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Old 16th January 2010, 06:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Kenna Discriminated by Relatives

Well, it started like this, afew days back i went to genting with my family and relatives
there we were split into groups, i was with my cousin J,S,E then while i was looking at shoes to buy(they knew that!! cause i told them) they went to other shop, leaving only me there, after around 10minutes or so, i found out they disappear so i got scared and worried and waited for them for around 15min, i then took off to look for them, after 30minutes i went to starbucks and saw my relatives and J,S,E there, then my effing Uncles and Aunties started scolding me! saying "WE MISSED THE BUS CAUSE OF YOU!!" "WHY ANYHOW RUN!!" "J,S,E WAS LOOKING FOR YOU!!" i was like "i was also looking for them!!!" then my auntie go ask "WHERE YOU GO!!!" then i say "i go find them in the mall!" then she say "So you go shopping loh!!" then i keep say "Never!!!" then my aunties keep say "you go mall find them right?! so you shopping loh!!!"

Like WTF leh! they purposely try to blame all on me! J,S,E also go mall find me(they said so) so they also shopping ahh?!

I was always being the scapegoat of the family, even if its something i did not do all my cousins will claim they saw me did it, and even though the adults knew clearly i did not do it and it was their child who did it, they still scold me and act as if they did not know anything == i have always been discriminated, don't know how to face my relatives anymore when new year comes ==

Sorry, just finding a spot to spill all my thought, anyway what do you think i should do ?
i am darn disappoint not only this case but for all my 15years, i always thought my relatives would change, but still no change after 15 years!!

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Old 16th January 2010, 07:59 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Kenna Discriminated by Relatives

Family discrimination happens in almost every household. Even my. When you grow up and live on your own, it will stop.

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Re: Kenna Discriminated by Relatives

In future when you are in foreign land, stick close to your cousins.
Even if they go off while you are browsing in the shop, its better to go along just in case you lost your way.

However if you are back in Singapore and you know your way, ignore them.

And what sort of cousins are they? To completely blame you when they are partly at fault.
Its not like you own them a living.


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Old 16th January 2010, 08:42 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Kenna Discriminated by Relatives

WTF what kind of elder are they?
My cousins and relatives will never do that to me cos we are very close

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Old 16th January 2010, 08:50 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Thisistheslam View Post
Family discrimination happens in almost every household. Even my. When you grow up and live on your own, it will stop.
Hopefully it will!!!

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In future when you are in foreign land, stick close to your cousins.
Even if they go off while you are browsing in the shop, its better to go along just in case you lost your way.

However if you are back in Singapore and you know your way, ignore them.

And what sort of cousins are they? To completely blame you when they are partly at fault.
Its not like you own them a living.
No, its cause i didn't notice they left without me, so while i was still picking shoes i thought they were still there, turns out they were not and then it suddenly became my fault!


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Old 16th January 2010, 08:54 PM   #6 (permalink)
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walao, they are so unreasonable. 'you go mall right. so you shopping lah."

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WTF what kind of elder are they?
My cousins and relatives will never do that to me cos we are very close
Wahh!! Lucky you!!! i want your relativessssss and cousinnnnnnn!!! my cousin once made a baby cry and blame it all on me!! WTF loh! i wasn't even there at that timeeee!!! i was with my aunties yet she say she didn't see me!!! then i kenna scolding!! made me soooo maddd !!!!!

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walao, they are so unreasonable. 'you go mall right. so you shopping lah."
Ahboh!!
I go mall find J,S,E = i go shopping
J,S,E go mall find me = they looking for me

Somemore i was at a disadvantage cause i could get kidnap and killed cause J,S,E went off leaving me alone, yet they still blame me!!!
The parents of J,S,E don't even feel guilty about me going missing! they weren't panicking at all! just sitting at starbucks drinking coffee


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Old 16th January 2010, 09:35 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Wahh!! Lucky you!!! i want your relativessssss and cousinnnnnnn!!! my cousin once made a baby cry and blame it all on me!! WTF loh! i wasn't even there at that timeeee!!! i was with my aunties yet she say she didn't see me!!! then i kenna scolding!! made me soooo maddd !!!!!

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Ahboh!!
I go mall find J,S,E = i go shopping
J,S,E go mall find me = they looking for me

Somemore i was at a disadvantage cause i could get kidnap and killed cause J,S,E went off leaving me alone, yet they still blame me!!!
The parents of J,S,E don't even feel guilty about me going missing! they weren't panicking at all! just sitting at starbucks drinking coffee
Sitting at starbucks somemore. seriously, if i were you, i would just defend myself back and threw some vulgarities and ran off.

