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Old 21st May 2009, 10:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Blamed by my dad for dragging the internet down

Sigh. I have nothing left with me and this is what happens.

My dad claimed that I am the one dragging the entire connection down, calls me a liar and everything for not helping him to fix the internet problem, and now screamed and ranted at me to cut off the entire cable point.

My step-mom and him had been playing this HangZhou Majong game online, from www.gameabc.com. And with Starhub, they've been complaining that I'm the one that's turning the whole family upside down, despite being quiet and just doing everything myself in my room every single day.

Now the problem is, my dad is getting fed-up with this game connection problem, Starhub came but I assumed they've only tested the cable point's strength and local ping/traceroute tests instead of pinging towards other countries. My dad believed the meter more than what I say.

I tried to prove to them with the evidence shown from the ping test, as there's an average of 25-75% packet loss in all 5 ping tests I did to www.gameabc.com when using the home connection.

He proclaimed that he's losing a lot of money online and now screamed at me, he never did that in years to be honest, and it hurts me to actually see the last of whom I can trust do this to me. I have no one else to talk to in my family, all shunned me the same they did to my mom when she was still there back then. There's no one for me to trust anymore.

I did whatever I can, and this problem is still the same. I tried to explain to them that the problem may lie with the ISP on the other side, but they still bit me and called me a liar, denying and pushing everything to me.

Just when they thought their 'sublime' son can help through remote assistance, he just made everything go haywire by messing with manual IP distributions and areas that he's not so sure of. I mended that error and they pointed their finger at me again.

Now everything becomes my fault for their problems, my dad even called me a liar, claimed all the things that I've not done and what I tried to explain. I'm tired of living in this place when they are constantly torturing me with such ordeal. I feel like giving up on everything, there's not a shred of motivation left to do anything for myself or anyone.

If I'm being kept alive by my dad just so he can make himself look better to that woman and son, I'd rather put a knife through my neck in front of them. I'm just the child of a dead mother to put it bluntly, who cares when the father had considered himself as a free man.

Right now, I'm just eating myself everyday as he's addicted to his crap along with that woman. His work hadn't been paying recently, so I'm taking it that he's just upset about not being able to provide for the family. I found a job, but the payment was fxxked up by the employer. Now I'm just stranded in somewhere I don't even know if it last.

Please help, I don't know how long can I last before I go insane.

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Old 22nd May 2009, 09:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Blamed by my dad for dragging the internet down

act blur said u don't know anything about the error
ask him call the starhub people to settle
get a few words from him during the process won't harm
avoid him for a few weeks or months might work

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Re: Blamed by my dad for dragging the internet down

try to call the ISP. and make sure that you are not the troubelmaker of the internet down, if they still blame you.. please ask them prove it. in front of you and your dad.

That can couse of virus on the computer.. so check the computer too...
don't give up... try to prove that you are not guilty.

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Re: Blamed by my dad for dragging the internet down

Move out and stay with your relative ~

This maybe charge as child abuse ~

Without proper income and feeding child can be charges too ~

If you hate him that much, Just move away ~

Physical abuse you the you go to police straight ~

Sentence those heartless parents ~ Never give chance ~

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Re: Blamed by my dad for dragging the internet down

Maybe its time for them to take some Computer Courses lol.


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Re: Blamed by my dad for dragging the internet down

He's just venting his anger on you, happens. If you have no way out, just suck it up :/

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