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Old 4th September 2008, 02:22 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Which is more important ? Love or Money

I do not know anyone posted this b4? just 1 to seek some gals advice esp SG gals.

SG things is so exp whenever u go need to spend money....Wht to do if u bf is stringy and poor? Can only stay at each other house??

My bday is comming soon and i hope my bf can buy me a mp3 player.. 3 mth in this relationship he never ever buy me a gift b4.. and i knew tht if i never ask he would never buy 4 me...so i directly say to this i 1 a creative mp3 zen stone plus which cost $99. And then he say to me he only pay $40 the rest i pay..OMG.. my bday i still need to fork out money to get a present???

Then i suggest to him if u no money 1 week we meet only 1 day and dun go see movie for this mth even if eat eat hawker stuff can le.. dun go to places tht need to spend money..he seem unhappy i even more unhappy y i have to be so wei qu...but i keep quiet never say anything,,, btw he a diploma holder in local poly and drawing a mthly pay of $1850 .. which should be more than enough to support himself..

Recently thinking of breaking up ..so gals can u pls tell me in SG which is more imp?t Love or Money?? Without money cannnot even go anywhe not even a proper date.. But Love can be peiyang if long enough and the guys treat u good....

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Old 4th September 2008, 02:35 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

Personal opinion... Love is impt but at the same time money is important too. Without money how to sustain a relationship? Ya, we can say dun go expensive places when we are dating. But as times go by, commitments are higher - more bills, higher spendings all lead to money...

If Im still @ a young age, definitely love is more impt than money but now in mid 20s I would say money is slightly important... without money, how to get flats/weddings or in the futre baby?

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Old 4th September 2008, 02:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

i think if unnecessary stuff can scrimp and save.
but your bdae i think he should be the one to fork out the money for your gift.

does he spend his money on leisure activities? if yes, he deserve a smack on his butt.

now i think you should have a gd talk with him and let him know how you feel.
if he really loves you he will change.
compromise is very important.
do not end this relationship so easily.
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Old 4th September 2008, 03:44 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

yucks. poor guys suxs.
money is impt larhs. face it. =X

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Old 5th September 2008, 12:18 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

take a look at my signature and u will know my choice.

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Old 5th September 2008, 01:07 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

haiz he keep telling me no money.. ask me to settle something cheaper.. Should I? so wei qu.. i really bu kan xing less than $100 only like tht also cannnot afford

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Old 5th September 2008, 01:53 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

committing in a relationship needs time and definitely needs more money - that's a non romanticist theory (though personally i'm a romanticist) but let's face it we are not living in the 30s or 40s shanghai tan which all lovers said, "i love you and you love me and that's all we need, blah blah blah..." and they live together happily ever after...

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we are NOT being mercenary over here... asking your bf to buy you a 'not very expensive' gift on your birthday (not always), i guess it's not too much is it? if he really cannot afford anything on every month (since you mentioned you guys seldom go out), i really don't understand why did he even want to commit in a relationship? anyway, i'm not hinting anything... if he really is sincere, he should not disappoint you for such a reasonable request (since he is drawing his monthly paycheck of $1850).

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Old 6th September 2008, 12:45 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

Maybe he is spending on something else more special for you?

You have to decide for yourself what you value more and of course, judge for yourself if he values money more than you.

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

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haiz he keep telling me no money.. ask me to settle something cheaper.. Should I? so wei qu.. i really bu kan xing less than $100 only like tht also cannnot afford
Hey girl, good luck. I believe if a guy loves u, he will be willing to spend on you. Just like a father who dotes on her daughter. Even if he's not a millionaire or whatever, he will give her the best, and just want her to be happy.

If I'm you, I'll ask your boyfriend to fk off long ago lerhs. Is he even putting in effort to treat his girlfrenz rite?

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

both r important
love wont work without money,
money means nothing without love
just my opinion

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Old 10th September 2008, 11:16 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

Originally Posted by houniq View Post
both r important
love wont work without money,
money means nothing without love
just my opinion

agree!
p/s: however i still think $$ is slightly more important than love ...

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Old 10th September 2008, 12:13 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

Both is equally important. I think different people have different view of using money but he didn't buy any present doesn't mean he don't love you. Maybe he is planning something special behind of course i think girls have the right to ask for present from their bf but than sometime also try to tolerate abit. Since i think your bf maybe is the type that will only buy present when he think is really worth buying or suitable for you.

Some guys will buy whatever their girlfriend ask for but some guys is not the type. So just sit down and talk to your bf what you think, because he might not know what you are thinking actually?

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Old 11th September 2008, 12:50 AM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

I'm not sure whether should I be happy or what but I think I found someone who's materialistic like me. =p Okay, maybe not to the max but at least in certain ways. Used to have a bf who's someone like that. After one shitty years, we broke cos he can't even handle his own life therefore how can he even take care of me.

Well, let's just face it. It's not that we sg girls are like super materialistic, but becos sg is somewhere you can't do anything without $$$.

I can't really say much but I guess you really have to ask yourself how much you do really like your bf. Cos if you think you can live with him being poor but at the same time being sweet to you, you can consider. However, if he's got no money and he's treating you badly, then I think there's really no point of you and him being together.

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

maybe he thinks tat the money is uncessary... so he might be thinking and saving for thr future

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Can I ask, how old are you and your boyfriend? Cos if you 2 are still studying you can't really expect lavish gifts and all that.

In my opinion, I think how his character is like? Like some of them say, he may be saving up to buy you something bigger/nicer?

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

If i've agape love [unconditional love], I'll definitely choose love over money =) But, we have to be realistic.

Somehow, even if he able to get u the present that you want, you won't be happy for long. Do u know why? You'll brood over the matter, wonder why he doesn't even make an effort to find out wat you want instead of you telling him what you want, wonder why he didn't show any effort in making ur bdae a special day.

Yes, r/s is something that is full of contradictions. What we need is perfect one, perhaps.

Maybe he really has some financial difficulty that he didn't tell u abt it? Sometimes, people will never learn anything by being told, they've to find out themselves. That is life.

Try to have some quiet time and think about what you really want in the r/s..

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

i wld say both are equally impt.. n if down da road like gg 6mth+ liao n he is still like tt.. leave him la..

personal experience.. my ex doesnt earn much too. juz a sign on pay like $1.5k n he have to support his van but he still can get me gift. not cheap gift wor.. the most expensive gift he gave was a $500+ camera. it's only a matter if he got the heart or not lor..

ps: nv be with a stingy guy. lolx.

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

just break with him, theres no true love between you two.
if i was the guy... and you say that to me, i'd dump you not because of me being stingy, but because i don't buy people's love.

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

seems that this relation won't work out for long. since u feel "wei qu". Both of u don't have the same mindset for money...Money will always be the prob between both of u. If now there is a better guy with both char and money, will u be tempted?

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Re: Which is more important ? Love or Money

WTH? Less than 100 bucks also can't afford to buy a present for u?. What sort of BF is THAT?? If he really can't afford that, then u save yr own money to buy it yrself, or maybe he have something up on his sleeve as a surpise for u! Who knows.

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