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Old 27th June 2011, 05:01 PM   #21 (permalink)
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For all we know, this particular girl could be a very close platonic friend. Some of my best female friends do hug me when I meet them, and I give them a quick hug back. End of the day, we know that its merely platonic and we're just close friends.

Pipe down, cool down. Talking to him gently would be key, and it is best to find out the situation first before jumping to rash conclusions.

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Old 27th June 2011, 05:08 PM   #22 (permalink)
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thanks theliverevoluti from what you had!

Wintergal, will def. set rules for him if everything is settle down!


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Old 27th June 2011, 05:33 PM   #23 (permalink)
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You should really think it over .I think your bf don't love you.
My exBF also don't smile when we get together.
Finally he told me that he like me but not that kind of deep love.
I broke up with him though i always thinking about him but i know that he don't deserve it.
So these days i go out with other guys ,trying to start a new relationship,this is the best way enable me to forget him .

You know ,he didn't get your phone is dangerous signal that he did not care about u
Marriage is very important for a girl.You can marry a man that you don't love,but can't marry a man that don't love you or even don't care about u.

I suggest you'd better ask him the pic.Be wise to make a decision ,not to deceive yourself

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Old 27th June 2011, 05:40 PM   #24 (permalink)
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TS, got to c the situation n how close the friend is leh. Some of my gals friends, we aso veri close de. When we go clubbing, sometimes they do hug me too (fyi, they come hug me, not me go hug them coz i dun really dare anyhow hug a gal who is not my gf except my mother n sister). N when they hug me or what, i dun feel anything special, juz pure friend. Coz know them 13-14yrs liao. But of coz, they dun always hug me de lah, oni clubbing n under the effect of Martel or vodka.

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Old 27th June 2011, 05:47 PM   #25 (permalink)
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Thanks Stereobag for your experience.

jp16, I have some of the pics,I got the pic that show my boyfriend raise his hand to ask to the girl to go to him.
So ya, that's why i am upset. If you're very close to the girl, will do you do that like my boyfriend did?

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Old 27th June 2011, 05:56 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Thanks Stereobag for your experience.

jp16, I have some of the pics,I got the pic that show my boyfriend raise his hand to ask to the girl to go to him.
So ya, that's why i am upset. If you're very close to the girl, will do you do that like my boyfriend did?
Raise his hand to ask the gal to go to him??? How can a photo tel so much sia? U mean ur bf open his arm n the gal stand inside his arm???

For me, no. I dun like pose photo which is too physical close to a gal de. That time, my gal friend hug me, my arm is around the waist, i dun even dare put my hand on her waist. I never taken any photo with me put my hand on a gal's shoulder b4, regardless that gal is my gf or close friend. N regardless i am attach or single. Of coz, if that friend is a guy, i dare put my hand anyhow lah. But gal, cannot. Feel uneasy.

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Old 27th June 2011, 06:00 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Yes i will be very angry because he should have let mi know.

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Old 27th June 2011, 06:03 PM   #28 (permalink)
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When he's with me, i seldom see him smile
Not a good sign when he smiles easily to others.


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I let him have his own time. He only says that he doesnt have enough money etc etc. I even help him with his money problem.
Sorry to say this, but I think he needs your money ALSO, if he also likes you.

BF away for so long frequently may not be a good idea. The word 'trust' is so easy to say but ...


TS - I am sure you must have some gut feel whether your bf loves you enough and sincerely, like the things both of you do when are alone together? You should be able to tell and feel it from him how much and how real and sincere he feel for you and want you?

You take care. Speak to your family members and very close friends.


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Old 27th June 2011, 06:16 PM   #29 (permalink)
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thanks jp16,joyce and shines for the post!

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Old 27th June 2011, 06:17 PM   #30 (permalink)
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TS, juz asking hor, how old is he n u? Then y he come bk onli in dec? Go where do what? Biz trip huh? Then is he a clubber? Frequent cheong?

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Old 27th June 2011, 06:25 PM   #31 (permalink)
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I dont think he is a clubber. He's nearly 30's . I am in my early 20's
And, yup, He sign a contract to work so require to stay that long.

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I dont think he is a clubber. He's nearly 30's . I am in my early 20's
And, yup, He sign a contract to work so require to stay that long.
Hmmm..... so both of u still quite young. Luckily he is not a clubber coz clubber usually have such bahaviour n for them is like veri veri normal. I have guy friend who is clubber, i c his fb, waliew. He n his "gal friends" take photo ma chaim take wedding photo like that. Got hug, playful kiss etc de.

Since u still so young, then u open ur eye bigger lor. No need rush mah. Its better not marrying the right guy than marrying the wrong guy. No memories is always better than full of regret. Does he have "record" b4 or not? Give urself time to consider. N y does he take ur $ huh? Once a blue moon thing or frequent?

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Old 27th June 2011, 06:45 PM   #33 (permalink)
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just once a blue moon but the amount is quite a lot for me but i dont want to reveal the amount here.

Thanks for some of the the advice though

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Technically speaking, he and the girl could be just close friends which
is why they hugged for the photo .

I had witnessed an ex filrting with his guest just to upsell the most expensive
wine in the menu and sometimes he was so good at it that girls give him their numbers.
Call it sales technique or verbal manipulation, it was an exploitation
of charisma..I was uneasy about it at first so I talked it out with him and he reassured
me it was all for work's sake and that I was the only one for him..I trusted him on that
but anyway that wasn't the issue that led to the breakup..

Speaking in your context, it's kind of a worry that he doesn't smile as much when he's with you. Is the long distance relationship taking away the joy you once shared together or has he never smiled that happily before when he was with you ?

And as exactly as Magnum mentioned..it's all about trust and management of your differences
Bring it to the table and talk it out

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Old 27th June 2011, 07:58 PM   #35 (permalink)
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ok, will try to talk to him about it.
Thanks

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wa wait for him dec ? alot of time to think @@

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LOL! Dump him. Potential adulterous spouse!

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TS: you have alot of time to think. many here have already given you some advice what you shld do.

I feel that you shld listen to what he has to say and then you decide.

all the best. =)

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wah GG. he nvr delete all before passing it to u. 5 years liao still so stupid.

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wah GG. he nvr delete all before passing it to u. 5 years liao still so stupid.
I think if your bf do something like this and u're kept in the dark all the time, u also dun want right?

If close friends no point hide here hide there, all adults dun need to act like kids imo.

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