i dont understand what my parents are thinking... - Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Sitemap Contact Us FAQ Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Home Photos Member List Register Mark Forums Read  
Go Back Home > Lifestyle > Love & Relationships > Family Matters » i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

Why aren't you a member of SGClub.com yet??

» Join 130,000+ other members in chatting.
» Make lots of new friends here.
» Keep up-to-date with current events.
» Participate in Club outings.
» Download lots of Free Stuff!

Registration just takes 2mins and is absolutely free so join our community today!

I Want to Choose my Own Personal Nickname Now!


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 1st June 2009, 06:34 PM   #1 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
lothars is on a distinguished road

 
lothars's Avatar
 
Posts: 81
Join Date: Mar 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

erm well, they just quarrelled.
why? because my dad ate a dumpling while he was watching the TV.. my mum thinks that he should at least bring the bowl to the kitchen and let her wash after he finishes it because ppl who eat dumplings will know they will stick to the bowl and its going to be difficult to wash after some time. my dad thinks that he should watch finish his tv for the last 5 mins or so. btw i was in my room playing computer games when these happened. suddenly i heard my dad shouting at my mum. i went out, only to find out that they were quarrelling over such trival matters. this is not the first time they quarrelled over trival matters... does shouting helps to resolve problems? i doubt so lorhh.... my teachers dont shout at me when i make mistakes.


conclusion? i really donno what my parents are thinking.... can someone reccommend some psychiatrist to me... ? sorry if got spelling/grammer mistakes

Sponsors:
__________________
i'm having problem deciding what signature to use.
lothars is offline  
Add to lothars's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 06:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
-M1R@G3- will become famous soon enough

 
-M1R@G3-'s Avatar
 
Posts: 1,816
Join Date: May 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

Maybe your parents not in a good mood . Or maybe its because the recent recession that made them liddat .

__________________
Do what you can . When you can . The best you can .
-M1R@G3- is offline   Add to -M1R@G3-'s Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 06:49 PM   #3 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
kokojun is a jewel in the roughkokojun is a jewel in the rough

 
kokojun's Avatar
 
Posts: 5,230
Join Date: Dec 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 4 Times in 4 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

Hey, you dont need to see a psychiatrist just because this happens.
It's very common to see parents fighting at home these days.
It may just be a day that they are in a bad mood so in order to release the negative feelings they have to express it out.
Dont worry, things will be fine..

__________________
Hope, within reach. (:

Click here to share if something good has happened to you! http://forums.sgclub.com/singapore/s...ed_165678.html
kokojun is offline   Add to kokojun's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 06:49 PM   #4 (permalink)
Addicted SGClubber
Komi is on a distinguished road

 
Komi's Avatar
 
Posts: 317
Join Date: Apr 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

This works on the psychology of women and men. And people, don't be offended if the data I offered you is awry or what because it's on the general.

Women works differently from men, one is from Venus, the others don't know from where.

Your Mum simply works as a woman, she wants things to be done fast and consequences-free. This way is what she refers as efficiency.

Your Dad wants his more important thing done first. (Watch tv more important than clearing the dishes. Or maybe, he expects your Mum to clear it for him? Afterall, my Mum/me cleans up after my Dad.) By procrastinating, he's going against your Mum.

Your Mum wants things does her way but guys tend to be more indignant (and they have their pride to consider. If not, respect!) when confronted so they just retort lohs. And once they retort, it's like declaring war with the female party. THUS FIGHT! ;O

If your Dad shut up, maybe things won't be this bad.

But brian, your parents married so long already, don't think anything would happen to them

Things will be fine tomorrow.

Komi is offline   Add to Komi's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 06:50 PM   #5 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
christmas_ has a brilliant futurechristmas_ has a brilliant futurechristmas_ has a brilliant futurechristmas_ has a brilliant futurechristmas_ has a brilliant futurechristmas_ has a brilliant futurechristmas_ has a brilliant future

 
christmas_'s Avatar
 
Posts: 80,397
Join Date: Nov 2008
Likes: 924
Liked 523 Times in 453 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

夫妻之间,床头吵,床尾和。。。别担心

__________________



Last edited by christmas_; 1st June 2009 at 06:51 PM.
christmas_ is offline   Add to christmas_'s Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 06:55 PM   #6 (permalink)
J.W
Addicted SGClubber
J.W is on a distinguished road

 
J.W's Avatar
 
Posts: 405
Join Date: Nov 2008
Likes: 6
Liked 4 Times in 4 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

is lidat one la, get used to it man. lol

__________________
Sparky*
J.W is offline   Add to J.W's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 07:01 PM   #7 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
stinky_shawn will become famous soon enough

 
stinky_shawn's Avatar
 
Posts: 2,768
Join Date: Dec 2007
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

one day u get married u will know...

