[Opiko]

There is this boy I really like (let's call him Danny)... we've been friends since secondary school but recently he hasn't been responding to my emails... I'm scared something may have happened to him （*´▽｀*）Please help!

[squall56302]

Personally, i only use emailing as a means for official work/school communication. Between friends, i really won't bother replying using email, but instead would seek them out using either Facebook or MSN messengers.

I think it is quite normal, because a lot of people don't actively use their emails (Or check them often). Hence, it might be just that you email is not seen yet. Perhaps you might try another means of communication.

[WhiteSpade]

If you're worried, try texting him (if you've his number). Start by asking "hey did you receive the email I sent you?" Wait for his reply. Patience is the key.

[Opiko]

Well I called him too in case he was sick or something happened...

maybe the last email I sent Danny hurt his feelings? I'll copy it here for you to see:

"I just ate miso soup for dinner last night! The stars are really pretty tonight... P.S. did I do something bad or something? Please reply I'm worried..." （*´▽｀*）

[createweb]

well you can try the tried and tested method of stalking his facebook

[Opiko]

I posted on his facebook many times... But whenever I come back after a few minutes the post will disappear... so I stopped relying on these modern technology... （*´▽｀*） They are not trustworthy...

The last post I made on his wall was the same as the email... Could it have hurt Danny's feelings?

[WhiteSpade]

Sorry, but I think you revealed a little too much about what you were doing in that message.

Especially if you want to see if he is interested in you, this is the time when you should take a step back, remain conservative and hold back, instead of presenting an eagerness in wanting to talk to him. To add on, you indicated how worried you felt. and he already clearly knows you want him to reply.

Only thing you can do now is wait patiently for his reply.

[Opiko]

But we've been in the same secondary school for four years and now I think our feelings may be mutual... （*´▽｀*）

[squall56302]

Originally Posted by Opiko

Well I called him too in case he was sick or something happened...

maybe the last email I sent Danny hurt his feelings? I'll copy it here for you to see:

"I just ate miso soup for dinner last night! The stars are really pretty tonight... P.S. did I do something bad or something? Please reply I'm worried..." （*´▽｀*）

Rain check. How many emails of these kind had you sent to him? Feel free to ignore if you think it is too sensitive to share...

...because i have to be honest with you. I used to receive a lot of SMSes from a girl of the similar kind. At the start, it feels awesome to have a lady talking to you like this, but over time, she does not stop sharing snippets and snippets of her everyday life and i got really tired of replying to her.

...eventually i stop replying and both of us moved on.

Just a personal experience for thought.

[createweb]

Originally Posted by Opiko

But we've been in the same secondary school for four years and now I think our feelings may be mutual... （*´▽｀*）

Or it might be you overthinking things? He is obviously avoiding you cos you are probably too sticky. You might want to slow things down?

[WhiteSpade]

Originally Posted by Opiko

But we've been in the same secondary school for four years and now I think our feelings may be mutual... （*´▽｀*）

Same secondary school for 4 years, and here you are still feeling worried about him? I think you should calm down, relax and have a good night's sleep first.

All I can say is, loosen the attachment you have for him, get a grip on yourself.

Attachment -> Expectations -> Disappointment.

[Opiko]

I think I've sent him around 800 emails since Monday... （*´▽｀*）

[WhiteSpade]

SERIOUSLY, 800?

Why so clingy?

[createweb]

Good God, 800? That's probably more then what i receive in a year. You really need to slow it down

[Opiko]

Don’t make fun of me, okay!
I don’t have any friends, so you’re the only people I can ask about this!
Most of the emails are just updates on my current mental state anyway... （*´▽｀*）

[Opiko]

And I think it was only around 80 on Monday and Tuesday... （*´▽｀*）

[WhiteSpade]

To be honest, 8 emails per day from the same person is already enough for me to click "mass delete". (Unless that person is someone significant to me).

But, 800? That's seriously insane. Furthermore, they're updates on your mental state, I suggest you divert your attention fast & do your best to forget him. Because let me tell you this: He is avoiding you already.

[squall56302]

Originally Posted by Opiko

Don’t make fun of me, okay!
I don’t have any friends, so you’re the only people I can ask about this!
Most of the emails are just updates on my current mental state anyway... （*´▽｀*）

That is the problem.

Guys won't wanna know much about girls' mental state. 800 is way overkill. You really need to stop.

In fact, i would say that if he is aware that you had sent 800 mails to him about your mental state update, he is as good as lost. I would almost bet my all that he will give you the cold shoulder from now on. Sorry to say this.

...i can't even imagine reading 100 smses even from my previous encounter which i thought was really...eerie.

[fowayne]

hmm.. i think maybe hes trying to avoid u since hes not replying your email n deleting away your facebook posts.

Please stop worrying n move on with your life n studies.

[utahjazz]

just ignore him, maybe he scare of you, so he dun wan reply