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Old 9th November 2009, 07:55 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Do your parents do this?

Come to you and start a fight for no apparent reason, and turn around and say that you find fault with them. Its like "wtf?".

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Old 9th November 2009, 07:58 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Cool down, i'm sure they did not mean it. Did you misbehave in the first place?

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Old 9th November 2009, 08:00 PM   #3 (permalink)
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yepps. did happen. kinda irritating. den they make it my fault, talk some sense out from them and in the end, i just shut up. 'cause no point talking so much to them

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Old 9th November 2009, 08:46 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

they suddenly just raise their voice when you do nothing wrong like eg. take a drink only -.- and when i tried to rebutt and "what the hell i do?!" they just give all sorts of lame reasons lol. say i finding trouble when i dont know anything. Sometimes is just lol and "what the hell they thinking o.o" in your mind. haha.

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Old 9th November 2009, 08:49 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

Chill. Your parents might be in some other stress that you might not know.
Sit down and talk with them if you have some time.
Sometimes, we spent more time online and with friends.
Ask yourself, do you spend enough quality time with your parents and family?

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Old 10th November 2009, 12:44 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

parents is like dat.
they tend to realise the stress on the child..
but then..go ask them what wrong. keeping quiet no use

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Old 10th November 2009, 12:53 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

That's pretty typical nowadays. Especially if you're a teenager.

Statistics has shown that (well actually it is just a common knowledge) parents nowadays shows their care via quarreling with their children for no apparent reason. And it doesn't help that we rebuke back too (since they'll think that we're not giving them their much needed respect). Therefore, most people choose the option to avoid seeing each other, which leads to much lesser friction and thus lesser arguments.

But the best way to do (I'm not someone that does this either) is to sit down and have a good talk with them, it is possible that they've got something burning to know/ ask about you and they don't dare/ feel awkward to approach you hence leading to the sudden arguments. So don't be surprised if they tend to find faults in almost everything (or maybe nothing) in you, apart from the reasons listed above, it is also possible that they've reached menopause....

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Old 10th November 2009, 08:18 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

I get that from both my parents and it really sucks, but that's their generation teaching and when our tyme comes then just make sure you don't do the same your parents did to you.

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Re: Do your parents do this?

whenever i argue with my parents.they will say that oh i have change a lot.. and it seems that i can never ever win them one. so at the end. even though im not in wrong, i will still got to " admit" that im wrong -.-..

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Re: Do your parents do this?

Parents are like that,
im tired of arguing with them already.
just keep quiet, wait everything cool down.

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Re: Do your parents do this?

Originally Posted by Stuoid_Panda View Post
parents is like dat.
they tend to realise the stress on the child..
but then..go ask them what wrong. keeping quiet no use
Hello, dun generalise all parents hor, Uncle not like this hor, me very good to my childrens, treat them like friends and buddies ya.

I think many parents are stressed out, they might had quarrel, lost in gamble, get scolded by bosses, or simply too much works, etc etc, all these causes bad mood, and sad that they alway put it on their childrens to vet their frustration, some put it by abusing maid ending up getting charged in court. Alots of them do not know how to control stress and emotion, all these lead to mid life crisis.

Uncle being friendly to my own childrens, open up communication, which is good for all.
Must learn how to be happy parenting.

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Originally Posted by Drake Memtor View Post
I get that from both my parents and it really sucks, but that's their generation teaching and when our tyme comes then just make sure you don't do the same your parents did to you.
Now you talk, make sure when u become a parent, dun act like them. Every generation have a generation gap, must learn to respect each other differences. For that, my kids learned cooking from me, and I learned how to play PS3, PSP, and even Wii until i get addicted....play until burnt..


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Old 10th November 2009, 02:03 PM   #12 (permalink)
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No, they don't

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Old 10th November 2009, 02:13 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

normally when my father scolds me for things that i don't do, i will do either of the 2...

1) totally ignore him and let him shout all he wants... chances are, he will stop because he knows he's not getting my attention... and besides, it's not my fault so rebutting is just stupid... i don't want to scoop down to the level to make him think i'm defending myself because it's not even my fault...

2) when he starts to shout, i will be extremely calm (to the point that i'm really not affected) and say "it's none of my business / 不管的事,我不知道"... he will start to yak and i will resume back tactic 1 and continue doing my things... my father will probably get annoyed but who's the winner? you~ you're in control of the situation by not starting the whole world war...

no point arguing when it's not your fault, i've learnt... you will only end up quarreling and i'm sick of that...

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Old 10th November 2009, 02:27 PM   #14 (permalink)
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Re: Do your parents do this?

my dad no, my mum yes. haha she always stress about money and complain everything nonstop. When she is having bad mood, she will find things to say or scold us and start nagging nonstop.

Although i find her very unreasonable sometimes, it really irritates me, but i forgive her because she is my mother and i know she is not educated and start working since very young. I tried to talk to her before, but it's very hard to communicate, her thinking and view is really different from us so yea, just give in sometimes and keep quiet if you can't do anything about it. No point argue too much with them :x

If your parents are willing to listen and sit down talk about it, that would be good
After all, our parents work so hard to bring us up, don't ever hate them.
They loved us just some of the parents don't know how to express themselves

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Parents tend to repeat themselves. When my mum does something like scolding for no reason, i just go "hmm, orh". They take it as i'm listening and know i'm at fault. a.ka, form their own image of what they think i'm doing.

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Old 10th November 2009, 03:12 PM   #16 (permalink)
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no,my parents didn't, don't, n never...

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Old 10th November 2009, 04:23 PM   #17 (permalink)
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Old people are like that, they have mood swing. For me I just keep quiet and listen to what they advice me. Don't wait till you lose them and then you realise how much you miss your parents because its no point.

Remember when your parents scold you, it means they love you. No parents want their child to be bad.

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I don't really go argue back with them, I just feel irritated sometimes. Most of the times I just keep quiet don't say anything lor. Soon after we'll be all laughing at some TV show.

But sometimes really cannot take it lah, it's like they cannot let any new information into their mind.

For example,
Okay so I owe my mum like 200 bux, cuz she help me pay for my phone first (I pay half), then she say must save up and return lor. But me being an extremely lousy saver of pocket money , said that she should take out a portion of my allowance everyday to pay her back. Then everytime she hears this she'll be all like "TALKING RUBBISH" and then I'll be like "um that's what everyone does" then she'll rebutt (SHE ALWAYS SAYS THIS) "MUST FOLLOW EVERYONE MEH". Then i try to further explain to her how it works thru many ways and she just cannot accept it and says "AIYA YOU DONT COME QUARRELL WITH ME"

Then I'm like wtf don't argue alr. pointless.


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Re: Do your parents do this?

Sometime, our parents in bad mood. Start a fight for no reason.
If they did to me like that, i just keep quiet like they are fighting to themselves.

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sometimes only(very rare) i think its because they are kinda pissed off that day thats why..

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