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Old 5th October 2010, 09:11 PM   #1 (permalink)
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does being the eldest

im the eldest in my family.. and i had to take care of my sister.. most importantly if she did anything wrong i have to clean up her mess.. i ****ing hate it.. and my mom expect me to look after her it's fine as long as she listens but she seems to treat me like ****ing transparent! and when she didnt do anything my mom or even others yell at me! i mean like KNNCCB! **** MY LIFE! sometimes i jz feel so depressed and i wanna leave this family house and everything and lead my own life.. do the things i like to do without even need to think about anything and everything or basically like just dun care about everything..

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Old 5th October 2010, 09:17 PM   #2 (permalink)
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have you tried talking to your parents about how you feel? they push everything to you because as in most chinese and other asian family, the eldest son/daughter in the family usually are look upon to help and guild the younger siblings when the growns up are not around...

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Old 5th October 2010, 09:32 PM   #3 (permalink)
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ya i have but like .. u noe lah asian parents like wot.. i talk to them i tu xue one lo

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start loving your sister and treat her nice.
I mean it's fate that you two are sisters.
As long as you do your very best i think it doesn't matter whether your parents or whosoever is there to scold you for it's you who knows that you have done your part.

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Old 5th October 2010, 09:44 PM   #5 (permalink)
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hahhh.. im the youngest in family.. but my older sis n bros nv took care of me ley

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hahhh.. im the youngest in family.. but my older sis n bros nv took care of me ley
lucky u~ maybe they are busy bah with thier own work,,

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youngest here but i know how u feel. since i have seen my parents lecturing my elder brothers and sister when my exam fail and play too much etc etc.

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give the "he/she is old enough to be independent" excuse =P

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How old is ur sister ?

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my brother gave it and in the end. blame became bigger. saying that i old enough then i wont be so bad etc etc.

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LoLed its always like this , though i am the eldest i love my sis alot but i dont know why i hate my bro dam lot

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Eldest here.
I feel you man. Sometimes i did nothing wrong, then the blame would be on me -.-
But.. sighh, have to get use to it.

Try your best to get along with your family, dont ever try leaving, cause you will regret it.

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oldest here, thankfully whether my sis pass or fails (usually the latter), i don't get any blame~

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youngest in family~ but i take care of my older siblings instead~ watever happens, it will always be my fault & i will always b expected to give in~ if i argue, i will get more scoldings~ my sis would even lie jus to make sure i get into trouble~ at times, i do harbour thots of leaving as well & most of d times i do seek solace with my frenz~ but as times passes, actually, watever dat happens, end of d day, they are stil my siblings, stil my parents~ rather than jus walking away, jus do ur best~ they may b appreciative one day, they may not be, but dats not really impt~ wats impt is do ur best, give ur best~ cos at d end of d day, at least u know u did try~

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Re: does being the eldest

Originally Posted by LostMeow View Post
hahhh.. im the youngest in family.. but my older sis n bros nv took care of me ley
same sentiment... am the youngest among my two sister, it might be due to age gap but i just couldnt get along with them..... :'(

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yea i am the eldest.. n it suck

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only child here, been taking care of myself.
though i don't have any siblings, i do have cousins that i take care of.
maybe you should really talk with your parents instead of just saying they are asian parents and hard to talk to.
you just have to keep trying.

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i middle kid.. lol.. but i have to take care of my jie and di. anything, my fault...i have same thinking as you to leave and run away. i dont mind scrimp and save for my life, but for now i am trying to stay in the house but prove that no matter the obstacle there is i will clear it and still do better than them even thou they get the best things!

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lol.. sorry for afk so long.. but anyway ya.. i hate being the eldest. but running away could ever solve no problem.. so i think the best way it's to just walk away when u had an arguement.. when u're calmer then we can talk things through

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Re: does being the eldest

being the eldest has some form of responsibilities from time to time.

being the middle has reasons to change

being the youngest has excuses for mroe freeway

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