gamer bf

**superhunk** · 27-10-2009, 02:36 AM

well, girls how do u handle a hardcore gamer bf?

and

wat if your bf becomes a gamer one day? wat will u do?

joann.sienna · 27-10-2009, 06:23 AM

Slap him left right up down until he wakes up from his virtual world.

I was just kidding.
Lol.

Accept it, but still voice out to him that i don't really like it.
Don't expect him to change to suit you because that will probably not happen.
At least try to adapt to his lifestyle.
He'll not change totally; but he'll try to give in a lil.
(That is only when he reeeeeeeeaaaaaaally loves you.)

**sayuri** · 27-10-2009, 06:56 AM

I have no issues, i'm a gamer myself

joann.sienna · 27-10-2009, 07:02 AM

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Originally Posted by sayuri

I have no issues, i'm a gamer myself

Yeahh, i love gaming too.

Aiya, when your bf play game just join in lor.
The more the merrier.

**Miyamoto84** · 27-10-2009, 09:50 AM

i have a very close friend who likes to play arcade fighting games.
i remembered got a few times his gf got bored while waiting for him, so she went to the opposite side of the machine n insert coin to challenge him. when he knows its her, he got the -.- look. so funny whenever i think of that.

i myself like to play games, but not those hardcore type. more like a casual gamer. even though my ex doesnt like mi to keep playing games, but sometimes she would also interested to know what games i m playing n how it is played so she can 1 day play with me.

**mdew** · 27-10-2009, 12:25 PM

i would try playing together with him (i did get addicted to some online games before =x) and then at the same time make sure he doesnt play too much that he neglects me?

**Emolisher** · 27-10-2009, 12:28 PM

I have friend that broke up because of game

He give more attention to game rather than his gf thus his gf left with another gamer who give more attention to her than game

**superhunk** · 28-10-2009, 12:24 AM

wat if u dunt like the games he plays? and hes jsut totally addicted to it. and gives u lesser attention?

BTW, im surprised there r quite a num of gamer girls here. any gurls play diablo here, pls apply be my girl audition. LOL jk

uglybutadorable · 28-10-2009, 12:30 AM

My bf used to fall under this criteria. He changed when I started to complain about his game addict. I guess at least it means that I am an important person to him that is why he changed right on the spot.

By the way, there were some cold-war too. Just don't say anything or say too much, once he get used to your whining he would go from bad to worse.

**superhunk** · 28-10-2009, 12:51 AM

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Originally Posted by uglybutadorable

My bf used to fall under this criteria. He changed when I started to complain about his game addict. I guess at least it means that I am an important person to him that is why he changed right on the spot.

By the way, there were some cold-war too. Just don't say anything or say too much, once he get used to your whining he would go from bad to worse.

ah thx for sharing, u sund like uunderstand guys. dats gd

uglybutadorable · 28-10-2009, 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by superhunk

ah thx for sharing, u sund like uunderstand guys. dats gd

Not really. Just human mentality. =)

**crazmin** · 28-10-2009, 01:06 AM

hmm.. i'll join him in his game..

but sometimes too hardcore no good eh..

IMPT: play game also cannot neglect me!

**ir fácil** · 28-10-2009, 01:45 AM

gamer bf tends to neglect real world gf.

this halloween, dress up as a computer, 100% of his attention right there..
meanwhile, be the prop for the gamer bf, alongside some cup noodles.

**superhunk** · 28-10-2009, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ir fácil

gamer bf tends to neglect real world gf.

this halloween, dress up as a computer, 100% of his attention right there..
meanwhile, be the prop for the gamer bf, alongside some cup noodles.

MUAHAHAA NICe

someone do dat for me YES? lol

superhunk added 1365 Minutes and 1 Seconds later...

lol . thats y keep a hamster!

**PurinLoveXO** · 31-10-2009, 11:48 PM

i wouldn't want a hardcore gamer boyfriend D: must have a boyf that definitely pays more attention to you then his games.

**smallbum** · 31-10-2009, 11:55 PM

I warned my ex-hb this before, "one day this game 会搞到家破人亡".

**michellechan** · 01-11-2009, 12:08 AM

It depends. my BF's a gamer, and as i don't understand too many games, i have concluded that you need a Y chromosome to truly be into gaming. Not that i can't join in as required.. but i just am not that into games... but he does pay more attention to me, so i'm all good with it.

If he does play TOO much, just give him a warning and be done with it, but be ready to follow up on that threat. If he truly values you, he'd give up on excessive gaming. If he doesn't, he has a problem.

**faith14** · 01-11-2009, 12:21 AM

Hmm. I don't like to play games, but I do play silly games in Facebook =X haha.

Hardcore gamer means games are more important than me. I can't stand it, especially if he can lose temper over the games. Totally a turn-off.

A no-no for me. =) Will not continue the relationship with him ,unless the frequency of playing games is drastically lesser than his usual. But then, will he still be happy about it? I doubt so. haha.

**Chova** · 01-11-2009, 12:27 AM

I used to be a hardcore gamer, playing up to 14 hours a day sometimes. But when I was with my ex I had to cut down on my gaming time. I think I cut down about 75% of my gaming time? It wasn't anything difficult though, I loved spending time with her and all. So giving up gaming was not big deal.

I'd much rather be in the company of my girl than a computer.

**superhunk** · 01-11-2009, 02:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Chova

I used to be a hardcore gamer, playing up to 14 hours a day sometimes. But when I was with my ex I had to cut down on my gaming time. I think I cut down about 75% of my gaming time? It wasn't anything difficult though, I loved spending time with her and all. So giving up gaming was not big deal.

I'd much rather be in the company of my girl than a computer.

ah nice boy. respect