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Old 20th February 2008, 11:01 PM   #1 (permalink)
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does he care as a friend or something else?

he knows you're not happy with your guy so he advises you to end the relationship. but when you don't & stand up for your guy, he gets angry & doesn't talk to you for weeks. i'm getting confused with him always going all hot & cold. is it cos he doesn't like to see his friends unhappy or is it something else?

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Old 20th February 2008, 11:44 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

stand up for ur guy? like?

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

he says my guy should be paying for my studies. & if he doesn't do that, means he's not good enough for me. dots.

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

oic. den i tink it is pretty obvious he likes u if he does extra stuffs like, msging u n asking u lame stuffs. clicking u on msn to chit chat very often. den yeah. tt's my opinion

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

well, i would think that way too. i like him alot. practically spend my day waiting for his msgs or calls. but he told me twice he wasn't interested. though the last time was bout 6 mths ago... after i gave up, that's when he started msg me everytime when i was on msn. does asking how i'm doing count as lame? but we just argued on saturday. hasn't been talking to me since then.

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Old 21st February 2008, 12:20 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

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well, i would think that way too. i like him alot. practically spend my day waiting for his msgs or calls. but he told me twice he wasn't interested. though the last time was bout 6 mths ago... after i gave up, that's when he started msg me everytime when i was on msn. does asking how i'm doing count as lame? but we just argued on saturday. hasn't been talking to me since then.
u like him alot? pardon me, wat abt ur bf? he told u he wasnt interested, were u attached tt time? if u were, denhis answer cannot be deemed acceptable. asking how u're doing isnt lame. but if he clicks on u every alt day or even daily. den it is VERY lame.

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Old 21st February 2008, 12:43 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

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u like him alot? pardon me, wat abt ur bf? he told u he wasnt interested, were u attached tt time? if u were, denhis answer cannot be deemed acceptable. asking how u're doing isnt lame. but if he clicks on u every alt day or even daily. den it is VERY lame.



ooops.. mistake. i liked him alot. past tense. my bad.
but the 2nd time he told me he wasn't interested, i was already attached for a few months. we were talking bout the past & suddenly the topic cropped up. can't remember why though. was kinda drunk already.

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ooops.. mistake. i liked him alot. past tense. my bad.
but the 2nd time he told me he wasn't interested, i was already attached for a few months. we were talking bout the past & suddenly the topic cropped up. can't remember why though. was kinda drunk already.
haiyoyo, i wld suggest u confront him. since u're like waiting for his call n sms everyday. den if he turns u down straight again. den forget him

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Old 21st February 2008, 01:02 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

the last time we addressed this issue was 6 months ago. don't think a guy can change his mind so fast. moreover, we haven't seen each other since then. cos he doesn't like to go out with other people's 'property'. anyway, about a month after he rejected me, i just didn't want to bother about him anymore. i can't say i feel nothing for him now. that would be lying. you can't forget about somebody you were completely crazy over that easily. honestly, i'm more pissed at him then anything else now. he has no right to be angry at me. while i have every right too.

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Old 27th February 2008, 03:46 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

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he knows you're not happy with your guy so he advises you to end the relationship. but when you don't & stand up for your guy, he gets angry & doesn't talk to you for weeks. i'm getting confused with him always going all hot & cold. is it cos he doesn't like to see his friends unhappy or is it something else?
ask him very directly =]

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

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he says my guy should be paying for my studies. & if he doesn't do that, means he's not good enough for me. dots.

Does he mean he will help you pay if he's your guy?

And why he think as your guy (regardless of who he is), your guy should be paying for your studies? A bf is not an ATM.

Some guys are wierd. They are not willing to commit into a relationship, but they can't let go.
Guess even if your guy helps to pay for your studies, he will make up other reasons to make you break up.

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Old 28th February 2008, 12:33 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

I think he may like u...he may be jealous of ur guy...
are u really unahappy with ur guy?
Will u be happier with this guy instead?

And i don understand why he says ur bf must pay for ur studies...abit weird... ya, bf is not ATM machine... Zzz

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Old 29th February 2008, 03:46 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

no idea. he says it's my guy's responsibility, since my mum doesn't want to. weird people.

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

NOpe, it should be your own responsibility since it would benefit you most in the long run...

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

it's ur own future u are talking about.
he is not responsible for the course fee at all.
hmmm. i guess ur friend cares alot for u.
since u are attached, u shouldn't think too much..
if u feel that he is going over an extend, mebbe can talk to him.
to prevent misunderstandings. : )

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

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he knows you're not happy with your guy so he advises you to end the relationship. but when you don't & stand up for your guy, he gets angry & doesn't talk to you for weeks. i'm getting confused with him always going all hot & cold. is it cos he doesn't like to see his friends unhappy or is it something else?
He might actually like you.

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He's in love with you secretly.

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Re: does he care as a friend or something else?

I tend to just keep quiet if that were to happen to me. Partly because it's hard to talk to someone who is temperamental. I suppose the guy might also feel that he has listened enough to all the complains (if this is not the first or second time).

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