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Old 18th March 2007, 08:06 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Would you give a box of condom to your partner? Like to hear your opinion.

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When my daughter attended a camp last year, her father gave her a box of condoms and explained that, like all good scouts, one must be prepared. When I went to Hong Kong alone for work, my husband gave me a box, too, and smiled. .Before anyone throws the first stone at him, allow me to explain. .We believe the best place for our teenagers to learn about sex is at home.

This includes learning about the proper use of contraceptives, such as how to put a condom on and the benefits and side effects of the Pill, the IUD, and about abortion.

However, the use of contraceptives must not be taught in isolation. It is not a simple issue of "prevention is better than cure". Contraceptive use can prevent the creation of an unwanted child, protect oneself from sexually transmitted diseases and also might give one a false a sense of freedom to have sex with anyone, anywhere and anytime.

This was not our intention when we embarked on this journey with our children. We hope they will not engage in premarital sex, but we are aware that peer pressure and societal values act as a counterweight to what we teach them. We recognise that we cannot stop them if they intend to have sex.

All we can do is show them the true freedom of sex within a marriage. We are very open with our children about our sex life. They know that, on a lazy Sunday afternoon, it is best to leave their parents alone.

They realise that sex is the deepest form of communication between two committed individuals. .Of course, some people will argue that this can also take place outside marriage. They will argue that they have formed meaningful, happy relationships and that marriage does not guarantee fidelity. .While others are free to make their own lifestyle choices, we believe sex should not be just a recreational activity one engages in after a single drink (or more, probably) on the first date.

We have observed that many teenagers and adults engage in premarital sex because they feel insecure. They want a sense of assurance from others. But, one of the untold effects of casual sex is the sense of insecurity one feels after the act is over. Some people seek companionship and believe that offering their bodies is the easiest way to tie someone down.

But, they may soon begin to ask themselves: Will my partner continue with this relationship, or will he or she seek another person to have sex with tonight? If we could fall in bed so easily last night, will we fall out of love as easily today? Why do I feel like a piece of used tissue paper when he does not continue the relationship?

Sex between two committed individuals is enjoyable, and the fruit of this relationship is the child that will be created in the process. .One of the reasons why our birth rate has plummeted is because, through the use of contraceptives, we have separated the act of creation from sex.

By understanding the purpose and function of our body, we will learn to respect it as a powerful tool to create new life. .When they are taught about sex in this light, our children will be less inclined to engage in pre-marital sex, as creating a life brings on new responsibility.

Therefore, my husband had utmost confidence that our daughter would not be using the box of condoms he had given her before she went for camp. Likewise, the fidelity we have built up in our marriage earned me a similar box. .The writer is a mother of six.

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Old 18th March 2007, 08:22 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Would you give a box of condom to your partner? Like to hear your opinion.

huh give to partner >.< no bah lol

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Old 18th March 2007, 08:47 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Would you give a box of condom to your partner? Like to hear your opinion.

Give for what? Hmm...

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read la.. >.<

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Old 19th March 2007, 02:57 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Would you give a box of condom to your partner? Like to hear your opinion.

think i've read this b4..
i think this is like a 2 sided coin ba..
got pros n cons..
it depends on the individualz lor..
what n how do they see it.. :speechless:

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Old 19th March 2007, 03:20 PM   #6 (permalink)
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haha ya..it's kinda 2 sided..depends on how people see this..

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Old 19th March 2007, 03:28 PM   #7 (permalink)
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o.o i think dis father think very well.... n dis mum wrote well... but i scared their daughter really use de box of condom... den LoL le... haha

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Old 19th March 2007, 05:44 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Hmm nice article.... This article is more to the open-minded side of ppl.

This was not our intention when we embarked on this journey with our children. We hope they will not engage in premarital sex, but we are aware that peer pressure and societal values act as a counterweight to what we teach them. We recognise that we cannot stop them if they intend to have sex.
For this sentence which is really true nowadays, you cant really stop them if the teens wan it. After all this kind of matters is more to self discipline.

Therefore, my husband had utmost confidence that our daughter would not be using the box of condoms he had given her before she went for camp. Likewise, the fidelity we have built up in our marriage earned me a similar box. .The writer is a mother of six.
With this action, the parents had explain to their children the "topic on sex" and trust their children.

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Old 19th March 2007, 06:19 PM   #9 (permalink)
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not sure..properly noo

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LOL yah lor wait the girl really go use it.. then tat means the father has to buy alot of condoms??

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no la. maybe the girl will buy another box and replace. even after she used her father also dunno. lols.

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dun think soo.. :speechless:

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lol.
my brother go taiwan, we ask him bring condom xD~

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personally i think that if a parent offers them condoms, it would mean that it's alright to proceed with sex cos their parents have already given up in persuading them to save it for marriage.

but that's my opinion. as for my partner, no i wouldn't give her a box of condoms if she travels overseas. fidelity is very important to me.

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its meaningful. its true to a certain extent. but we have to agree us humans have individual styles of thinking .. for me i'd say no. i wont give. cos to some, they may think "oh he gave me means i can fool around".

therefore, i rather b strict and be safe rather than sorry.

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heh funny . so embarassing

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bought once for my used-to-be-beloved .
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&&& for dono wad reason, we joked bout it for the whole day =.=
til we both slept.
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hmmm... it reali depends :p

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I think I wouldn't lahz, its a little weird.. but if both parties reach an understanding, I think it should be ok..
Anyway, in my opinion, giving my partner a box of condoms when he goes overseas is like telling him tt its ok to have sex with another girl.. n of coz I won't approve of tt lol

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Originally Posted by HUIXIAN
bought once for my used-to-be-beloved .
wahaha


&&& for dono wad reason, we joked bout it for the whole day =.=
til we both slept.
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were u looking for him to make the first step?

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