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Old 15th October 2008, 10:38 AM   #1 (permalink)
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if you are pregnant..

with a child that is abnormal ..
will you choose to give birth to it because you do not wish to kill it?
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will you choose to kill it because it might suffer more being in this world?

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Old 15th October 2008, 11:18 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: if you are pregnant..

Super hard to decide! Depends how abnormal.. If it will lead to the child having to suffer when he or she grows up, I would rather be cruel at the start and abort it.

Me suffering the pain of losing a child is better than my child and I suffering for the next 10, 20 or even 30 years of our lives..

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Old 15th October 2008, 11:39 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: if you are pregnant..

If i say i will gib it up before he/she is being born, tts jus a plain selfish side of me making the decision.

Nobody haf the right to take away the life of another.
I'll go ahead and gib birth to the child and let him/her haf at least a chance to c the world and try my very best to give him/her the best in life.
Should there be any sufferings, the family shall suffer all together.

Be it ur a normal human, or slightly unique human, at some point of time, suffering is always there in life. Its just how u look at things and overcome it.
Even through the hardest point of time, there might still be happiness somewhere there, which comes from true love and concern from others.

So i truly believe tht happiness or suffering, at least give them a chance to decide their own.

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Old 15th October 2008, 12:27 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: if you are pregnant..

Cliche.

Anyway, i'll be better off without it.

I don't even like kids to begin with. Might have a change of mind in the future, but i doubt so.

Seriously, kids in SG ? Are you kidding ? Have you not seen enough of the childrens and kids in SG.

I really find them very irritating and spastic most of the times. True there will be joy at some point of our lives and maybe the child. But we're talking about abnormal. People in SG are kaypos and they STARE with their eyes wide open without feeling embarrassed about it, your child will probably get stared at, made fun of, being mocked. How can he/she grow up properly ? And can you really protect your child all the time ?

If my child turns out like me, i believe he/she will not want to exist. Cause the world is getting uglier.. (at least that's how i feel)

Tell me how many Singaporeans won't stare in a train. Don't tell me to drive a car/ take cabs. You know fuel prices will increase in the near future.

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Old 15th October 2008, 02:00 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: if you are pregnant..

its hard... i dun wanna kill it but dun wan it 2 suffer here.... can i pick both?

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Old 15th October 2008, 02:43 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: if you are pregnant..

i wun kill it, i rather let it hav a chance 2 view tis world.. giv lots of world tat he/she will need..

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Re: if you are pregnant..

Originally Posted by Kimiirawrrs View Post
Cliche.

Anyway, i'll be better off without it.

I don't even like kids to begin with. Might have a change of mind in the future, but i doubt so.

Seriously, kids in SG ? Are you kidding ? Have you not seen enough of the childrens and kids in SG.

I really find them very irritating and spastic most of the times. True there will be joy at some point of our lives and maybe the child. But we're talking about abnormal. People in SG are kaypos and they STARE with their eyes wide open without feeling embarrassed about it, your child will probably get stared at, made fun of, being mocked. How can he/she grow up properly ? And can you really protect your child all the time ?

If my child turns out like me, i believe he/she will not want to exist. Cause the world is getting uglier.. (at least that's how i feel)

Tell me how many Singaporeans won't stare in a train. Don't tell me to drive a car/ take cabs. You know fuel prices will increase in the near future.
you're rightbut from the way you type your messageyou seem to hate Singaporeans alot

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Old 15th October 2008, 09:03 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: if you are pregnant..

i would abort it. coz i wouldnt wan the baby to suffer when he/she is born into this world. it will also bring misery to me and the ones surrounding me.

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Re: if you are pregnant..

I guess it is dependent on whether you have enough love and money to reduce the suffering of the child to a minimum.

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Re: if you are pregnant..

Originally Posted by Village_girl View Post
you're rightbut from the way you type your messageyou seem to hate Singaporeans alot

Primary students at my time were willing to give selflessly, and now they're acting like mini teenagers in the streets.

Most/Some SG teenagers seriously have an attitude problem and i really can't stand them !

But, there are still youngsters out there who are nice and a million times better off.

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Originally Posted by Kimiirawrrs View Post
Primary students at my time were willing to give selflessly, and now they're acting like mini teenagers in the streets.

Most/Some SG teenagers seriously have an attitude problem and i really can't stand them !

But, there are still youngsters out there who are nice and a million times better off.
I must agree with you that Singaporeans are crafted with some attitude problems ,they are indeed very self-centered!I thought I am the only person who thought of it that way

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Re: if you are pregnant..

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with a child that is abnormal ..
will you choose to give birth to it because you do not wish to kill it?
OR
will you choose to kill it because it might suffer more being in this world?

It's really difficult to make the decision. But u have to tink from different angles:
1. if you keep it, will u be able to take care of the kid for whole life?
2. Will you regret? can you accept if public is look down at you and ur child? Will the public accept ur kid?
3. is ur financial situation allowed you to do so, to keep the baby?

If you decided to keep the baby, you should provide the support and care to the fullest ensure the kid is happy.

If you face such problem, i believe you should seek advice from doctors or profession or anyone who encounter such problem, and how they overcome all the difficulties....

Am i right ?? What do you guys think ?

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Re: if you are pregnant..

Depend I guess. It's so hard to make a choice. Sigh.

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Re: if you are pregnant..

it so hard to choose but i will choose to kill the baby before it was born.
because the baby will really suffer a lots when it was born.
firstly, the medical fee will kill you.
second, the pain the baby may not take it.
thirdly, people may use another type of eyes sight to look at it.

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Re: if you are pregnant..

if i pregnant, i will keep the baby and take all the risk.

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Re: if you are pregnant..

Originally Posted by 彷徨者 View Post
It's really difficult to make the decision. But u have to tink from different angles:
1. if you keep it, will u be able to take care of the kid for whole life?
2. Will you regret? can you accept if public is look down at you and ur child? Will the public accept ur kid?
3. is ur financial situation allowed you to do so, to keep the baby?

If you decided to keep the baby, you should provide the support and care to the fullest ensure the kid is happy.

If you face such problem, i believe you should seek advice from doctors or profession or anyone who encounter such problem, and how they overcome all the difficulties....

Am i right ?? What do you guys think ?
I believe so..the fact is we are unable to know what the baby WANTs xDthat is the most difficult part of this whole problem!

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Re: if you are pregnant..

I want it 2 live but not suffer in this world...

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Re: if you are pregnant..

I will kill it.

Don't want the baby to suffer from humiliation when he/she grows up and save me n my husband from hell too.

It's the best option for both parties.

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I will "wash' it away.... cos if I were to leave the world before my baby, who will take care of the poor child? And I believe the long term financial situation won't allow me to keep the baby also...This will be a painful decision but since the baby is born in this way, I guess this is the baby's fate .....

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Re: if you are pregnant..

Keep it ba. give him/her a chance to live. Also human ma.
But if got complications, wont' keep it lo.

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