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Old 21-10-2009, 01:46 AM   #41 (permalink)
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From what you written, I believe that she is definitely interested in being good friends with you. But i cannot say she is confirm interested in being your girlfriend. Because, girls might try to disturb guys into being interested in them by giving such hints that you have mentioned (entertainment purposes to some girls). Well, I hope my this sentence is wrong for your case..

Anyway, u gotta prepare if shes interested in you. Use ur charm, ur guitar, ur caring and thougfulness and sweet talk her into admitting she likes you. Well, make the first move man. All the best.. and good luck..

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Old 21-10-2009, 02:14 AM   #42 (permalink)
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From what you written, I believe that she is definitely interested in being good friends with you. But i cannot say she is confirm interested in being your girlfriend. Because, girls might try to disturb guys into being interested in them by giving such hints that you have mentioned (entertainment purposes to some girls). Well, I hope my this sentence is wrong for your case..
Nah I don't think this is the case. She doesn't seem like the type. She's more like a bit shy and quiet and doesn't talk much

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Old 21-10-2009, 02:16 AM   #43 (permalink)
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Well, looks like you need help on boosting your confidence to chase her instead of figuring out whether she likes you or not!

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Yeah I plan to confess within this year . But before that I want to know more about her and let her know more about me first, you know, become closer friends and stuffs

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good luck den ts ^_^ for wat i hope u're able to find ur true happiness, and indulge in dat ever-loving world with her

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Old 22-10-2009, 06:58 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Yoo hoo update here people xD. Just now she told me about this event this saturday and asked if i were going (prolly cos she knows my exams end tomorrow) . But she also said she wasnt sure if she were going xD since she wants to invite a few other friends to come along too xD

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Wah. Yo bro. Catching up on the updates here are so muh of a hassle especially when i'm mugging at the same time. Invoking on experience. Going out with her this Sat is a great idea even if it is with her friends. Have it ever crossed your mind that her friends coming with her are actually there to assess you for her? Kinda compicated here bro. But accept it away and show the best of your performance. About the birthday present. A hand-made card is nice enough but how about something else for a present to show her that you are not just an otaku eh? She might get the wrong idea. Just a bit of thought. Will be rooting for you in the shadow, bro. Good luck. Keep it coming Train, your Hermes isn't going to wait for you forever.


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Old 22-10-2009, 10:11 PM   #48 (permalink)
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I know the friends who might be coming along actually haha. They are like, our only common friends haha

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When I'm reading through the initial and subsequent threads from you, TS, I almost just wanna struggle the shit out of you.

How can you not read through hints like that? Even if they seemed doubtful, the least you can do is to just give what you want to give.

The common mistakes these days in young love is that, boys only tend to be less restrictive of their actions only after they are darn sure that the girl is into them. The thing is, if you don't flaunt what you have to offer, how do you even stand a chance in making sure a glimmer of hope will exist?

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Old 24-10-2009, 08:09 PM   #50 (permalink)
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Then she shouldn't be a problem.Common friend is kinda in the way though. When you need to do certain things ... like confessing perhaps. It's best to get these kind of feelings straight now before it's too late. By the way, did you accept the date? How did it go?

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i think she's interested in the things u do.. cux she thinks its cool.. like u play guitar n dance.. try dropping hints to her?

