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Old 12th October 2009, 02:14 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

Just want an opinion from you gals regarding this..
Would you mind if your bf finds girls to add in friendster/facebook?
Mostly pretty gals..
And when gals add him, he adds them back.
If you confront him about it and he tells you this is not cheating, would you agree with him?

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Old 12th October 2009, 03:01 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

I will mind.

I don't think it's cheating. But what's his motive for doing that? It's kinda weird to know that the guy is on the lookout for pretty gals though he has you.

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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

i will mind too. is it your bf? i would ask him how he will feel if i accept guys i don't know.

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Old 12th October 2009, 03:25 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

This topic came out while me and my girlfriends were chatting over dinner.
Some of my girlfriends think its no big deal, as long as he doesnt arrange to really meet them in real life.
I feel that I mind very much, to me its cheating, well not physically maybe, but mentally!
My friends told me some girls will also add guys randomly, those that they find cute, even when they are attached themselves, or the guys they want in add in facebook are attached or married.
Anyway just want to know how other girls feel.
I only know I will not accept something like this.

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Old 12th October 2009, 03:34 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I dun add pp whom I don't know on facebook. The friends on my fb are my friends... (:

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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

i will mind also!

i feel he has the tendency to cheat if he does that. and no guy will be dumb to admit that to their gf.

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Old 12th October 2009, 04:16 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

those were the words which came to my mind - mentally cheating, i wouldnt accept it too. my friend and her bf quarreled over this just recently. her bf added random girls on fb.

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Old 12th October 2009, 04:21 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

i will mind too. :x
if the guy's single, then still okay..
but if he's attached, him doing it may cause the girl to suspect and the trust will not be as strong.
just how i feel

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Old 12th October 2009, 04:47 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

My friend's take is some people just like their fb to be filled with beautiful people, don't really care if they know them or not.
Like collecting stamps or something.
They said as long as their bfs do not actually arrange to meet up with those girls, they are fine with it.
So I guess I am not the paranoid cum over possessive lady, since I see so many gals agree with me here! haha.. victory...
My friends really think its no big deal, fb is only fb, virtual world, nothing to worry about.
To me, its cheating lor....

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Old 12th October 2009, 05:46 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

Well, he is not cheating. Just flirty. Cant do much abt it.

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Old 12th October 2009, 08:03 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

I don't mind, I believe my guy knows what he's doing. Anyway, he's not a facebook active user so it doesn't affect me if he adds anyone.

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To me, its not cheating... but i mind because i feel that he is trying to get the chance to know the prettier gals...

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Old 12th October 2009, 10:36 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

Yeap, I will mind too. Can't tolerate a flirtatious bf.

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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

i will mind.
guess i am someone who lacks security and adding so much pretty girls may signify him being a flirt and not faithful

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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

He might not be cheating.

Its just tht its weird tht guys like to add the chio bu's in facebook.
It might be tht he'd like to know them better ( like get their MSN or something ), or just to view their pics and profile.

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Re: Would you mind if your bf adds plenty of girls he don't know in facebook?

I added people who add me too, so I won't mind.
But maybe it's because they add him so he just out of courteousy then add back lo..
But if he only accept pretty FRs, then.. something suspicious, i guess?

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Old 13th October 2009, 10:50 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I will mind, just don't feel comfortable. My bf won't like it if I anyhow add guys to my FB a/c.

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Definitely mind, won't feel comfortable about it.

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i will mind!
but thankfully he doesnt really mix well with girls.
plus now he is in ns... so he prefers hanging around guys.

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i mind. Why does he have to add thm in th first place? To be friends n get closer to them?
Though some ppl wouldnt mind bt i think it`s wrong n may cause guys to stray

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