1. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future. All girls are different, so be aware of the signs. Listen to the tone of her voice: if she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. Another sign she likes you is if she laughs at a normally boring or stupid joke. (Though, don't be dumb and use bad jokes as a test or you'll just look like a comedic loser.) She may not be able to look you straight in the eye and she might giggle a lot.
2. Watch for signs of flirting. If she's flirting, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with guys who they consider to be just friends, and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. Either way, don't "flirt around". Do not flirt with other girls. If she ever sees you putting your arm around another girl or sees another girl hug you, she may jump to conclusions and assume she doesn't mean anything to you.
3. Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do (she's constantly trying to touch your hand or something). If she finds excuses to do so, then you're probably on the right track. But conversely, don't assume that just because she isn't touching you that she doesn't like you. She may be too nervous of you to touch you yet. Break the touch barrier yourself.
4. Observe how she looks at you. If she likes you, she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly, it means she is nervous but she still likes you - which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare, then she is confident and she may make the first move. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you, although she may quickly dart her head in a different direction. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.
5. Look at her friends. If you see most of her friends glancing back at you and smiling or giggling, this means that she is telling her friends about you. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her friends might be making it up, however, just to tease her. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden. This likely means you were the subject of the recently ended conversation. If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: Who would you rather date?, Who do you like better?, Who is the hottest?, and such. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and they're trying to search for clues to see how you feel about her.
6. Look out for the damsel in distress. If you're outside and the girl you like is nearby and starts loudly saying "I'm cold!", that's a subtle hint that she wants you to give her your sweater. This is a very sweet gesture, especially if you want to show the girl that you like her. If there are other guys and she likes one of those guys, however, she might act disappointed when you offer yours to her first, in which case at least you'll know how she feels and can move on. Sometimes a girl will pretend to be really bad at something, and say that they can't do it. That is your cue to offer some assistance, and she will most likely be doing this on purpose just to see your reaction.
7. Smile at her. Do a natural smile - don't freak her out. If she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away, say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you. If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you, then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her friends and hides in the group then she may be nervous and curious if you know that she likes you.

TIPS

• Look for other clues:. She'll leave clues everywhere if you know where to look. Do you notice any of these:
  • Her hair: If she tugs on her hair or plays with it, when she is around you or when she sees you come into a room, it means she's nervous. She's nervous about seeing you.
  • Stares: Depending on how much she likes you and how good of an actress she is, she can give you long looks when your not looking or glance at you.
  • Passing interactions: If you see her walking down the hallway, she'll look at you once, quickly. She'll probably smile, but you know, try to contain it.
  • Questioning: If she constantly asks about your status with girls and asks your preference in types of girls, then she is likely fishing to see if she might meet your interests.
  • Hitting: If she tries to hit you (i.e., a "slap" on the arm, a "punch"), then she probably likes you. If you feign injury and the girl seems amused, she likes you. If you feign injury and the girl seems slightly worried, she thinks of you only as a friend.
• If you find out that a girl likes you, don't act like she is from another planet or has the flu. Girls don't like it and their hearts can be very fragile, so be careful. Don't be mean or give her the cold shoulder because IF you do end up liking her eventually, she may not give you another chance. Also, that kind of mistake can mess up your reputation as being a good boyfriend.
• Ask her friends, they can be really good and most likely will not tell her unless they know she likes you, and that could be good, trust me just go up and say i think i like(their friends name) and see their reactions
• Do not try to flirt with the girl's friends. This may cause the girl's friend to believe that you like her and cause bad relations between the two.
• Telling a guy that he's like her brother may be a girl's polite way of saying that she's not interested to someone she is friends with. However, for some girls, this may indicate shyness. Do not automatically assume that she doesn't like you if she says you are like her brother.
• If she hugs you, hug her back. If you're shy and you feel uncomfortable and try to push her away, she'll get all confused and well, you don't want that.
• Girls like to know who has a crush on them. Even if you aren't sure, tell her. If you're nice about it and don't harass her, she won't mind at all.
• If a girl smiles and calls you her BFF, she might like you. Be careful, though, she really could mean that you are just friends.
• Also a girl likes you, they will probably laugh at all your jokes even if they're not funny or if they're not jokes.

Warnings

• Girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone - she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard. And as much as you may want to...don't ever do the same thing back. Girls are more sensitive and will probably just give up on you if you do that.
• Don't directly ask her if she likes you. This tends to backfire if said improperly because the girl will get all tense and uncomfortable. So its better not asked.
• Be careful! The girl might not like you and think you like her, which could lead to hurt feelings. She might try to hook you up with someone else by just simply saying to you, "Doesn't (another girl's name) look pretty today?" (or something like that to try and get you to leave them alone). If you get this hint, try and act indifferent while observing and changing your opinions to match theirs more, then try again after a while.

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[haode]

Thank for posting !

[WestPunx]

If only it was this easy...girls might look at you forever but they won't go out with you!

[Toxic Insanity]

Originally Posted by WestPunx

If only it was this easy...girls might look at you forever but they won't go out with you!

This is True , as well i like to point out that . There's difference between like and love. as like can be interested.

[finaldust]

cool information but some gals behave abnormally bah?

[ALCOHOLIQUE]

hmmmm... interesting..

[lovewendy]

thats very helpful!

[masterboix]

Notice if she touches you more often than what friends do

I beat her then she beat back under touch anot?

[Newsweek]

This could be useful

But none of the above happened yet :p

[ValkyrieLenneth]

hmm thx for the info

[Ac|enTz]

hmm what if a gal always try to find fault with u for no particular reason, does that mean she is interested in u? (ie. she will always call u names or make sarcastic remarks at the smallest thing)

[wohaha]

haha... Thanks for the useful information

[Toxic Insanity]

Originally Posted by Ac|enTz

hmm what if a gal always try to find fault with u for no particular reason, does that mean she is interested in u? (ie. she will always call u names or make sarcastic remarks at the smallest thing)

she wants your attention .. =D .. it the same for guys lol..

[x1x2x3x]

lol may be useful..

[shypineapple]

no5 is very true

[appel]

That is interesting

[NeoNerol]

eh...i've been texting this gal alot... den date her out like only 2-3 times...
she calls mi quite often late at night...
but i gt no idea how to start a relationship with her?!
i nv had any GF before la~

[Toxic Insanity]

Originally Posted by NeoNerol

eh...i've been texting this gal alot... den date her out like only 2-3 times...
she calls mi quite often late at night...
but i gt no idea how to start a relationship with her?!
i nv had any GF before la~

this kind of sutff.. it hard to teach. as you might wan it to be a special way for you to win her heart right .. XD ! find a way yourself .. !! and all the best

[NeoNerol]

Originally Posted by Toxic Insanity

this kind of sutff.. it hard to teach. as you might wan it to be a special way for you to win her heart right .. XD ! find a way yourself .. !! and all the best

wah~ u enlighten me...thank you
go brainstorming liao..

[shypineapple]

Originally Posted by NeoNerol

eh...i've been texting this gal alot... den date her out like only 2-3 times...
she calls mi quite often late at night...
but i gt no idea how to start a relationship with her?!
i nv had any GF before la~

when you two meet eye to eye. if you feel your heart goes smth like BOOM BOOM POW.
then maybe yes.....or maybe not.