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Old 27th December 2011, 10:56 PM   #1 (permalink)
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girls taking the initiative

Hey..I'm really glad that 'Men are not allowed here'.
Do you think girls shld ask guys out?
call them 1st?
take the initiative to hold hands 1st?

cos I did all of the above.
The the guy did that only 5% of the time.

I doubted if he likes me.
We Broke Up.

so what do u think? do we as girls, take the initiative?

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Old 27th December 2011, 11:11 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: girls taking the initiative

I think with guys, we need to get straight to the point?
Cos some guys either can't take the hint, or they don't know how to reject. The faster you ask, the less hurt you get?

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Re: girls taking the initiative

i am those type that prefer guys to take the initiative first. however, if you 2 yet to become an item, u can call him up like a friend or ask him out(if u 2 are close enough). However, holding hands and stuff should be done by guys ba? dont let them feel that we are too "shui bian"

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But some guys are really shy, so how long would you be willing to wait?

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Old 4th January 2012, 09:38 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: girls taking the initiative

im the type of girl who waits for the guy to take initiative but there are some exceptions .
if you really like someone but he doesnt take any actions , go ahead and ask him out .
just keep initiating chats with the guy and if he really enjoys talking to you ,
he will fall for you sooner or later unless he alr has a crush that it wont be so easy :/

beware of over doing it . you can tell from his reply if he wanna talk to you or not . if the replies are short then try again a few days later .
if after a few days and his replies are still short , then i guess you can forget about it alr
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after awhile (like a month or so)you can try to hint him or you can just confess to him .

(erm you dont have to confess face to face . thats something the guy should do . moreover youre a girl .)

but if he tells you that he treats you as a sister or so (rejects you) then you know its time to move on .
awkward but no more guessing games . sounds good ?

but if he tells you that he needs more time to think about it , hey you might have a chance !
especially when his reply sounds happy .

and if he accepts you , then good for you .

goodluck .

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So what would you do if you know a guy is interested in you, but he doesn't make any further moves?

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Re: girls taking the initiative

Originally Posted by momoPOLKA View Post
Hey..I'm really glad that 'Men are not allowed here'.
Do you think girls shld ask guys out?
call them 1st?
take the initiative to hold hands 1st?

cos I did all of the above.
The the guy did that only 5% of the time.

I doubted if he likes me.
We Broke Up.

so what do u think? do we as girls, take the initiative?
i think take initiative first is alright but not over doing it, must depend on situation.

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So what would you do if you know a guy is interested in you, but he doesn't make any further moves?
that mean he is not interested enough, too shy or playing a mind game? if im also interested, will test water and observe. if he doesn't have any progression, i will just leave him alone.. a guy that can't make up his mind, doesn't worth my time.

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that mean he is not interested enough, too shy or playing a mind game? if im also interested, will test water and observe. if he doesn't have any progression, i will just leave him alone.. a guy that can't make up his mind, doesn't worth my time.
thats because he doesnt know you well enough or youre just not interesting to him .
thats where you come in and let him know more about you , and know more about him .

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Re: girls taking the initiative

Originally Posted by o0jamie0o View Post
thats because he doesnt know you well enough or youre just not interesting to him .
thats where you come in and let him know more about you , and know more about him .
tat is the progression im talking about
if i know he has interest and so do i, of coz i will show interest on him too and see how it will progress.
if i know he has interest but i doesn't, i don't see any reason to make any progress. since i don't want to waste each other time and effort

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