Issue of privacy in r/s and/or friendship

**Artemis86** · 13-03-2008, 02:33 PM

Privacy defined by dictionary.com is the state of being free from intrusion or disturbance in one's private life or affairs:

How do u define 'privacy'?

From ur definition of 'privacy', do u believe that there should be privacy in any relationship be it in friendship or r/s?

**toothburs** · 13-03-2008, 02:35 PM

Hmm... When you are married do you really have privacy? Unless you got something else to hide from your partner... otherwise i don't think there will be privacy between married couple lor...

**xyrho69** · 13-03-2008, 02:36 PM

actually at times its hard to have privacy when it comes to r/s LOL

**MiRyung** · 13-03-2008, 03:43 PM

Would it be 'personal space'? Even if in relationships/friendships, you gotta have ur own space sometimes. In a way that's privacy... time off on your own, free from other ppl's intrusion.

**Faeyre** · 13-03-2008, 03:53 PM

I kinda agree it's difficult to have your own privacy in a serious r/s

**angelican16** · 13-03-2008, 04:10 PM

yup, i think its personal space, friends etc

**blahblahblah** · 13-03-2008, 04:55 PM

As long as you are not married, you ought to have your own personal space.. meetin out with friend, doing whatever you like at home etc. there's still need to be a life beside your gf/bf. Married couples the only personal space they have is while they are in toilet lol . that's their only time.

**Silveria** · 13-03-2008, 09:30 PM

Too much privacy will bring about betrayal, No privacy will drive one nuts. I think moderation and compromising is the way to go!

**-Rokugatsu-** · 13-03-2008, 09:33 PM

but even married already, i doubt anyone would like their husband/wife
always check on them like on handphones, emails so on.. lol
yea maybe personal space ;p

**Artemis86** · 13-03-2008, 11:25 PM

Yupz ...

Marriage can have no private life (u r even sharing a bed together!)...but i think its still possible to have personal space...

I'd want my personal space be it in serious r/s or marriage lor. I won't want him to keep checking my hps, emails & letters (like he has no trust in me). And also should have own interests or friends outside the r/s lor. I'm sure he also want to have his own personal space n time to watch soccer with frenz ~

Even in marriage, couple shld still be respectful to each other's rights. Like when he is feeling out of sorts n want some me-time, i'll respect that n leave him alone de. I'd expect same thing from him anyway.

**mic0613** · 15-03-2008, 01:45 AM

believe in privacy?
try harder..

**princessjess** · 15-03-2008, 01:49 AM

hmm.. to me now,

i think there should be no privacy.

cos ur partner should also be ur soulmate.

**finaldust** · 15-03-2008, 08:44 AM

think privacy is to trust each other bah? not much privacy bah

**PiDanBeR** · 15-03-2008, 08:57 AM

I think no matter friendship, relationship or even marriage, some little privacy is still needed. In the sense of 'secret' or what, sometime somethings can't be tell to your partner... Its not being unfaithful or lying, but just some little secret which cannot be tell to anyone.... =)

**sparc0** · 15-03-2008, 11:33 AM

i think privacy is needed bah...in a r/s doesnt mean u need to realli control ur partner life eh...they have their own life olso..=)

but sometime it realli difficult to control tat privacy bah...hahaha..

**bluebubblex** · 15-03-2008, 11:36 AM

privacy = trust

no trust = no privacy

eg if ur bf reads ur msg on ur phone, then he doesnt trust u. There's no privacy either. There should be a gap between couples cuz after all, they have their right to do and say what they want before marriage.

**inle** · 09-07-2008, 04:09 AM

i tot tis thread s interestin...