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My internet connection is BACK!!! *Really loud and disturbing evil laugh*
*Clear throat* Ok anyway I'm back. Sorry I didn't update you guys on anything (not that THAT much has happened actually), especially people who were nice enough to wait for updates from me.
Anyway,
Meeting her on Halloween was fun . At first when I got there it was raining like crap, like really really badly. So she sms-ed me and told me her mom didn't want her to go because it was raining. And she told me she dressed up a bit for it too . I hanged around there anyway and a while later (like a hour or so), she told me if the rain would die down later she would still go there, in casual clothings though. And by then it would have been past dinner time (which means I wouldn't be able to have dinner with her). So she arrived later (in casual clothes but still looked so pretty) and met up with me and some of her friends. We talked a lot while walking, and I was sharing an umbrella with her yay (later she told me she brought her own though, good thing I brought out mine quite fast?). Then after chatting with her friends for a while it turned out she hadn't had dinner (it was around 8:20-8:30 pm) and so because I hadn't had dinner either we decided to get dinner, just the two of us while her friends were trying to get her a birthday present out of that UFO catcher machines in the arcade. We went to this cafe I know and like (Shokudo - Japanese Coffee House, really nice place ,good modern Japanese food). We talked but not that much over the meal and there were awkward moments here and there (It was hard not to look at her, sitting right opposite her xD). After the meal it was somewhere around 9:30 and she asked if I wanted to go to Kinokunya (she seems to hang out a lot there) with her but my curfew was at 10pm so I couldn't go with her, sadly (for those who are screaming "no you spineless NOOB", I live in a hostel where the rules are extremely strict and the penalties are severe, especially for coming home late, that and I'm not exactly the type who always follow rules either). I was cursing myself for not having seen that one coming and asked for a permission to come home late before hand. Argh.
**Question**: When we ate there she only ordered a desert (pancakes) and drink so I was wondering if it was a bad idea to bring her there (the food wasn't cheap, a typical meal there costs around $20-$25, however I told her about this way before that and she said she didn't have a problem with it), when I asked her about it she said she had lunch at 3 so she wasn't very hungry. And she didn't finish the pancakes either, even though it was quite good (she praised it and offered me to taste, and it was good alright lol). When we had already gone home I I asked her what she was going to wear there, but she just told me I would know the next time we were going to meet (which is AFA, an event, but it didn't turn out to be the next time we were going to meet haha)

Ok that was...long o.o. Prepare for another round...

There was this anime movie released in Singapore some time ago called Eva 2.0 (which is FYI, an movie that all otaku, or anime lovers, must watch). So I asked her if she wanted to watch, to which she agreed. We planned the time several days before as she was quite busy. I confirmed the screentime of the movie and bought the tickets the day before. There were couple seats too but I just bought the normal ones yea xD. Then she asked me when I wanted to meet and I told her a timing not long right before the movie, around 2:40, to which she replied (I'm gonna quotethe whole sms, I'll explain it later) :"Ok. After lunch? I end pretty early, so I guess I can go kino haha". We met at Kinokunya later, and she was with a friend. We talked for a few mins, and she and her friend said goodbye after we left Kinokunya and went to the theater. We were very early (like at least 40 mins) so we sat down and chatted all the way till the movie (and might have even been late for it if I hadn't noticed the time on my watch). I talked more than I should during the movie (bad habit of mine), and she didn't say anything during the movie, except the trailers and replying to what I said. She needed to go home for dinner (as she told me before we met that day) so we parted way.
**Question** I don't know if she was suggesting to have lunch together when I told her when we were to meet, that's why I quoted the whole sms there

Okay, the latest update, which was today! Oh wait it's early in the morning so yesterday!!!