__________________
stinky_shawn is offline   Add to stinky_shawn's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 07:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
Addicted SGClubber
byakuran is on a distinguished road

 
byakuran's Avatar
 
Posts: 385
Join Date: May 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

talk to them?/?

__________________
how many tap does a cow have?
byakuran is offline   Add to byakuran's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 07:05 PM   #9 (permalink)
J.W
Addicted SGClubber
J.W is on a distinguished road

 
J.W's Avatar
 
Posts: 405
Join Date: Nov 2008
Likes: 6
Liked 4 Times in 4 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

when ur husband eat dumpling one day, u will probably unds le

__________________
Sparky*
J.W is offline   Add to J.W's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 09:06 PM   #10 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
lothars is on a distinguished road

 
lothars's Avatar
 
Posts: 81
Join Date: Mar 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

err ya... thanks for everyone's concern. the problem is solved as much as i know... but back to the topic.. how much do u all understand your parents? o.o

__________________
i'm having problem deciding what signature to use.
lothars is offline   Add to lothars's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 09:43 PM   #11 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
id_peace has a spectacular aura about

 
id_peace's Avatar
 
Posts: 3,661
Join Date: Jun 2007
Likes: 27
Liked 58 Times in 47 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

Hack care them let them sort it out themselves

__________________
I want to be the very best, no one ever was....
id_peace is offline   Add to id_peace's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 09:52 PM   #12 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
kaede9 is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 117
Join Date: May 2009
Likes: 2
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

this is small matter lah. dont worry.
they have different priorities. father - tv is more impt. mother - cleaning up is more important.

so maybe you could come out of yr room, take the bowl from yr father to mother. problem solved ! life goes back to normal LOL

kaede9 is offline   Add to kaede9's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 10:00 PM   #13 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
ALCOHOLIQUE will become famous soon enough

 
ALCOHOLIQUE's Avatar
 
Posts: 3,048
Join Date: Dec 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

it just happens... it's kinda like your parents are tired of each other. i'm just saying. but whatever it is, it shouldn't be a problem unless it escalates to domestic violence.

__________________
miles to go before i sleep
ALCOHOLIQUE is offline   Add to ALCOHOLIQUE's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 10:46 PM   #14 (permalink)
Addicted SGClubber
ScryonX is on a distinguished road

 
ScryonX's Avatar
 
Posts: 768
Join Date: Apr 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

why do you even need a psychiatrist? problems like these are really common.

blame it on the recent times, it could be the cause of their foul mood.

just leave your parents alone, work hard, live your life to the fullest.

__________________
SCRYONX.
"There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so."
ScryonX is offline   Add to ScryonX's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 11:22 PM   #15 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
jewlreya has a spectacular aura about


 
jewlreya's Avatar
 
Posts: 7,351
Join Date: Sep 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 3 Times in 3 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

Try talking to them individually and see if you are able to spot any problem they faced be it at work or at home. Sometimes I do that, just waste 30 minutes listen to my dad grumblings then I go report to my mother and told her why he's in a bad mood. Then, they made up.

__________________
Apparels @ $15 [BLOG] On SGC Twitter Poodle Fan Club

*Have fun in SGClub but pls READ the RULES, Report Bad Posts and Give Reputation to Good Ones!*
jewlreya is offline   Add to jewlreya's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 1st June 2009, 11:44 PM   #16 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
burntheplanes will become famous soon enough

 
burntheplanes's Avatar
 
Posts: 2,475
Join Date: Apr 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

dumpings fault!

__________________
Hardstyle is progression, art, music, poetry , dance ,love and sprituality all in one (= SMD - Just Like you!
Love that song! go listen!!!
burntheplanes is offline   Add to burntheplanes's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 2nd June 2009, 12:06 AM   #17 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
Ahhui is on a distinguished road

 
Ahhui's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,470
Join Date: Jan 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

my father hardly comes home..so only me and mum mostly at home..and most of the time when im home either she is sleeping or she is out..hardly spend anytime but weekends we do go out for dinner and stuff like that so i think its good to maintain a good relationship..and of course be more understanding..
your mum is not a maid...do something to help as well..

