Cant get someone out of my head!?

**anberlin** · 05-09-2009, 08:59 PM

Okay... Basically i just cant get this girl out of my head. I barely even know her, So why is she always in my head?! I think about something completely random, and then she always pops up!
The only reason this is weird is because i am sure that i definitely dont like or have a crush on her...

so why the hell is she in my brain!?

P.S.: And i always try to look out for her at the bus-stop when i am leaving for work.

**coolet** · 05-09-2009, 09:03 PM

ur inner self took a fancy of her without u realising?

**ngqiyun** · 05-09-2009, 09:07 PM

lol that's weird. You don't like her and u think of her and u always look out for her O.O maybe you and that girl have like something? like..... chemistry?

or perhaps she's attractive? Wait, you don't even like her -.- dunnoe what i talking about liao LOL

**anberlin** · 05-09-2009, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by coolet

ur inner self took a fancy of her without u realising?

i guess so...i did not really notice her for a very long time till one day she had a change of hairstyle...from then, i always felt this desire to always look out for her at the bus stop.

Imagine your heart fluttered with excitement, and i got those butterflies I hadn't felt in years.

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Originally Posted by ngqiyun

lol that's weird. You don't like her and u think of her and u always look out for her O.O maybe you and that girl have like something? like..... chemistry?

or perhaps she's attractive? Wait, you don't even like her -.- dunnoe what i talking about liao LOL

She look very pleasant, like the girl next door... sometimes you wish you can take her to your mum...it is like those kind of feelings.

Caelum · 05-09-2009, 09:14 PM

i guess it's just an infatuation.

i used to have such infatuations with some the customers who walk into our travel agency to enquire about tours. i remember they were usually guys in their mid 20s wearing formal attire, spiky haired and with black rimmed glasses, lol.

don't need to worry about it, it will go away soon, hahaha.

**anberlin** · 05-09-2009, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Caelum

i guess it's just an infatuation.

i used to have such infatuations with some the customers who walk into our travel agency to enquire about tours. i remember they were usually guys in their mid 20s wearing formal attire, spiky haired and with black rimmed glasses, lol.

don't need to worry about it, it will go away soon, hahaha.

Problem is I always see her at the bus-stop every weekday...it has been about a month or so.. I previously dont recall seeing her at that bus-stop...maybe she was there, i dont know. I only really noticed her when i saw a change of hairstyle..Previously she always had the ghostly run-down kind of look

**DestinYnFate** · 05-09-2009, 09:19 PM

Maybe you like her but you just didn't realise yet. Or maybe you are just too attracted to her.

**anberlin** · 05-09-2009, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by DestinYnFate

Maybe you like her but you just didn't realise yet. Or maybe you are just too attracted to her.

yeah but last week she disappeared..i did not see her for one week..maybe she does shifts.. I hope to catch to see her this week.. and i dont know whether i really like her...of course i know my standards...i wont try to go after her since she looks better than average and i am below average...

**jwng** · 05-09-2009, 11:32 PM

Hi bro, i last time take bus to sch also got same prob. I'll always be looking out for this certain girl every morning at the busstop even though i don't like her. It's like, it has become a habit for me every morning.

Maybe, just maybe, deep down, you've thought that this girl has the potential to attract you or maybe advance further. So why not try being friends with her first? Don't like me, when graduate liao i wanna see her then no more chance cos i think different schools.

**anberlin** · 05-09-2009, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by jwng

Hi bro, i last time take bus to sch also got same prob. I'll always be looking out for this certain girl every morning at the busstop even though i don't like her. It's like, it has become a habit for me every morning.

Maybe, just maybe, deep down, you've thought that this girl has the potential to attract you or maybe advance further. So why not try being friends with her first? Don't like me, when graduate liao i wanna see her then no more chance cos i think different schools.

haha...i personally thought of approaching her too...but there are too many people at the bus stop.. i cant do it..

**DestinYnFate** · 05-09-2009, 11:40 PM

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Originally Posted by anberlin

yeah but last week she disappeared..i did not see her for one week..maybe she does shifts.. I hope to catch to see her this week.. and i dont know whether i really like her...of course i know my standards...i wont try to go after her since she looks better than average and i am below average...

