Will you make the special effort?

**wangzi<3** · 19-08-2009, 11:07 PM

If let's say you have a online female friend who occasionally irritates you with her attitude and way of doing things, but generally you are quite ok with her, and she came to support your soccer team secretly without telling you.

You spotted her among the spectators while you are walking behind the grand stand, will you ...

Go up to her and say hi to her?
If you do, it will be the very first official seeing each other face-to-face for the both of you.

But if you don't, she wouldn't know too cos her back is facing you and even if you walked past her umpteen times, she wouldn't even notice.

In this scenario, will you make the special effort to go up to her and say hi?
Does it mean anything if a guy actually do so?

**Wooden_hall** · 20-08-2009, 01:23 AM

Sry i never say hi to you when i saw you that day. . .

**SatoshiXSin** · 20-08-2009, 01:40 AM

I would go forward and say hi since she already made the effort to come down to support my soccer team.
Just to leave her a friendly impression as a friend.

Or maybe u see her face not pretty then dont go up say hi, go home block her msn LOL.

**ThatEvil** · 20-08-2009, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by SatoshiXSin

I would go forward and say hi since she already made the effort to come down to support my soccer team.
Just to leave her a friendly impression as a friend.

Or maybe u see her face not pretty then dont go up say hi, go home block her msn LOL.

HAHAHA hi-5 man,totally same thought as me.What i wanted to say all said by you.

kokojun · 20-08-2009, 01:50 AM

if her back is facing you, how you know is her? o.o

**SatoshiXSin** · 20-08-2009, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by ThatEvil

HAHAHA hi-5 man,totally same thought as me.What i wanted to say all said by you.

hi 5, u mean not pretty will block her msn, so evil like ur nick.

**ThatEvil** · 20-08-2009, 02:05 AM

No la common reaction of all guys la.Who say they dun like pretty girl is damm fake.But if the person irritate me at first i will try to ignore her already.What i agree on is to say hi cos she already made the effort and not on blocking her.I at most only change phone no/msn.

**wangzi<3** · 23-08-2009, 05:19 PM

lol, u guys damn evil sia! for ur info, he didn't block me when he get back home though i know i look positively ugly that day
(wasn't intending to let him see me so i didn't dress up or what)

btw, kokojun .. i also don't know how he know it's me from behind. maybe he saw my sideview or something?

**sky99** · 23-08-2009, 05:22 PM

I think i would just say hello~

mandyxoxo · 23-08-2009, 05:22 PM

later turn around is some transformer

**wangzi<3** · 23-08-2009, 05:30 PM

=_= oi! constructive comments lah dey ~ wah lau ..

**davi5** · 23-08-2009, 05:42 PM

Just go up and say hello.. how hard can it be ?

Just be sure its her and not someone else. Its pretty embarrassing to mistake a stranger for her.

**DonJuanQuixote** · 27-08-2009, 09:33 AM

I'd make the special effort all over her

Ahhui · 27-08-2009, 01:25 PM

I would say hi lor..and then if pretty continue..otherwise uhhh sry i gtg..=)

**Mister_Sinister** · 29-08-2009, 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by wangzi<3

If let's say you have a online female friend who occasionally irritates you with her attitude and way of doing things, but generally you are quite ok with her, and she came to support your soccer team secretly without telling you.

You spotted her among the spectators while you are walking behind the grand stand, will you ...

Go up to her and say hi to her?
If you do, it will be the very first official seeing each other face-to-face for the both of you.

But if you don't, she wouldn't know too cos her back is facing you and even if you walked past her umpteen times, she wouldn't even notice.

In this scenario, will you make the special effort to go up to her and say hi?
Does it mean anything if a guy actually do so?

In my case, I would, just as a friendly gesture, and to thank her for doing something like this for me. As far as meaning anything, well, it depends a lot on the person - there are no simple answers to this. However, guys are pretty simple creatures who don't understand subtlety, so usually, no, it doesn't mean anything.