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Old 9th November 2008, 10:52 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

If you're in a relationship...

State first that you're in a relationship then...

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
State Yes/No and Reason for this decision.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
#I would just break up, I am an attention seeker.

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
State Yes/No and How long have you been in this relationship.

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If you're not in a relationship..

State first that you're in a relationship then...

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
State Yes/No and Reason for this decision.

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Go straight to her face and tell her that I like him, without him knowing
#Go straight to your crush and tell him you like him, ask him about his feelings
#Let nature take it's course
#Flirt a little with him, hopefully he'd want to go a step more with you





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Old 10th November 2008, 02:38 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Yes

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

NOT in a relationship


Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
No.

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
#Let nature take it's course

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes.
Miss him too much,lol.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Break lor.

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Nopes, eh 1month + only LOL.

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

NOT in a relationship.

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
No cus i dont have the guts, plus i will never ever confess to a guy.

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
#Let nature take it's course

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
No. However if its more than one day, then i would initiate

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with


Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
no. 5 months

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Not in a Relationship

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
No

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
#Let nature take it's course

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

If you're in a relationship...

State first that you're in a relationship then...

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Ans: Yes, coz I will get worried about him. Will sms him to see if he's alright.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-

Ans: Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with


Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Ans: No ,1 month. LOL

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Old 21st November 2008, 11:46 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Not in a Relationship

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
Yes, but i will act like there's no big deal abt it. Will never confess or hint that i like him.

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
#Let nature take it's course

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Originally Posted by sanz07 View Post
If you're in a relationship...

State first that you're in a relationship then...

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
State Yes/No and Reason for this decision.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
#I would just break up, I am an attention seeker.

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
State Yes/No and How long have you been in this relationship.
In a relationship:
1. Yes
2. None of above. My bf doesn't do this to me. But if it does happens, I will keep telling him about it.
3. Yes. Still in the relationship, near 6 years. But that happens quite long ago already.

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

In.

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
No. Can always talk face-to-face.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
#I would just break up, I am an attention seeker.

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Nope, i doubt he dares to.
5 years.

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Re: Do you INITIATE or WAIT?

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes. But he usually calls me very often

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
#I would just break up, I am an attention seeker.
-i would break up, not cuz im an attention seeker -.- but i dont like the feeling of being insecure about our relationship all the time-

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
nope. dont know how long LOL.

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Section answered : Both of the above.

When im in r/s:

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
I'll usually wait till nite time, if i dont recieve any msg or cor from him, *evil grin* i dont think he will wan to recieve my first msg of the day. Of cos, sometimes i'll still drop a few sweet msges. And i mean SOMETIMES. Reasons is simple, tok to me before u want me to tok to u. Cr for me before u wan me to cr for u.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
I will spare him only 30% of my love and attention since im only getting 30% of his time.
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Yes. And when i let him haf enough space, he asked me, why dont i seems to care. -_- Nice one uh? lasted 3yrs plus, and my turn telling him, pls i nid to breathe.

When im not in r/s:

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
Once in a while, like 2 times out of 20? or maybe 50. reason: unknown. its jus me.

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
Lets haf a fair competition. but.. if its my reali reali good fren and she cant live w/o th guy, i'll just walk away.


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Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes. Sometimes he's just too busy. So i can guanxin guanxin him.. hah but if this gets too often, he will knows whats gonna happen to him.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
I wouldn't let him do that. i know he wont too. but IF he did, i'll do the same to him but a little worse. i'll spend 80% of my time with frens.

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Nope, i dont tie him down. i know both of us do need freedom. But he just gotta know the limits.

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Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Depends on whether i remember. Sometimes i'll drop him a random message to let him know i'm thinking of him

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
#I would just break up, I am an attention seeker.

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Nope. 4 years plus.

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Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes.to tell him i miss him.

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
Make a fuss to gain his attention

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
Yes.1year+

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IN A RELATIONSHIP

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes, sometimes girl should take teh initiative to do something but guys should be more
aware of this, they should be more caring to their gf!

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
I will choose #1 Make a fuss to gain his attention


Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
No, 2years going 3rd already, infact im the one who told this to him sometime when we argue face to face. ><

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not in relationship .

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
hmmm , will sms asking lame questions

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
#Flirt a little with him, hopefully he'd want to go a step more with you

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IN A R/S.


Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
#I dont give a damn about it, it's his decision
#Though it affects me alot, i'd find my friends to hang out with
#I would just break up, I am an attention seeker.

LOL. but 98% of the time, he won't go out with his friends without me.


Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"

No. going 1 year in another month.

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Not in relationship
Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to your boy if he doesn't contact you?
Yes. love is a mutual thing... it muz not always be the guys to call 1st.. comeon. we're in 21th century already..

Qns 2: If he's spending 70% of his FREE TIME with his friends and not with you, while you have been communicating to him that you need some attention yet it didn't change much, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Make a fuss to gain his attention
though if given a free choice, i would join him n his friends together..

Qns 3: Have your guy ever tell you that "I think you're tying me down too much, I think I need to breathe"
State Yes/No and How long have you been in this relationship.
no. 8months

If you're not in a relationship..

State first that you're in a relationship then...

Qns 1: Do you Initiate an sms/call to a guy you're interested in if he doesn't contact you?
Yes. I believe in taking initiative to woo the person i like..

Qns 2: If you know an existence of this 'love rival', someone who's as of opportunity as you to be of one step closer to him, which happens to be your friend, what would you do?
Choose 1 of the following-
#Go straight to your crush and tell him you like him, ask him about his feelings
but of coz, that is if i sense that he likes me too la...


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