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Old 12th June 2012, 11:07 AM   #1 (permalink)
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hi, i recently found out that my boyfriend or ex-boyfriend has been lying to me for that past year or so i am with him. He lied to me that he didn't cheat on me but he actually did. I only found after recently all these while. after i texted him and confronted him, he refused to say a single word. i really need some closure and know if i have been played for all these while but he refuse to say anything. how? it hurts very badly.

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Old 12th June 2012, 11:44 AM   #2 (permalink)
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if i were u, i would have aldy left him if i know that he had cheated on me. cus i believe that if a guy really loves you, he wouldn't have fall for another one.

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Old 12th June 2012, 12:40 PM   #3 (permalink)
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i will. but i need a closure. some explanations

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Old 12th June 2012, 01:38 PM   #4 (permalink)
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You have to somehow force him to speak out the truth. Perhaps let him know that u are staying calm now and u want to know what's happening and don't want anymore lies. If not, I think u will keep feeling uneasy and worries will stay floating in your mind.

All the best and stay strong.

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Old 12th June 2012, 02:06 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: lies

Thank you. I don't know how to force him to say it though. The parents have been blaming me for a lot of things which i think is really unfair because he gave a pack of lies to them. His father is supposedly some powerful figure and he has a history of family violence. I am going to talk to them soon to clarify and get some truths and i am afraid i will come out hurt. But i don't know what to do.

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Originally Posted by momomama View Post
Thank you. I don't know how to force him to say it though. The parents have been blaming me for a lot of things which i think is really unfair because he gave a pack of lies to them. His father is supposedly some powerful figure and he has a history of family violence. I am going to talk to them soon to clarify and get some truths and i am afraid i will come out hurt. But i don't know what to do.
Be brave. I believe you can do it. If possible, talk to ur parents or siblings about it or those close to you. Maybe they can give u better advice and give u the necessary support. I experience something similar to that in the past. Later, I learn to be a bit smarter, i guess. Also, that I am not alone, there are still people who love me. I was able to stay positive and move on with it.

After everything is settle, try not to think about him anymore and stay strong.

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Old 12th June 2012, 07:50 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Well, if you are sure that's he's cheating on you, just leave. As for how to tell him that you wna leave him, you may try this " I'm breaking up with you now so that I can get a better life without misery and tears.I'd rather cry like mad after I hang up this call but in a few months time if you were to happen to see me on the road, it's either I'm enjoying my life with my friends or I'm with another guy who won't cheat on me and treats me like a treasure !" Then hang up

That's hw I ended my relationship with my ex who is before my current fiance. He cheated on me once only. And truely, "I'm now with another guy who won't cheat on me and treats me like a treasure " .

What's is yours will forever be yours. What's not yours, simply just ditch it and get back on track after some emotional outbreak.

Just a piece of advise. Up to you if you wna heed or not

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My dear, I suggest you send him an sms telling him of your intentions. But you must specify that you want some answers and explanations for him treating you that way, plus emphasize the fact that you just want to talk and promise not to flare up or lose your temper because it really is hard to control your emotions with such a scenario. If he is constantly ignoring you even if you are trying so hard to reach him, try to approach his closest friends instead. Plus if his parents are giving you trouble, you should ask your parents to help you out. I'm sure they will stand by your side and protect you if his parents start getting out of hand. And if he ever agrees to meet up with you to talk things through, I suggest bringing along another trusted friend of yours, just in case he gets rowdy or offensive. I think the most important thing is to not handle this yourself: always have someone beside you to support you emotionally and physically when you need it.

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Old 12th June 2012, 10:59 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Hey all!

Thanks for your advice! It's really heartening. I have told him over sms but he refuse to pick up. I got help from his closest friend and his cousins' parents. Hopefully this will help. And i just need to really want to let go. But the memories aren't helping. I think need time. Thank you all of you once again!

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Re: lies

When you really truly madly love someone it is always hard to leave him or her.

And i understand how it feels you just want a closure.

but a closure for the better.

Am i right to say that you were hoping that he give you a good explaination and then you just try to let go and patch back? Maybe...

but you know... i always feel that before you come to a conclusion, u must talk it out with him first.

In a relationship, everyone has the responsibility to make it work. or have the responsibility to take care of it.

Even in the context of ending something, it must be settled properly as well.


love/relationship is not a game as many others think it is.

it is wrong to have the mindset of...nevermind i lose one guy got other guy still waiting.

afterall, chi kui de dou shi wo men nu ren....

Before you leap to a relationship/ leave a relationship always act responsibly thats all i have to say.

in this case he did you wrong. Yes. But things still have to be talked out.

i rather you take up the courage and make a conclusion to this madness.

like this then you will find peace for yourself.

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Yes, i just want some closure. To end. Even if it's to end, at least i need some explanation and talk it out first right? But he refuses. Now the thing is to get him to speak because he is claming up now. Refusing to say anything.

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Tian xia de nan ren dou shi yi yang de, Just that to what extend his actions is only. I also ever caught my current SO messaging girls on different online portal, I ever did that too. But after both of us talk it out, now none of us are doing that alrdy.

in a nutshell, a relationship requires not only just i love you, you love me, but also require trust, faithfulness, honesty, compromising, and commitment..

goodluck momomama !

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^ You are right..

A relationship requires love, trust, faithfulness, honesty, compromising, and commitment. That's why I'm SINGLE. =D

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