__________________

Live life to the fullest
Ahhui is offline   Add to Ahhui's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 2nd June 2009, 12:16 AM   #18 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
sky99 is a glorious beacon of lightsky99 is a glorious beacon of lightsky99 is a glorious beacon of light

 
sky99's Avatar
 
Posts: 10,466
Join Date: Nov 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 8 Times in 6 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

haiya common lah.

sometimes i on light forget to close. my mother also bomb me

sky99 is offline   Add to sky99's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 2nd June 2009, 10:39 PM   #19 (permalink)
Addicted SGClubber
thegirlx is on a distinguished road

 
thegirlx's Avatar
 
Posts: 561
Join Date: Aug 2008
Likes: 15
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

Originally Posted by sky99 View Post
haiya common lah.

sometimes i on light forget to close. my mother also bomb me
i understand ur situation xD or forgot to off fan also.. xD

its like that de, TS, just spend more time chatting with your parents.

__________________
(◕ω◕) Eat Chocolate, Be Happy ;D!
thegirlx is offline   Add to thegirlx's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 3rd June 2009, 08:48 AM   #20 (permalink)
เพื่อนสนิท
Peuan Sanit has much to be proud ofPeuan Sanit has much to be proud ofPeuan Sanit has much to be proud ofPeuan Sanit has much to be proud ofPeuan Sanit has much to be proud ofPeuan Sanit has much to be proud ofPeuan Sanit has much to be proud of

 
Peuan Sanit's Avatar
 
Posts: 24,178
Join Date: Jun 2007
Likes: 91
Liked 112 Times in 86 Posts
Gender:

Re: i dont understand what my parents are thinking...

These could be due to a number of reasons
1) Work stress
2) Family stress
3) Recession Stress
4) finicial stress
5) Taking each other for granted after yrs of marriage

TS, talk to them individually and find out what is the issue. Shouting at each other is not good nor is it healthy for their relationship

__________________
Chan Mai Jai Dee Leaw
Peuan Sanit is offline   Add to Peuan Sanit's Reputation Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
People who dont understand. lsy67 SGClub Cafe 13 30th May 2009 08:27 PM
kids who dont know how to think and parents who just dont wanna think death anqel SGClub Cafe 7 23rd May 2009 07:43 PM
How Many Feel that Your Parents Just Don't Understand Teenagers? maverick Family Matters 75 5th April 2009 02:25 AM
bangala dont understand english or..? samwin SGClub Cafe 73 15th December 2008 11:12 PM
Nine things dogs dont understand jovylee SGClub Cafe 2 9th October 2007 04:55 PM

» Sponsors
Watch Free Movies Online
Celebrity Gossip
Food Delivery

» Facebook Fans
» What's Going On?
Title, Username, & Date
[Hard Truth] 69.9% of Singaporeans are more stupid than dogs and monkeys.
[Poor Health] Karma strikes ex-Health Minister Khaw Boon Wan hard.
Hepatitis E infections surge in Singapore, virus found in raw pork liver: SGH
Christianity and Buddhism have more in common than differences: (moderation and restr
[SG] Wants higher birth rate, but unwilling to fund treatment for childhood mental pr
E-scooter rider going at 28km/h at void deck injures man’s leg, gets 6 weeks’ jail
PMD users warned: Behave responsibly or face total ban
Supplier iPassion fined for putting SAFETY marks on unregistered PMD charging adaptors
SFA recalls US brand of flour over possible bacteria contamination
Female infant and male occupant sent to hospital after PMD-related fire in Bukit Batok...
Repost comment.
Top income brackets should be taxed at 99%.
Do you know?
480GB Transcend ESD350C Portable SSD Review
SFA suspends import of quail eggs from Malaysian farm due to drug residues
King Arthur Flour product recalled due to potential presence of E. coli
FS (10Pieces) Apple iPhone 11/11 Pro/11 Pro Max(Website www.esellibuy.com)$6...
Inspirational Songs
Instead of increase GST, what other more progressive wealth tax options (e.g. Replace
Elderly should be given free e-scooter try outs ASAP.
Featured Photos
by marisoljames322
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by marisoljames322
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by pdsubbu
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by Vikas Dhar
· · ·
Photography
35 photos
36 comments
by aaudreygan
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by aaudreygan
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments
by a8paris
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by a8paris
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by aaricia
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments
by aaricia
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments

 

All times are GMT +8. The time now is 01:11 AM.


Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright© 2004-2013 SGClub.com. All rights reserved.