp one another...but to me ...i really dun feel we r 1 family....to me its jus like i know u as mom...as dad....nth special.

I really dunno what i should do...have been hlping them nearly 10 years....

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Re: Bad Relationships with family~

Ur parents got 3 children.

Eg: they open their stall for 6days

Each children help out 2days loh.

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maybe it is time to tell them how you feel?

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Re: Bad Relationships with family~

Bro

It isn't easy for your parent to feed you guy till who are now.

Having a roof above your head, having three meals , clothes, computer everything.

At their age, they still must wake up early in the morning, earn money all,

Not for the sake of themselve, but for you all, to make sure you all get three meals everyday, and if possible thing you all want.

Who won't wan to enjoy shake leg wake up late in the late morning.

PLease understand, they are tire and the same time, they want to provide best of everything for their children,

Please do not think that they treat you as a worker or whatever shit.

In this world, trust me bro, no parent doesn't love their own blood and meat, their children.

They love it, even more than their life. and to them

children is everything .

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