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Old 28th December 2009, 03:49 AM   #1 (permalink)
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how do you deflate an ego like hers?

i have a friend whose attitude is getting overbearing bcos recently, some guys has been wooing her / taking an interest in her
she has mastered the art of makeup and what they think is pretty is jus tt 'made-up' face of hers
w/o makeup, she looks ordinary n ur typical girl-next-door
however, she seem to forget abt this and let all the compliments go into her head
so now, she probably really think she is the goddess of the world & start to boss around
her ego is seriously inflating and it's obvious
she uses unkind words n talk as if she is the best
how should i deflate her ego, bring her back to earth yet not destroying this friendship?

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Old 28th December 2009, 07:47 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

I've a friend like your's.
We're in secondary one only.

She stares at guys, and the guys stare back, she tell us, saying the guy staring at her.
She was hinting us a lot people like her, when people don't.
(The guys stare cause she stare at them)

She have this princessy attitude, like her bag cannot put on the floor, you cannot hit her too hard even she hit you real hard, cause shes boney, she talk about people's appearance but we can't talk about her appearance.

The whole class already cannot stand her.

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Old 28th December 2009, 11:16 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

tell her straight in her face. tell her that u are telling her this because u care for her as a friend.

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Old 28th December 2009, 01:17 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Just bring in a prettier friend...

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Bring a magazine to school one day and flip to a particular page with pretty models and tell her you think this particular model is the prettiest..nobody can beat her.. just kept saying good stuffs about the model, like, "oh she's so pretty, nobody can beat her. she look quite humble too. pretty face, good hearted, inner beauty is also important". :p

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Old 28th December 2009, 06:06 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

try talking to her.write her a note. i think you should only mention her attitude without the cause in which u think is making her ego grow which is the compliment she receives from her friends. she might think you are jealous. it's going to be awkward but worth a try of you think she has a possibility to realise the wrong of her own actions.

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Old 30th December 2009, 07:07 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

i would compliment on how other girls look really pretty without make up and say "why are we not that pretty"

if all else fails, i wouldnt wanna remain close friends as her

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Old 31st December 2009, 12:29 AM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

hey people
after posting here, i find that she improved a little (note: A LITTLE)
as in her attitude wasn't as terrible as the day i made my posting
but i realised if let's say something is not going well for her, she like to pull people down to 'accompany' her
these few days, i have been not-as-meek as in the past and tried to speak up whenever she is trying to boss me around
hope it will get into her brain that i am no pushover
will update this thread again

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Old 31st December 2009, 11:07 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

i have friends who are like that in the past too. then i stop relying on one particular friend so much and start walking around to make more friends. although i won't feel that close to any of my friends now, i think it is better than to focus all my energy in one person. i would sometimes have the tendency to over-read my best friend as well, hence i think having more friends kinda work better for me.

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Old 3rd January 2010, 04:50 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Oh I know a few of this people, and I've been through this situation before. They're my close friends, I just let them be, and I tease and joke at their shamelessness now and they themselves laugh about it also. If your friend isn't the serious kind, maybe you could try that, but with caution!!

But I don't feel the need to deflate their egos, why do you want to do that to her anyway? Sometimes these girls do it because they are not confident of themselves, so it is a mental mechanism that keeps them sane and happy.

You can either just let her be, some guy will smack some sense into her someday.

If you're not happy because of her attitude and there are more reasons to leave this friendship then stay, then leave and make new friends, remain friends with her but not too close. =)

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Old 8th January 2010, 01:10 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

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Just bring in a prettier friend...
yeah good idea. haha.

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

well, since you're friends with her, maybe you should talk to her? friends should always be truthful with one another right? i mean if she continues like this, she will make more enemies than friends, i tell you. just tell her nicely and gently alright?and if she cannot accept the facts, than no point being friends with her. yeap!

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

reevaluate your friendship... her behavior is a sign of immaturity and selfishness. do u want to be friends w someone like that?

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Originally Posted by wangzi<3 View Post
i have a friend whose attitude is getting overbearing bcos recently, some guys has been wooing her / taking an interest in her
she has mastered the art of makeup and what they think is pretty is jus tt 'made-up' face of hers
w/o makeup, she looks ordinary n ur typical girl-next-door
however, she seem to forget abt this and let all the compliments go into her head
so now, she probably really think she is the goddess of the world & start to boss around
her ego is seriously inflating and it's obvious
she uses unkind words n talk as if she is the best
how should i deflate her ego, bring her back to earth yet not destroying this friendship?
If she is really your friend then you have to talk to her in a kind and gentle manner. Tell her your observations and about waht others think of her. Explain to her that since she is your friend you only wanted what is good for her. You need to be sincere in opening this up to her so she will believe you and try to change her ways and attitudes.

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Talk to her bout how you feel.

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Originally Posted by rebelliousbaby View Post
Talk to her bout how you feel.
i agree

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Re: how do you deflate an ego like hers?

Originally Posted by oreobiscuit View Post
I've a friend like your's.
We're in secondary one only.

She stares at guys, and the guys stare back, she tell us, saying the guy staring at her.
She was hinting us a lot people like her, when people don't.
(The guys stare cause she stare at them)

She have this princessy attitude, like her bag cannot put on the floor, you cannot hit her too hard even she hit you real hard, cause shes boney, she talk about people's appearance but we can't talk about her appearance.

The whole class already cannot stand her.
same as one girl in my class.. so terrible.. she also tells bad things abt me to her boy friends..

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