[Artemis86]

continued from How to get a great guy ...TODAY

1. Give chemistry a minute. Many women (and men) erroneously believe that the first three seconds of laying eyes on someone must crackle with intense electricity. Relationship experts will tell you otherwise. And any woman who ever realized she was in love with her best male friend will say ditto. Besides, if you were meant to be with the guy you were super-hot for from the get-go, you’d have married what’s-his-name from 11th grade. Sometimes it takes a while to get over your nervousness, to stop fronting, to hit on a shared passion or just “feel right” before lightning strikes.

2. Never look back. If you get that feeling — in your heart, your gut, your head and your senses — that a relationship is not working, make a clean break and don’t look back. Do not stay in the wrong relationship; it’s not fair to you or him. And if it’s a bad (as in physically or verbally abusive) scene, get out now!

3. Don’t kid yourself. Men are not very complicated, so if he tells you he’s not looking for a relationship or doesn’t want to settle down, believe him. He’s not lying. He’s not testing you. He’s not just in need of the love of a good woman (i.e., you) to prove otherwise. You’re wasting your time at best, setting yourself up for heartbreak at worst.

4. Relax about interracial dating. There are plenty of fish in the sea, and they come in all colors. Just make sure you’re realistic about the potentially unenthusiastic reaction of your parents, his parents and the public.

5. Date like a man. When it comes to romance, women let men call the shots. Flip the script once in a while and date on your own terms. See a few different guys at once; wait a day to call him back and end the phone call first; lean over and plant one on

[inle]

tats good...
i think we r revealin too much la...

hahahaaaa

[Kaze.YonGMinG]

revealing too much? o.o

[Artemis86]

Lolz really ah? i thot its gd guide for girls...Hahaha

[GhostStalker]

i think some girls have the impression that once u become their friend...There very little chance of developing something more.

I may wrong...LOL but that's wat some of my girl friends told me...

[huage]

relationship is better to start out from friendship

[khellvinne]

Originally Posted by huage

relationship is better to start out from friendship

yup, agree, those start too fast you stil not yet knw them well, will get more and more misunderstand.

[inle]

Originally Posted by GhostStalker

i think some girls have the impression that once u become their friend...There very little chance of developing something more.

I may wrong...LOL but that's wat some of my girl friends told me...

i think start from frds will b better..
u can also acces if both of u can communicate well enough..
n also to noe each other better n see if can click or not...
n also noe each other char mah...

[Artemis86]

Originally Posted by davidkwankk

i think start from frds will b better..
u can also acces if both of u can communicate well enough..
n also to noe each other better n see if can click or not...
n also noe each other char mah...

Haha true~~

And there's a trick to not making ur female fren feel so comfortable with u as a 'fren' that she will dismiss u as a lover/bf.

=x Not telling tho...ahahha

PLs go experiment urself..

[Kaze.YonGMinG]

usually once labeled friend or buddy = gone case or it takes extremely long to change her mindset

I spend 11 months doing that =x

[HEERO]

Originally Posted by Artemis86

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5. Date like a man. When it comes to romance, women let men call the shots. Flip the script once in a while and date on your own terms. See a few different guys at once; wait a day to call him back and end the phone call first; lean over and plant one on

i prefer girls to plan at times.. woops.