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Old 29th September 2010, 08:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My diary found help me Urgent!!

Help me guys!!!! My mother actually not my mother
My step mom itchy fingers touch my things and found
My diary. And the diary i got write bad things about her
Actually i always know she always like to invade my privacy and touch my things
Now she is very mad so how anyone can help me?

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:04 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

is ok de la...secrets also get found out. thats what they r kept for. y u write bad things abt her? if u really dont like her maybe have a 1 to 1 chat lo... always work out for me.. but dont talk about other things..go straight to the point.

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:11 AM   #3 (permalink)
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How to have a one to one chat if she don't like me too? She say she don't like my attitude she say she don't know my attitude is this bad she tell my dad..i also don't like her attitude she always likes to bitch about things

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:17 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

aiya...last time i oso know got people like that de....i tell the person i wan know more abt him and let him know more about me..basically likes and dislikes..so less conflict lo...if dont want chat/reolve matter that means running away from the problem... she is ur stepmom leh...u all will live together for quite long time..better solve it sooner than later. one friend better than one more enemy.

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:36 AM   #5 (permalink)
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But she invade my privacy lei she found out i write bad things about her. Good lor i purposely hide my dairy she still open and read good for her lor

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:39 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Btw she is rich and proud

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:41 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

lets see what the other have to say...when u said 'rich and proud' i dont feel like i can help out anymore. i can deal with rich and poor people, but i dont deal with proud people. nothing u say ever gets into their head(provided they even listen to u in the first place...listen, not hear) hear = go in one ear, come out the other

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:52 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Thanks for ur help

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Old 29th September 2010, 09:57 AM   #9 (permalink)
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But the diary is not meant to be read
I wrote the diary as one purpose in mind that is to treat it as a councelling tool to tell all my feelings in it. I written some horrible stuff that i myself don't even bear to read

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Old 29th September 2010, 05:03 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

she is wrong to invade ur privacy, but could it be that she is just concern or curious on what's going on inside ur mind?

beside the point, did the both of u try to be nice to each others before?

or do u simply hate her right from the start?

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Old 29th September 2010, 05:17 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I did not hate her from the start she was nice in the beginning before my father divorced with my second mother my real mother passed away sadly... Then now i am so called staying in her apartment and my dad married her she never really talk to me

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Old 29th September 2010, 05:33 PM   #12 (permalink)
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burn your diary. the first thing about denial is always get rid of evidence first. and hope she never photocopy or take pics of the foul bits about her.

after that, keep on apologising whenever it is brought up cos women never forget the wrong done to them.

if not, it will be very hard to live under the same roof for a long time.

and stop writing stuff. since u know she will search, it is hopeless to hide. otherwise, write in code. i used to write in code only i know how to read. just for fun. but in your case, maybe for survival.

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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

Well, get used to it.

She's probably not your last mother and seriously, even if she is, you need to give her respect and recognise her as the wife of your father.

I am sure you heard about father don't want son because of new marriages, it does happen and you wouldn't wanna land yourself in that kinda douchey situation.

Good luck for now, I say, apologise to her sincerely and do that in front of your dad so he knows you did your part. Even if she bad mouth you again, your dad will always think of you trying your best to get along.

Never talk bad about her to your dad because the ball is in her hand and you really don't want daddy to think you are stubborn, spoilt and beyond his control.


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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

may i ask, how old are you ?

you hate your current mother simply because of what reasons ?

If there isn't hatred in you on her, i think you should be open up and be a gentleman, saying sorry and hopefully that in the future you two can become mother & son relationship instead of current state.
Be sincere about this

you might want to have a 1 to 1 chat session with her and tell her about why you wrote those stuff... because she was a stranger to you etc... and hopefully she forgives you and start afresh ?

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Old 29th September 2010, 08:35 PM   #15 (permalink)
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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

haiz am i really in the wrong for doing this.... i am already so stressed i need a place to tell out my feelings since i got few friends i write a diary lor writing diary is wrong??
i really can't talk to her lei i got a feeling is like she always badmouth me is like very hard for me to open to her...even if i say sorry to her the hatred is still there somehow and she is always telling stuff to my dad about me why can't she just tell me directly?? does she want me to ask her to next time tell directly if you not happy with anything whatsoever
cause she is always bitching about simple things like never wash my cup after drinking...

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Well, get used to it.

She's probably not your last mother and seriously, even if she is, you need to give her respect and recognise her as the wife of your father.

I am sure you heard about father don't want son because of new marriages, it does happen and you wouldn't wanna land yourself in that kinda douchey situation.

Good luck for now, I say, apologise to her sincerely and do that in front of your dad so he knows you did your part. Even if she bad mouth you again, your dad will always think of you trying your best to get along.

Never talk bad about her to your dad because the ball is in her hand and you really don't want daddy to think you are stubborn, spoilt and beyond his control.
it's too late i think my dad already think that i am good for nothing son...But i am thinking on the positive side

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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

hey hey, im glad to hear(read) ur looking on the bright side. yes i agree with the others. if u dont hate her, that is good. treat her as if u would treat ur mum. yes i know that ur mum cannot be replaced in ur heart. did her attitude towards u change after discovering ur diary? becos diary usually means something people keep close to their heart...what they really feel. therefore maybe she feel guilty about treating u badly as well? try treating her nicely and see how she responds. dont do it just in front of ur dad. make it a habit, its common courtesy and maybe it will change their opinion of u as well.

and yes i agree with the person who said 1v1 talk.

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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

She's in the wrong for peeping on your dairy...
Dairy are suppose to be personal stuff... She shouldn't sees it without your permission...
Tell your dad about it...

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Infact after reading the diary she is more hostile towards me.my dad.. I don't even need to tell my dad she alrdy tell him...

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Re: My diary found help me Urgent!!

Maybe I suggest you to lock up important things in a cabinet...
talk to your dad on how you feel, then apologize to ur stepmother..
next time set up a private blog, and she wont get to know

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