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26-03-2009, 06:30 PM
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I believe this is a problem that many people face, usually by girls I believe, but it doesn't matter. As the title suggests, how to reject a girl without hurting her?
She's a nice person, but I'm just not into her and I really don't see what's so good about me? LOL.
Please help. I hope to settle this fast, so that she can move on. Yet I don't want to hurt her. | 
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26-03-2009, 06:35 PM
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Tell her you don't plan to get a gf now. Or something like you don't want to find a gf now, and even future. | |
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26-03-2009, 06:37 PM
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Originally Posted by DreamyNeko  Tell her you don't plan to get a gf now. Or something like you don't want to find a gf now, and even future. | Hahaha! She's persistent.
The only reason I don't want to date her is because she cannot speak English. LOL!
Or rather her level of English isn't very good and I have a hard time understanding her.
Oh well.. I shall try using this reason again. Thanks! | |
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26-03-2009, 06:40 PM
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either way, i dont believe that theres a way that she will not be hurt. even if u got valid reasons for the rejection she will still be hurt. she has to go through it. | |
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26-03-2009, 06:46 PM
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Originally Posted by jinkazama92 either way, i dont believe that theres a way that she will not be hurt. even if u got valid reasons for the rejection she will still be hurt. she has to go through it. | Oh no... Never mind, I think I should be harsh then. LOL! Thanks. | |
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26-03-2009, 06:49 PM
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Quite a few times, i will slowly float away...talk to her less...online msn less...sms no more...slowly slowly. This how i managed to get away afew times also... | |
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26-03-2009, 06:49 PM
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Tell her that you already have another girl in mind, before you know her, important, must say before you know her.
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26-03-2009, 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by DreamyNeko Quite a few times, i will slowly float away...talk to her less...online msn less...sms no more...slowly slowly. This how i managed to get away afew times also... | Quote:
Originally Posted by Zendefone Tell her that you already have another girl in mind, before you know her. | Ingenious.. =) | |
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26-03-2009, 07:30 PM
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hmm.. since she'll be hurt no matter what.
why not tell her that u prefer a gf who can converse in english? This may make her wana learn speak english. At least u helped her pick up a language? | |
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26-03-2009, 07:32 PM
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Originally Posted by kannerth Ingenious.. =) | Bring her go watch DMC & tell her u love the song Satsugai, she might leave u ...
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26-03-2009, 07:34 PM
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Originally Posted by chiqo hmm.. since she'll be hurt no matter what.
why not tell her that u prefer a gf who can converse in english? This may make her wana learn speak english. At least u helped her pick up a language? | I've already told her that I want a girl who can speak proper English and she is trying really hard for my sake. On one hand, I feel happy for her, but on the other hand, I feel bad because even if she picks it up, I'm not going to accept her.
But thanks for the advice. | |
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26-03-2009, 07:58 PM
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Is that girl..someone that we know..like, from SGClub?
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26-03-2009, 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Lancelot Is that girl..someone that we know..like, from SGClub? | No. By the way, the girl you're referring to, though her English isn't fantastic, it is good.
And we parted a long time ago. Yeah...
Different person. | |
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26-03-2009, 08:00 PM
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26-03-2009, 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by AhFaz Tell her i`m gay. | No offence to all gays out there. But I'm anti-gay, so I definitely won't say this. | |
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26-03-2009, 08:03 PM
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haha srry.just a suggestion tho..it chase all the girls away who liked me lol. | |
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26-03-2009, 08:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Stanstan Bring her go watch DMC & tell her u love the song Satsugai, she might leave u ... | HAHAHA!  NICE ONE!! | |
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26-03-2009, 08:05 PM
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Originally Posted by AhFaz haha srry.just a suggestion tho..it chase all the girls away who liked me lol. | Hahaha! Sure it is a brilliant way. But I just cannot pretend to associate myself with gays.
Don't have to apologise dude. You're not wrong. | |
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26-03-2009, 08:10 PM
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Be honest and don't make it sound like you never wanna talk to her ever again. It beats better than having to cook up some excuse that makes her wonder where she went wrong, etc etc.. . | |
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26-03-2009, 08:14 PM
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aiya, run away. then she'll forget youuu . haha
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