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Old 27th October 2009, 09:18 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Mother - In - Law

Juz asking will you want to live with your mother-in-law after you got married?

Why and Why not?

If your mother-in-law is a control freak and your the other half juz don't care.

How will you feel? Will you feel upset or will just let it be?

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we dun live with my in-laws. we like our own space.

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i'd like to......

because she can help me to do some family business

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No for me. I wan a life of two. But tt also means i must be prepared for challenges and obstacles in handling things on our own.

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Old 6th November 2009, 07:45 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Privacy is important to me . I like to be alone with my partner , no matter how close the 3rd person is .
i'll spend time with the 3rd person of course

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Old 13th November 2009, 06:41 PM   #6 (permalink)
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For me... I think i will... But of coz... Stll have to depend on how she treats me... If she treat me as if i'm her child then i will treat her like my own mum...

If she's like what u said de 'control freak'... I will move out... N if my husband doesnt want to n care about how her mother treats me... Then mayb i will think again... Am i married the correct one ??? He still loves me or not...

Btw... If she's ok... Just stay with them loh... If not they very boring also leh... Old ppl...
Coz nxt time might b u... U going to have kids in the future or already have currently...

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Old 16th November 2009, 01:40 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Mother - In - Law

Even staying with own parent also will hv some conflicts, let alone is MIL whom is from diff background. Staying with In laws does have pros and cons. In short, both parties hv to close one eye, open one eye.
Btw, i'm staying with my MIL now!

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Control freak is a big NO NO, besides you're married to the husband/wofe not the Monster-in-law, so won't be living with her

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Staying wz MIL is not all bad (neither good, too)..... pros & cons.....
Can only judge by actual case-to-case basis. Each scenario is handled differently.
Extreme ill-treatment is serious offence. Otherwise, give/take is usually opt.

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We're staying with my family right now and my wife gets along with her MIL. I am thankful and grateful that nothing terrible has happened so far and my wife is adapting well to my home.

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not for me too. i want to have 2 persons world.

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Old 3rd January 2010, 07:16 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: Mother - In - Law

Actually, I don't have any problem with my MIL but living with other persons aside from hubby can cause tension or pressure. So, I don't want to as much as possible. But my hubby has prob with my mother's attitude.
By the way, there's a story from http://bit.ly/123VLP which I would like to share with you which talks about MIL and how the woman has dealt with it. I hope you'll learn a lesson from it.

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NOOOO MANNN! did you know, when you are having s** (some)Mother-In-Law TENDS to peek, but some control their urges;D

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No. We have very different styles of handling things, will definitely have conflict.

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NOOOO MANNN! did you know, when you are having s** (some)Mother-In-Law TENDS to peek, but some control their urges;D
Ya.... my friends gotten that. But worse... his wife moan so loud until, his parents complain to the son next day... can you please lower ur noises. We cant sleep.

Then another one... power.. knock the door to check if both of them are doing well and if they are doing right coz too noisy.

Fainted manz. Once i was at home sleeping and i heard my neighbour banging and his wife moan so loud until i was darn irritated.. HDB manz, what to do. haha. So i on my porn to fight the noise.

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Originally Posted by Baby_Nutz View Post
Juz asking will you want to live with your mother-in-law after you got married?

Why and Why not?

If your mother-in-law is a control freak and your the other half juz don't care.

How will you feel? Will you feel upset or will just let it be?
when my wife and I bought our own place it was with the deliberate intention NOT to be too close to our in laws. we treasure our space too much to ever subjugate ourselves to in laws.

think about it.. how long can anyone stand living with their parents, much less their in laws.. I moved out of my place the first chance I got.

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Originally Posted by Kimchi78 View Post
Ya.... my friends gotten that. But worse... his wife moan so loud until, his parents complain to the son next day... can you please lower ur noises. We cant sleep.

Then another one... power.. knock the door to check if both of them are doing well and if they are doing right coz too noisy.

Fainted manz. Once i was at home sleeping and i heard my neighbour banging and his wife moan so loud until i was darn irritated.. HDB manz, what to do. haha. So i on my porn to fight the noise.
This is why I prefer to live away from my parents

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hi.. i'm new in this forum n the reason y i'm joining is bcoz..

I CANT STAND MY PARENTS-IN-LAW!!!

in fact i hv so much grievance in me that i rrly hate going home now.. but i cant get a house either coz of the HDB income ceilings.. so my advice to all is: get a flat if possible n do NOT stay with ur PIL.. =S

haiz..

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