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Old 16th January 2010, 09:47 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Kenna Discriminated by Relatives

if i were you i would just say "i told them (your cousins) and keep quiet.
srsly some relatives very kp one, just because they are older so they think they are always right.

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Sitting at starbucks somemore. seriously, if i were you, i would just defend myself back and threw some vulgarities and ran off.
I also want do that, but i at malaysia leh! must still come back to singapore right?? so can't say bad things!

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if i were you i would just say "i told them (your cousins) and keep quiet.
srsly some relatives very kp one, just because they are older so they think they are always right.
Totally agree with you!! Even if its Their children, they still must see black and white mahh!


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Old 17th January 2010, 01:41 AM   #11 (permalink)
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i feel angry for you too. lol. you should fight back, or tell your parents to tell your aunts and uncles. this should stop. if really really no choice, then try to live with it. endure at least. life is not perfect, some things just dont go your way.

good luck.

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No point arguing with them since they are elders and we need to show em some level of respect. Just go with the flow and avoid being left behind in future outings. No need to get angry with ur close ones becus of trivial matters.

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You shouldnt insist 'never', they will find it as a challenge.
As with the discriminating, they would do it against you as its the odd =X

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Well, it started like this, afew days back i went to genting with my family and relatives
there we were split into groups, i was with my cousin J,S,E then while i was looking at shoes to buy(they knew that!! cause i told them) they went to other shop, leaving only me there, after around 10minutes or so, i found out they disappear so i got scared and worried and waited for them for around 15min, i then took off to look for them, after 30minutes i went to starbucks and saw my relatives and J,S,E there, then my effing Uncles and Aunties started scolding me! saying "WE MISSED THE BUS CAUSE OF YOU!!" "WHY ANYHOW RUN!!" "J,S,E WAS LOOKING FOR YOU!!" i was like "i was also looking for them!!!" then my auntie go ask "WHERE YOU GO!!!" then i say "i go find them in the mall!" then she say "So you go shopping loh!!" then i keep say "Never!!!" then my aunties keep say "you go mall find them right?! so you shopping loh!!!"

Like WTF leh! they purposely try to blame all on me! J,S,E also go mall find me(they said so) so they also shopping ahh?!

I was always being the scapegoat of the family, even if its something i did not do all my cousins will claim they saw me did it, and even though the adults knew clearly i did not do it and it was their child who did it, they still scold me and act as if they did not know anything == i have always been discriminated, don't know how to face my relatives anymore when new year comes ==

Sorry, just finding a spot to spill all my thought, anyway what do you think i should do ?
i am darn disappoint not only this case but for all my 15years, i always thought my relatives would change, but still no change after 15 years!!
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Seriously, this kind of relative is better if you won't even contact them
Remember what they did, you never know when they ever need your help, and did the same thing right back to their face

I'm sure you hardly go out with them right?
Shouldn't be a problem though, unless you're living off/with them, then too bad you gotta take that down

Edit: oh and btw, it sucks to travel overseas in big groups
Especially going a country for the first time, the elderly would surely keep nag about it
I would suggest travel with 2 or 3 friends next time when you're older, free and easy

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werent ur parents also at msia at that time? do they know u're being discriminated? i dun think any parent would allow their child to be wronged/bullied...anyway, since they are not ur immediate family u can always just distance urself from them. avoid going/meeting them at all. if they ask for the reason, tell it to them straight. no reason to be nice to them anyway since they think u're easily bullied.

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The situation is pure misunderstanding. Don't hold any grudge against them in the future. Just treat them with respect but don't care too much about them.(I mean don't get too affected by their words)

So learn it as a lesson next time just stick together. Problem is solved. Don't have to feel so depressed, you're letting affect your life!

They are just making small things look BIG. Forgive them for their straightforwardness, it won't bring them anywhere far thou.

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i will never go on a holiday with them if that happens. why spoil my holidays with such a bunch of whiners? relatives or not is immaterial here.

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Are the relatives you mentioned yr cousin's parents? If they are, it most likely they might takes sides of their own children. Sad but possible.
Household discrimination is very common, not only between relatives, even within the family, there is also discrimination. But being the younger generation, all we could do is swallow all our displeasures and anger etc even if we were not in the wrong in the first place. If we talked back at our elders, we would definitely have been in the wrong because we are not showing respect for them. Cheer up TS. In the process we learn, right?

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Just ignore them if you feel that you've done nothing wrong in the first place.
Experience these kind of things quite often from my relatives too, just that they don't dare say me in the face cause I'll turn nasty. They merely gave me looks. Just don't bother about them then there'll be no problems =)

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They Seems Like A Kids To Me. No Offense.

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