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Old 21st November 2010, 02:14 AM   #1 (permalink)
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I dont understand :@

Hey ppl i am very upset and angry now. I dont understand why my parents disallowed me to be in a relationship ?? Zzz. She wants me to break up with her. My mum call my girl and scolded her and ask her not to contact me anymore. Confiscate my phone and all sorts of nosense she use to force me. My studies are not affected, exams i still did quite well. Wtf is wrong with her ????? FML la

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Old 21st November 2010, 02:25 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Perhaps your mother feels that you are far too young or immature for a relationship.

Being a student and having a relationship isn't always the easiest thing, your mother has your best interests at heart when she denies you this chance. While things may be smooth now, when your relationship starts becoming rocky it will be your family who will have to piece back together the pieces of your heart. Unless you have the strength of character to keep steady even in troublesome matters, a relationship is eventually more trouble than it is worth for the young and inexperienced.

If you can prove to your mother that you are mature enough, I am sure that she would not object to you having a relationship. However maturity is a hard thing to defy, and the closest definition I can find is "being responsible for your self" or "being levelheaded". That would mean taking her denial of your relationship as a sign that there is more you need to know/learn about life rather than taking it as a mother's overprotective nonsense.

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I still dont see in what way am i immature and who the heck need her or the family to place the pieces of broken heart back if the relationship fails ??

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If you are unable to rationally and calmly handle the emotional stress generated from this incident, I do not think that you will be able to handle the far greater emotional stress that a rocky relationship/break up will entail.

Being immature would be to adopt a worldview focused on the immediate and the present, as your limited experience would not be able to lend you the foresight needed to understand why and how your decision to enter a relationship will affect you. Maturity is the product of experience, it is through the act of falling down potholes and climbing back up that you will eventually recognize obstacles and learn how to avoid them.

Whether or not you need her, she will certainly love you for the rest of your life, and she will provide for you as she has been providing for you ever since she carried you in her womb. You may hate her or detest her, but a mother will always love you and offer you all that she can in order to ease your pain or better your life.

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