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Old 19th December 2009, 02:53 PM   #1 (permalink)
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forum guy, good or bad?

ok im not saying im intending to move on as what friends what relationship or what with this guy i got to know from a forum, but did xxxx[forum name kept undisclosed to protect himself in case he means no harm and in case i ruin his reputation lol] ask any of you girls to join his group of some positive friends or something?

im posting here assuming that he doesnt create a female acc and lurk around here

well i just want to check that he isnt some scammer or cheater or anything. you know, it's okay to exchange email add and make friends on msn but further on we girls have to be cautious right? so i just want to make sure, before i end up totally blocking him off my msn.

right till now he has only tried to motivate me, inspire me with his motivational stories, which i find a bit weird since i dont really need those but yeah i do respect him as a person if he means no harm. and he keeps asking me to go play tennis, and even a movie. ok maybe some of you may think making friend is nothing wrong going for a movie is nothing wrong im just to traditional-thinking, over protective of myself and whatsoever. but yeah im a girl, need advice and and and so far i see his posts are quite harmless leh. with about 200+ posts, joined early this year.

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Old 19th December 2009, 03:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: forum guy, good or good?

Met in this forum?

IMO, I don't really like to make real friends online. Quite hard to tell whether they are good or bad. Maybe I'm traditional as well.

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Old 19th December 2009, 03:06 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: forum guy, good or good?

Originally Posted by butteryscotch View Post
Met in this forum?

IMO, I don't really like to make real friends online. Quite hard to tell whether they are good or bad. Maybe I'm traditional as well.
yeah. kind of find him weird anyways. haha. nvm im safe as long as i dont give too much personal info. im safe like that, hopefully.

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Old 19th December 2009, 03:10 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by mdew View Post
yeah. kind of find him weird anyways. haha. nvm im safe as long as i dont give too much personal info. im safe like that, hopefully.
Yea I guess so. Shouldn't be too gullible sometimes. Anyway your thread title quite funny. Good or good like saying he is only good leh

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Yea I guess so. Shouldn't be too gullible sometimes. Anyway your thread title quite funny. Good or good like saying he is only good leh
typo lol cant edit title now

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Old 19th December 2009, 03:27 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: forum guy, good or bad?

hi there! well, most of the online friends i've made, don't talk to me much after a few times. females leh!!!
well, but i find it weird that, he encourage and motivate you for no reason as what you've said...

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Old 19th December 2009, 03:42 PM   #7 (permalink)
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hi there! well, most of the online friends i've made, don't talk to me much after a few times. females leh!!!
well, but i find it weird that, he encourage and motivate you for no reason as what you've said...
yeah but i guess he is very much into these motivational talks and everything, as seen from his profile and from the books and seminars he actually attends.

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yeah but i guess he is very much into these motivational talks and everything, as seen from his profile and from the books and seminars he actually attends.
lol sounds kinda lame. Guys should know how to motivate themselves

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Re: forum guy, good or bad?

hmm. maybe he is an entrepreneur, thats why into motivational talks. LOL.
im guessing that he is quite an outgoing person.
hmm. maybe you can try going out with him if you want.
but of course in groups.


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Old 19th December 2009, 04:33 PM   #11 (permalink)
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hmm. maybe he is an entrepreneur, thats why into motivational talks. LOL.
im guessing that he is quite an outgoing person.
hmm. maybe you can try going out with him if you want.
but of course in groups.
haha i dont think he's an outgoing person. outgoing person make friends on forum one meh? i mean outgoing persons would have a lot of friends in RL to spend time on forum friends already what.

anw i dont think i will be going out with him. im a scardy cat. scared this scared that. and i think a lot. hahaha. i dont trust easily.


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Old 19th December 2009, 05:12 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: forum guy, good or bad?

then don't! maybe he's a pedobear and trying to create conversation with you...

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Re: forum guy, good or bad?

