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Old 30th July 2012, 02:23 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Father has an affair :(

i am a 19 year old girl. Recently, i have found out that my father has a sexual affair as i found some evidences regarding to this. i am feeling very troubled. I need advice.

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oh dear ): are you close with your dad? maybe you can talk to him about it?

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Old 30th July 2012, 02:49 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Does your mum know? Perhaps you should consult her as well. If you are worried about your dad maybe you can ask your dad about it first?

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Old 30th July 2012, 03:19 PM   #4 (permalink)
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he refused to admit. ya, my mum knows

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Old 30th July 2012, 03:25 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Well then did you tell your dad about the evidence you have? Maybe ask your mum sit down and talk to him about this?

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Old 30th July 2012, 04:48 PM   #6 (permalink)
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ya, refused to admit.

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Old 30th July 2012, 04:57 PM   #7 (permalink)
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tough situation. personally i think you should let your mum deal with it

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ask your mum divorce with him, dun think abt ur father anymore, a flirter

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you are already an adult at 19 so in a way you can be independent already.

i guess there is nothing much you can do about this especially since your dad is not going to admit, unless you are confident you can convince him to give up the other relationship. but then again, if he is a sensible and responsible family man, he won;t have started on this relationship.

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how are u and ur mum feeling? are ur ready to face the situation? stay strong!!

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Old 30th July 2012, 05:19 PM   #11 (permalink)
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i am feeling quite terrible

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no one wants this to happen...

try to talk to your dad if you think you can get him out of this...if not, i guess there is really nothing you can do about it.

sorry, there is nothing much i can offer advice.

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Old 30th July 2012, 05:36 PM   #13 (permalink)
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i will stay neutral both is also my dearest.

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i think its best to stay neutral.

you have to respect your dad's private life and your mother's decision since she knows about it and is not doing anything about it.

As long as he doesn't bring the trouble home. Not that i support his actions but I believe its something your parents have to deal with between the two of them.

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no choice but to close one eye if your mum is choosing not to do anything about it.

you could also speak to her, or to your dad, but if I were you I wouldn't. It's their choice...

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Really, there is nothing you can do as its between your dad and mum now. Even if you can talk your dad out of his affair, but can your mum accept him again? It would be good to remind both of your parents that this family is still here no matter what happen. But whatever the decision and outcome, it depends on your mum to weight.

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Well i guess...you'll have to wait for your mum's decision then...meanwhile stay positive yah!

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fighting!!! try to distract yourself and try not to think about it anymore...

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he refused to admit. ya, my mum knows
Well my father also refused to admit untill my mum and us went to the other woman's home... Luckily got people reveal the secret to us and the fact that he never stay at home for at least 10 years already show us he is doing fishy things out there. I don't really feel sad or anything though. Now my parents are divorced and we are doing better than ever.

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