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Old 04-09-2009, 10:06 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hello all...

I have a girl I like but it somehow seems to hard to talk to her more and she seems to be surrounded by many handsome guys. She talks about how hot the guys are. What should I do? AHHAA.. tough question though

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Old 04-09-2009, 10:19 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Emo one corner lor... Well try talking to other girls... Not all girls are the same as her you know..

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Emo one corner lor... Well try talking to other girls... Not all girls are the same as her you know..
true... haish but I dunno why I like her? omgooshie...

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in restaurant, you could ask her what kind of food she would prefer.
during enjoying dinner, you should ask her about her favorite movie, thing, etc.
i think the best way is to talk about what you are good at, but you should make her understood easier and think it is funny..

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true... haish but I dunno why I like her? omgooshie...
physical attraction
simple as that

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Old 04-09-2009, 05:25 PM   #6 (permalink)
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yeah agree, should be her looks that attracted you & made you feel like you like her not only for her looks. But actually, its her looks you're going for.

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start talking to other girls then slowly get to know her better??

Just my 2 cents. I normally talk to everyone in class, so no diff for me..

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Step By Step. Talk To Others Girl First

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Don hold back because of the fact that she is surrounded by handsome guys. Jus start a interesting topic and be funny with your talking that shld attracts her

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just join in the topic..
pretend you're one of the handsome hot guy too..
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Use mouth to talk?

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thanks for the reply... I actually not really like her looks only but her characters too (: She is a nice and caring heart... I'm only 21 and I do not know how also. My dressing seems bad to me and hoping to improve loads more...

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Its something ppl can't teach you..

YOU have to show courage yourselves.

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anyhow whack a topic. if you see her smoking, you could go up there and pretend to borrow a lighter(provided that you smoke). from there, you can make some small talks about her age, study what etc etc?

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U can do some research by reading her blog if she has it.
In this way , u will get to know her better. From there, u will know
how to begin

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walk over to her and whisper to her ear "asgm"
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Ask : How much? ......lol..j/k
i also dunnoe becoz i am a shy guy like u thats y i am still single now. Like what others said u probably need courage. Or be a loser like me. what i do is i try to find flaw on the girl and give myself reasons that she is not perfect and i will find a better one.
pls dun be like me pick up ur courage and fight for your love

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Wow man, it's killer when the girl you like/love talks about how hot other guy is !

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Wow man, it's killer when the girl you like/love talks about how hot other guy is !
lol. True. But i kinda forget those 'liking' feeling. When i look at girl, i think for a while if she can be a good wife before trying to make her my gf. So I have to flirt in order to find that out.

How to talk to a girl?

1) Ask the time technique
You will need to remove your wristwatch if you are wearing one. Make sure the girl is holding a phone or wearing a wristwatch. Then approach her, and ask, "Hi Miss, may I know what's the time now?"
She will answer, then you go relief yourself and maybe say out, "wahh.. lucky still early.."
continue from there

2) How to do this - technique
This is helpful if you are in class with her. Just be thickskin and approach the girl and ask her question, "NAME, how do i do this question?". Make sure you ask a question that she know how to answer. Or else you will get, "oh.. i'm sorry, i don't know". Then when she answer you, you start talking to her la. How to start the convo? Just compliment. Wah, you are good at this subject.... Do you practice every day?... Eh, next time can teach me again? lol

3) Show interest in her stuff
This is great if you are already a friend of her. I've use this a lot. Just ask, hey where you buy this...looks good on you... stuffs like that. This is my favourite technique on MSN.

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hahaha... (: i struggle about courage my friend out there jiayou! (: Anyway the tips you gave me quite interesting about timing and lala.. x) Maybe i could try it out

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