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10-12-2008, 12:45 AM
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had a talk with my gf earlier.
details i skipped. she hardly spend time with me for the past 2 months, busy with work was what she said, 1 thing im puzzled.
she said, if im feeling thats shes holding back my time, i can initiate a breakup, she will accept. but she will be sad if i do so.
i felt happy when she said she will be sad, but if i were to look at the earlier sentence, i feel that its LPPL.
1 more thing is, is is true that the person who initiates a breakup, will be the party who dui bu qi the other party?
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10-12-2008, 12:56 AM
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aiyo dude.. your kind is call peaceful break up lar..
and sad to tell you that gal is lying to you lar.. everything gals said are opposite one.. she say sad mean don't sad...
she's hinting you that you can breakup with her.. and hoping that you do likewise..
look.. young couples like you guys love to meet each other to the slightest bit.. like never meet will die de.. how can she endure for 2 whole months? from what i know gals love to meet guys more than guys meet gal.. so don't you think something's fishy??
think you needa get a new relation sooon
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10-12-2008, 12:58 AM
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Originally Posted by mosidiot  and sad to tell you that gal is lying to you lar.. everything gals said are opposite one.. she say sad mean don't sad...
she's hinting you that you can breakup with her.. and hoping that you do likewise.. |
bu ming bai, can elaborate?
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10-12-2008, 01:07 AM
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ok... don't know why.. gals always like that de.. like say don't like, don't like say like or don't know... they always like to say somethnig to confuse you de.. like now...
she already indirectly initiated a breakup with you liao.. why will someone bo dai bo zi even will talk about breaking up? at most she should say "I am sorry xxxxx, recently very busy.. please bear with it..." but now, she ji tao hint you for a break up...
she tell you she will accept means she doesn't want to cling on to this relationship or savage it anymore... if someone would treasure each other, they would try their very best not to even mention break up or whatever shyt de.. now she just said it so flippantly..
yes.. she might be sad because she thought she let you down or miss you as a friend.. but dude.. sorry to tell you but this kind of thing is a matter of time de... Quote:
Originally Posted by frog bu ming bai, can elaborate? |
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10-12-2008, 01:11 AM
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hmmm i would definitely not state that shes lying since you never know what people are thinking. but personally, i dont like it when the girl mentions about break up. she talks about it so easily like it doesnt affect her.
work is from 8-5. you guys can still chill for dinner... or chit chat.. or go visit each other at night... whats stopping u guys?
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10-12-2008, 01:15 AM
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Originally Posted by workingtoohard hmmm i would definitely not state that shes lying since you never know what people are thinking. but personally, i dont like it when the girl mentions about break up. she talks about it so easily like it doesnt affect her.
work is from 8-5. you guys can still chill for dinner... or chit chat.. or go visit each other at night... whats stopping u guys? | 24 hours is not even enough for her to work. got time chill? lolsss
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10-12-2008, 01:20 AM
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no need see liao lar.. save your face.. initial break up first.. spend time looking for new love...
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10-12-2008, 01:23 AM
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Originally Posted by frog 24 hours is not even enough for her to work. got time chill? lolsss | huh? comon man. if ur not gonna put any effort into the relationship then might as well forget about it...
theres breakfast, lunch and dinner. she has to eat sometime somehow somewhere. if she cherishes the relationship and so do you, you guys will make it happen.
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10-12-2008, 02:05 AM
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well, she did sms me last week asking me to give her time to settle down on her work.
i take that as a hope for me lol
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10-12-2008, 02:23 AM
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She will be sad, but maybe for a little while.
Then she go shopping, hang out with her gfs, go clubbing meet cute guys and think "Thank god, I'm single!"
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10-12-2008, 02:27 AM
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yar.. your pretty stubborn.. and sure you know how to console yourself..
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It's only a matter of time, trust me, i do have this experiences before =)
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girls are hard to understand lolssss
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Originally Posted by frog had a talk with my gf earlier.
details i skipped. she hardly spend time with me for the past 2 months, busy with work was what she said, 1 thing im puzzled.
she said, if im feeling thats shes holding back my time, i can initiate a breakup, she will accept. but she will be sad if i do so.
i felt happy when she said she will be sad, but if i were to look at the earlier sentence, i feel that its LPPL.
1 more thing is, is is true that the person who initiates a breakup, will be the party who dui bu qi the other party? | If there's Nothing left to save in a relationship, then what is there to dui bu qi? You've tried your utmost to salvage whatever was left with her, didn't you?
And as for her saying she will be sad if you initiate a breakup, it could be an attempt to soften the blow to you.
To cut a long story short, you may Not be a priority in her life. You could just be there so that she still has the assurance she has a bf & Nothing else. It ain't like she's making any effort at all.........
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10-12-2008, 09:21 AM
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in somewhat of a similar situation with frog now. emphatize with u dude..still holding out hope..
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10-12-2008, 10:26 AM
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I would say that she has no more feeling for ya, girls normally would treat relationship matters seriously.. Like some of them said, she indirectly initiated a break up.. So, ya, it's up to you to decide afterall..
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prepare for a new relationship..
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