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Old 22nd March 2011, 05:01 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Mother quarreling with younger brother

Just wanted to rant here.

My mum and younger brother have been quarreling for the past few days and I just hate the feeling of being sandwiched in the middle

The atmosphere back at home is really horrible and I am going crazy....

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Old 22nd March 2011, 07:43 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

What's the problem at home ts?

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Just pretend to snap off and make them both feel guilty. That's what I always do to stop fights between my relatives if I'm sandwiched in the middle

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Hmmm...... for me i forget it and hide somewhere else, if they won't know how to commucation.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Maybe being sandwiched is the perfect position for you to mediate?

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Just pretend that you don't know anything?

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

to solve the problem is to find the root of the problem.
so what exactly is the problem.

but then again, regardless of whatever the problem is, mother will always be your mother
so the best is to talk with your younger brother

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Originally Posted by YoShiWaWa View Post
Just wanted to rant here.

My mum and younger brother have been quarreling for the past few days and I just hate the feeling of being sandwiched in the middle

The atmosphere back at home is really horrible and I am going crazy....
Mediating can sometimes be tough because, there isn't any guarantees that it would work.

Hence I think it's best for you to do your own stuff in your room, by locking the door.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Eh, just ignore them. They are your family, therefore you can treat them however you like.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Well my brother is at his rebellious age and he is always quarreling with my mum over minor stuffs like studies and freedom. Well I have been through his stage and I gave him some advice and he tried being tamed since I am on good terms with him.

But recently, his results for term 1 dropped (He is in sec 4, O lvl this yr) Mum wanted to form a study plan or him and I offered to coach him for his maths and sciences. He doesnt like the idea of the so-called study plan and argued with my mum and it got SOOOOOOOO intense that he scolded mum a B&#%@.

I got shocked and mum gave him a slap to the face. He retaliated by pushing mum.

I was in the midst of catching up with some orders I got from customers to paint horror mask and I need the space and environment. All these distractions cant allow me to concentrate and this just sucks

Sometime I wish that my brother could be more understanding

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

It is your brother obviously at fault, how can he even push your mum? Didnt you do anything to like stop them? Furthermore, i believe your brother and you are at good terms currently right? If you would have stop the quarrel, things might get better..

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

like when my parents are having heated arguments, i'll just lock myself in the room.
then once they've screamed the whole neighbourhood down, i'll talk to each of them personally and see if i can resolve anything, i dont give a shit to 'children should be seen and not heard' thing.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

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like when my parents are having heated arguments, i'll just lock myself in the room.
then once they've screamed the whole neighbourhood down, i'll talk to each of them personally and see if i can resolve anything, i dont give a shit to 'children should be seen and not heard' thing.
True, talk and approach to each of them personally to find out more and console them

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True, talk and approach to each of them personally to find out more and console them
Pro sia . ..

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Originally Posted by blackmasquerade View Post
like when my parents are having heated arguments, i'll just lock myself in the room.
then once they've screamed the whole neighbourhood down, i'll talk to each of them personally and see if i can resolve anything, i dont give a shit to 'children should be seen and not heard' thing.
I wish to have a room to hide from family problem.
Family poor, living in one room flat, still nvm. Everyday just becos of housework to arguing
feel very sian and numb already, now become no feeling, if become extream, may cry too

I very ervy some of the guys having room.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

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I wish to have a room to hide from family problem.
Family poor, living in one room flat, still nvm. Everyday just becos of housework to arguing
feel very sian and numb already, now become no feeling, if become extream, may cry too

I very ervy some of the guys having room.
aiyo...its alright, just go downstairs to chill first.
if its just housework, then suck it up & do it lo.
my parents will nag at me abt housework, i just ignore them, dont even reply.
let them nag to a wall, but i'll just do the housework.

take care uh, if you wanna cry, then just let the tears flow.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Originally Posted by YoShiWaWa View Post
Well my brother is at his rebellious age and he is always quarreling with my mum over minor stuffs like studies and freedom. Well I have been through his stage and I gave him some advice and he tried being tamed since I am on good terms with him.

But recently, his results for term 1 dropped (He is in sec 4, O lvl this yr) Mum wanted to form a study plan or him and I offered to coach him for his maths and sciences. He doesnt like the idea of the so-called study plan and argued with my mum and it got SOOOOOOOO intense that he scolded mum a B&#%@.

I got shocked and mum gave him a slap to the face. He retaliated by pushing mum.

I was in the midst of catching up with some orders I got from customers to paint horror mask and I need the space and environment. All these distractions cant allow me to concentrate and this just sucks

Sometime I wish that my brother could be more understanding
Try to have a talk with your bro, try to understand what kind of studying style he is most comfortable with, i guessed not everyone like study plan :x if can, get your bro to apologize to your mum...you need to stay strong at this point of time! Maybe you can listen to music to avoid hearing those arguments. take care!

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I wish to have a room to hide from family problem.
Family poor, living in one room flat, still nvm. Everyday just becos of housework to arguing
feel very sian and numb already, now become no feeling, if become extream, may cry too

I very ervy some of the guys having room.
every family have its own problems, including those that have their own rooms, it really depends on the person itself, Stay strong, find some ways to vent your frustrations although crying is a good way or you can talk to your buddies.

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Re: Mother quarreling with younger brother

Thanks everyone for your advice =) It really means alot especially when I am on the brink of collapsing from all these frustrations at home. The atmosphere is better than that day but my brother and mum are imply ignoring each other.

Spoken to my brother and he told me about this 'ego' he has and claims that he is not the type of person who would apologize to others. I told him off as I really felt that this was a horrible and irresponsible excuse. I mean how the %$@ is anyone who is going to take this nonsense of yours....

I've decided to call it quits and let him be for the time being. no point talking to him when he is still hot-headed. My mother on the other hand is waiting for his apology.......

Well family is still family. They say that family is forever so I will just have to suck it up and live on with it =)

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