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haha i dont think he's an outgoing person. outgoing person make friends on forum one meh? i mean outgoing persons would have a lot of friends in RL to spend time on forum friends already what.

anw i dont think i will be going out with him. im a scardy cat. scared this scared that. and i think a lot. hahaha. i dont trust easily.
hahaha. outgoing pple make friends everywhere i guess. LOL.
yupp. sometimes its better not to trust easily
do what you think it's right (:

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i wont meet forum guys personally

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Re: forum guy, good or bad?

In this era, where we spend a lot of our time on the internet. Meeting people/ making friends online is nothing strange.

Be it online or real life, there are good & bad people around. Just have to be careful, use your discretion wisely.

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Old 21st December 2009, 12:12 PM   #16 (permalink)
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sounds like another mlm guy>.< they will usually lure u out first den suddenly bring u to visit some office and talk u into joining them...TS, beware as it usually involves some unjustifiable cash transactions on the spot

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Originally Posted by mdew View Post
ok im not saying im intending to move on as what friends what relationship or what with this guy i got to know from a forum, but did xxxx[forum name kept undisclosed to protect himself in case he means no harm and in case i ruin his reputation lol] ask any of you girls to join his group of some positive friends or something?

im posting here assuming that he doesnt create a female acc and lurk around here

well i just want to check that he isnt some scammer or cheater or anything. you know, it's okay to exchange email add and make friends on msn but further on we girls have to be cautious right? so i just want to make sure, before i end up totally blocking him off my msn.

right till now he has only tried to motivate me, inspire me with his motivational stories, which i find a bit weird since i dont really need those but yeah i do respect him as a person if he means no harm. and he keeps asking me to go play tennis, and even a movie. ok maybe some of you may think making friend is nothing wrong going for a movie is nothing wrong im just to traditional-thinking, over protective of myself and whatsoever. but yeah im a girl, need advice and and and so far i see his posts are quite harmless leh. with about 200+ posts, joined early this year.

and have you met similar cases? share?
Well ... not all r bad.
But if u r uncomfortable with him....dun go.
If u want to join him for a movie..bring along a FEW friends to b safe.

Do not give much infor to him.

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Re: forum guy, good or bad?

A guy wouldn't ask u out if he has no intentions to advance further with u. Speaking from experience, guys who ask me out usually wants to get closer to me and take things further. They're very practical people, if something is not worth this time, he won't do it. He is not going to ask u out simply to make friends and hang out. If he really is, then he probably doesn't have a life outside the internet. These people should be avoided as much as possible.

At the same time, u may not be the only one he is trying to ask out. He may be asking a dozen other girls to go out with him. The more girls he asks, the higher the chance of him hitting jackpot. Its like a lottery or lucky draw. The more u buy, the higher the chance of winning. So if u reject him, he has got a dozen other girls to count on.

Last time in those IRC chatrooms, some guy tell me how special I am and he wants to meet me as a friend first, then hang out and he also motivates me alot in life. Then I purposely signed in with another ID and he msg me and said the same things. I'm not saying your guy is the same, but online guys can be creepy at times. Be wary.

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Old 24th December 2009, 12:28 PM   #19 (permalink)
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well. just be very careful when it comes to meeting forum friends..
go out in a group would be much safer.
if he tries to do anything funny, just remove him from ur msn without any hesitation.

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My advice is don't meet him first. Keep on carrying a purely online friendship for an indefinite time. If he keeps on pressing u to meet him, then the alarm bells should sound and u should permanently block him. Some guys when u tell him that u want to chat abit more before meeting, they will keep asking "Then when? When will we ever meet?". Then they start whining and whining and bombard your sms with endless messages, and it can get scary in the end.

I always have this stereotype thinking that guys who pick up girls online are despos who are incapable of getting a girl in real life. They're usually shy, poor, low self esteem/self-worth and going online gives them a sense of security behind a computer. And their real life persona is usually different from their online ones.

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