Misunderstanding love........

**cutelmo** · 18-11-2009, 12:47 PM

This is what have happen to me.

I have been close to this gal (I call her sun). We have been going out in groups, go fishing, movies, studying....etc. I have been caring about her, and she seems to also do the same to me. I would offen send her home in the nights. I didnt ask her to be my gf is because, firstly, I cant forget my ex-gf of 5years relationship and I dun want her to be subsitute. Secondly is that I have some family matters.

Now that I have settle everything, I ask her once again if we could be together. And she told me we could be friends. She told me that she gives me the wrong ideal that she like me. Giving me the misunderstanding feeling for her.

Time never waits for you, grap it if you have the chance........This is what I have to say. If you have the chance grap it before you lose it.

**PECTOPAH** · 18-11-2009, 12:59 PM

huh?
u said she gave u the wrong idea all the while...
and then u say grab it if u have the chance

but the thing is u dont have the chance in the first place if she is just giving u the wrong idea...

**Miyamoto84** · 18-11-2009, 12:59 PM

even though u grab the chance to confess to her earlier, isnt the results be the same if she's just wan to be ur fren?
since she said she gave u the wrong idea that she liked u.

**Tiki** · 18-11-2009, 02:14 PM

welcome to the 'soulmate' group zone.

**cutelmo** · 18-11-2009, 03:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PECTOPAH

huh?
u said she gave u the wrong idea all the while...
and then u say grab it if u have the chance

but the thing is u dont have the chance in the first place if she is just giving u the wrong idea...

How would I if she gives me the wrong ideal? We treat each other like couples, even people around us also feel like we're being together, just tat is not offical. In the first place, she gives me the feeling that she like me, just that I didnt ask her to be mine.

And after I have settle everything, I confess to her but she told it was a misunderstanding love. She treat me just a friend all along which I dun feel in this case.

**Miyamoto84** · 18-11-2009, 03:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cutelmo

How would I if she gives me the wrong ideal? We treat each other like couples, even people around us also feel like we're being together, just tat is not offical. In the first place, she gives me the feeling that she like me, just that I didnt ask her to be mine.

And after I have settle everything, I confess to her but she told it was a misunderstanding love. She treat me just a friend all along which I dun feel in this case.

hmm.. u already say it was just a misunderstandings right from the start that she makes u think she likes u. so wont it be the same no matter when u confess to her?

**constanceling** · 18-11-2009, 05:04 PM

i think in the first place she's just giving u false hope bah.

**cutelmo** · 18-11-2009, 05:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miyamoto84

hmm.. u already say it was just a misunderstandings right from the start that she makes u think she likes u. so wont it be the same no matter when u confess to her?

It like giving you high hope than after that pull you all the way down. Wouldnt you feel very sad?

**joobs** · 18-11-2009, 06:14 PM

That is strange.. how long were both of you 'close' together. Is she interested in guys?

**cutelmo** · 18-11-2009, 08:54 PM

I can say about 3 to 4 months close ba. After that about 6 months later than I ask her.

She interested in guys.

**kirinz** · 18-11-2009, 09:03 PM

thanksss its a good story and advise

**PECTOPAH** · 19-11-2009, 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Miyamoto84

hmm.. u already say it was just a misunderstandings right from the start that she makes u think she likes u. so wont it be the same no matter when u confess to her?

that is why i found his sentence weird...

Quote:

Originally Posted by cutelmo

How would I if she gives me the wrong ideal? We treat each other like couples, even people around us also feel like we're being together, just tat is not offical. In the first place, she gives me the feeling that she like me, just that I didnt ask her to be mine.

And after I have settle everything, I confess to her but she told it was a misunderstanding love. She treat me just a friend all along which I dun feel in this case.

by "saying grab the chance before u lose it" means if u confessed earlier she will sure(100%) say yes
then u say that she let u misunderstand right from the start

**MudKeefe** · 19-11-2009, 02:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cutelmo

I can say about 3 to 4 months close ba. After that about 6 months later than I ask her.

She interested in guys.

Of course she's interested in guys. Then what else can she be interested in?

._.

**cutelmo** · 19-11-2009, 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PECTOPAH

that is why i found his sentence weird...

by "saying grab the chance before u lose it" means if u confessed earlier she will sure(100%) say yes
then u say that she let u misunderstand right from the start

Maybe if I ask eariler.......Who knows what might be the outcome.

**sky99** · 19-11-2009, 10:43 PM

you can only SUCK THUMB

**outerspace** · 21-11-2009, 01:35 PM

sometimes I don't understand why girls would treat guys like this. Give the guys alot of hope that they can be together, but in the end, anti-climax and say let's just be friends. -.-

**anberlin** · 21-11-2009, 01:57 PM

A girl who played you in the end??? or was it a misunderstanding from the start?

**Rose2** · 21-11-2009, 01:58 PM

maybe, you think too much at that time, and it is unnecessary,

**wenbinsucks** · 21-11-2009, 03:28 PM

Dont think too much bah...just do what u feel is right and let fate do the work lor....

**OddEye** · 21-11-2009, 04:07 PM

Chiur advice is so misfitting to your story. It is like you talking about story of Cinderella, then you say when you fail to plan, you plan to fail.