See, when you didn't get to see her, you will feel a sense of disappointment, and you will think to yourself when she appear right? Whether you like her or not, you have to truly ask your heart. Because in my point of view, you seems to like her, or just seemly attracted to her.(But it's the same I guess? LOL). Come on don't suan yourself. Inner beauty is more pretty then outer beauty. Just like the person above me say, be friends with her first.

**anberlin** · 05-09-2009, 11:42 PM

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Originally Posted by DestinYnFate

See, when you didn't get to see her, you will feel a sense of disappointment, and you will think to yourself when she appear right? Whether you like her or not, you have to truly ask your heart. Because in my point of view, you seems to like her, or just seemly attracted to her.(But it's the same I guess? LOL). Come on don't suan yourself. Inner beauty is more pretty then outer beauty. Just like the person above me say, be friends with her first.

maybe you are right...but it is a lack of courage that prevents me from moving forward...and the fear of rejection

**DestinYnFate** · 05-09-2009, 11:47 PM

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maybe you are right...but it is a lack of courage that prevents me from moving forward...and the fear of rejection

Haha you are on the same boat with me. I am 16 and I fell in love with a 14 years old.
(Love at first sight somemore..) I also lack of courage and the fear of rejection is stopping me. But i have message with her and she say she know who am I, but don't know how I look like. So I am waiting for a chance to say a simple "Hello" and smile a cute face like this >>

when I see her in school. But anberlin, if you don't like that girl, try not to don't bother her, but it's highly a chance that you like that woman.

Stuoid_Panda · 05-09-2009, 11:51 PM

it like ur heart say u like her but ur mind say nah...i dont

so follow ur heart n go ask her. be friends wif her.
maybe she waiting for u to ask her..
then see u wait so long. change tactic..
so why wait. be friends n get to know her more!

battleboy131 · 05-09-2009, 11:54 PM

u love her without realising it i guess...

I hate this feeling when a girl image is stuck in your brain and never come out, it do feel sucks.

**qiann-loves** · 05-09-2009, 11:57 PM

or maybe you're already used to seeing her at the bus stop , then when a few day you didnt see her , then you'll look out for her ! hahaaa~

**jwng** · 06-09-2009, 03:06 AM

Lol if you're too shy to approach her, try making some eye contact first, then if she look back try to smile with confidence. Remember, must smile with confidence, if you give her those weak tiko smile, she confirm think you're crazy or a stalker.

**♥アキクラ~** · 06-09-2009, 03:13 AM

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Originally Posted by jwng

Lol if you're too shy to approach her, try making some eye contact first, then if she look back try to smile with confidence. Remember, must smile with confidence, if you give her those weak tiko smile, she confirm think you're crazy or a stalker.

If she likes you back, sure, she'll smile confidently.
But if she doesn't, the plan will backfire. She still will think you're a siao.

XiaoJie92 · 06-09-2009, 10:56 AM

aiyo boy ar..
dun anyhow look at girls..
see.. she can't get you of out of ur head now.. hahas.
continue barh..
see if she can be ur life partner.. 0o

**anberlin** · 06-09-2009, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by qiann-loves

or maybe you're already used to seeing her at the bus stop , then when a few day you didnt see her , then you'll look out for her ! hahaaa~

What to do? i try not to look out for her.. but once i leave my house, my eyes go looking out for her...very xianz.

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If she likes you back, sure, she'll smile confidently.
But if she doesn't, the plan will backfire. She still will think you're a siao.

that is why i dont try to smile when i see her. just in case she does not smile back. I will feel awkward going back to that bus stop after that. and the next bus stop is 300 metres away..!!

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Originally Posted by battleboy131

u love her without realising it i guess...

I hate this feeling when a girl image is stuck in your brain and never come out, it do feel sucks.

And it sucks real big time..

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Originally Posted by XiaoJie92

aiyo boy ar..
dun anyhow look at girls..
see.. she can't get you of out of ur head now.. hahas.
continue barh..
see if she can be ur life partner.. 0o

How i wish she cant get me out of her head...

but that is not likely to happen..