It was AFA (Anime Fest Asia). I hanged out with her and a few friends of her whom I know and who know me xD. Nothing much to talk about actually, we went around and looked at lots of stuffs and loled at lots of stuffs, took photos, joked around, etc. She bought a tshirt and so did I (not the same shirt, the shirt she bought was the last one of the design actually). She were gothic clothings (the one she told me she would be wearing after Halloween) which was SO INCREDIBLY PRETTY AND CUTE AAAA (sorry I just had to capitalize them). And it was my first time seeing her in a skirt and without specs, I never thought of her as an extremely chio girl (no I'm not the the-girl-i-like-is-the-prettiest-one-in-the-world type) but she looked really pretty today , from an objective viewpoint. Someone even thought she was cosplaying and asked to take a picture xD. Ok I talked too much about her. Calm down. She bought this cat ear hat thingy with two tails on the side which was so cuuute. My face nearly turned red when she put it on. Ok sorry I'm talking about how INCREDIBLY PRETTY AND CUTE she was again. *clear throat*. We had dinner at Pepper Lunch. When we went back, after we said goodbye and headed separate for a few seconds, she turned back and said "See you tomorrow". That said, she always says "See you <insert time and place here>" . I'm meeting her again tomorrow, I mean at around noon today, and this would (sadly ) be my last time meeting her until next year as I won't be in Singapore then until mid-January 2010, starting next Monday . After we went back we started sms-ing as usual, with me starting the conversation. I complimented on her clothes and told her she looked INCREDIBLY PRETTY AND CUTE (ok without the incredibly). She just "haha thanks" and said she would wear another one the next day (which got me high for a while). I asked her if it was one of the two gothic dresses I saw on her blog some time ago (she blogged about buying two gothic dresses overseas, might not be the only gothic clothings she have though) and her reply was "Lolol.Tomorrow." (was she teasing me or something xD?). That reminds me, way back in Halloween, before that, she told me wanted to wear gothic clothings to Halloween but was too lazy and had no time to learn to do gothic make-up. She did have some very light and simple make-up , which was good, because heavy make-up really scares me haha.

So that's how it is. Might be another one today or tomorrow as I'm meeting her again soon . A note here, I tried to include every single little detail that I remember from each time we meet, even if I think it's not important, because guys like me might often overlook such things and not notice subtle hints and stuffs, so I'm not implying in anything I say, so don't read too deeply into it.

And wow I realised it's almost as if it's my blog? Anyway thanks to all of you who has been so kind to give me tips and hints and everything or just be here to read what I post. I'm not the type to share all this with most of my friends because guys will make fun of each others when they know this kind of stuffs, so thanks again, other then you people here, there's only one other friend I share everything with xD. It's been one hell of a post, I think it took me around one and a half hours to finish 0.o, I hope your eyes didn't die after reading everything xD

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That was one hell of a long update, bro. You did fine, on both dates really. Reading this is really starting to get similar to reading Train's journal. Well, I'm no professional but from my point of view, she is moving toward a little more than friendly relationship. On this pace, you may as well have a formal relationship, if you can wriggle your way to it that is. In the AFA part, apart from the "INCREDIBLY PRETTY AND CUTE", there was not much more I could read, really. Do you think it's time you try to find out if she was really aiming for a long time relationship? And well, as we mention AFA, did you take her to the MMK cafe? You seems to be a bit overwhelmed in your AFA update so, yeah, I won't pry much more. Good luck as always bro.

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Old 23-11-2009, 02:17 AM   #54 (permalink)
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I'm in a real hurry right now so I'll just give you something very short xD. Anyway I'm leaving Singapore in 14 hours and won't be returning until mid-Jan next year. And...
"text me when you come back"
Sorry if it sounds teaser-ish, but I have not packed. At all.

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dun think too much.

But think deeper =)

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Well, she is toying with you, seeing how long you can keep it up. That or she is really interested in you and waiting anxiously to see if you feel the same. Either way, you have time, so take your time.

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When I asked for her friend's number she said "But she checks her phone less often than me xD"
When she saw my deviant photo, she said "You look damn cool with the guitarrr!!"
When I said I can and like playing the guitar, she said "I wanna hear you play man"
When I said I'm trying hard to get into Street dance in jc, she said "If you get into street dance pleas teach me "
ts, no offence but imo, it dosent mean anything. she's just being friendly.


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those signs are good, but not so indicative nonetheless

let's see if she tries to contact you via internet during the holiday

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talk about your other female friends in front of her. if she starts being jealous, she has really set her eyes on you. if she stays being friendly, bad omen. either way, it's very risky. she would might have thought you're not really into her

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I feel that you should just ask her out. Don't wait any longer. If you need company, then perhaps you can go out in groups.

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sorry to burst your bubble but everything that you said she said, I would say to a normal male friend. it doesn't exactly mean she has taken an interest in you .. ...
Same sentiments!

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