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Old 16th November 2009, 02:46 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Guilty when bf always pay for you?

Does your boyfriend insist on paying most of your stuffs for you?

Even when he lent you a big sum of money and he doesnt expect u to return... He will even offer to subsidize your shopping expenditures.

Do you think its good?

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Old 16th November 2009, 03:36 PM   #2 (permalink)
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of coz it's nice even though i would feel guilty.. haha..

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Old 16th November 2009, 04:22 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

Paying for a meal is ok but not subsidizing my shopping expenditures, cos i can be a big spender when i buy my stuffs. You know how costly ladies' bags, shoes, acessories and clothes are right? Regarding meals and movies etc, sometimes i would pay, cos i'm already working.

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Old 16th November 2009, 04:29 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

well...he doesn't really lend me a huge sum of money la... not really.. because he also quite financially tight... yeap... but we pay our meals ourselves.. we're both working.. not teens any-more... so yeapp...

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

hmm...sometimes i feel that guys who such easy on money cant be reliable...
as in he tends to be generous to most of his friends.

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Old 16th November 2009, 04:53 PM   #6 (permalink)
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wow~ i will be super happy if he really pay all those expenditures~ hehe
although i will feel guilty... i will still give him a kiss kiss as a return..

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will feel guility....but what to do if the guy refuse to accept the return....just make me happy

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Old 16th November 2009, 05:21 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

food, movies etc of course ok.. but if my own clothes n all tt then no..

but for my case me n my bf share money.. lol.. i still buy wadever i like..

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

at times will feel guilty~ its like spending his money, thou we both are working~

most times he pays for my shopping, except those which i bought online, i pay myself~

in addition to that, he passes me 'allowances' out of his salary every month as well for me to spend~ if he knows i m hanging out with friends more that month, he passes me more, jus in case we go clubbing or wat not~

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

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at times will feel guilty~ its like spending his money, thou we both are working~

most times he pays for my shopping, except those which i bought online, i pay myself~

in addition to that, he passes me 'allowances' out of his salary every month as well for me to spend~ if he knows i m hanging out with friends more that month, he passes me more, jus in case we go clubbing or wat not~
ya i agree when the guilt comes in because we are working adults.

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Old 16th November 2009, 05:47 PM   #11 (permalink)
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wow.. urs sounds like e traditional husband.. lol
mine says he wanna do tt too.. but he dun wan me to work -.-
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wah liao lucky you. i don wish to work lor

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

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wah liao lucky you. i don wish to work lor
actually, imho, it's better that women to be financially stable even if hubby is earning alot or giving u alot of allowance.. any decision at home or wat, u can speak 'as loud as' ur hubby..

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

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Does your boyfriend insist on paying most of your stuffs for you?

Even when he lent you a big sum of money and he doesnt expect u to return... He will even offer to subsidize your shopping expenditures.

Do you think its good?

Please share some experiences!
Answer is yes but I rejected that offer. I prefer to pay for things I buy myself, more sense of satisfaction. But we frequently will pay for each other's expenses. Say maybe he buy me a wallet, the next time we go out, I buy him a pants in return? My bf is quite traditional so he expects himself to work harder and pay for most of the stuff.

I don't think it's good to be totally dependent on a guy financially. If he's gone one day, you are gone as well.

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

i will find mutual expenses better, as in he pay for something while i pay for other things in return. occasionally, he buys things for me then it's okays. but not too often..

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lol.. at tis time n age.. if both dun work n earn money.. v hard to hav a good life in singapore.. prices going up n up but pay oni go downhill or stay stagnant.. nt practical for juz husband to work..

n i oso agree.. lol.. wife work then can argue abt money or not everyth hav to ok to wad husband say.. then i will v bui song =x

n oso e sense of accomplishment when u buy someth wif ur own money lol.. then u will treasure e thing more.. of course as n when if he wanna buy stuff for me of course i happy.. bt if everyth then i will oso sian sian..

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

sometimes good, sometimes bad la.

will guilty.

cannot make it a habit. got money return him as much as possible. got spare cash treat him to a meal or something.

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haha i see many independent women here! thats good

but i don uds why most of my girlfriends like to show off to me that their bf is supporting them. they can splurge as and when they like though they are not working.

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Old 19th November 2009, 07:41 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

Nope he doesnt and yes i'll feel guilty. When we first started out, he used to pay for my meals and movies, but not now. Now we go dutch (:

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Re: Guilty when bf always pay for you?

My bf always paid for the food and my shopping spree when we go out. He insist that this is what guy should do..

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