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Old 12th August 2008, 06:15 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

lol kissed in primary 3?so early and young?

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Originally Posted by TakeshiXkun View Post
lol kissed in primary 3?so early and young?
wut it was just a peckish.
i regret it like @!%#$.
wah i go search search engine for cousin love.
very intarasting.
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Old 12th August 2008, 07:07 PM   #23 (permalink)
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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

Originally Posted by Khloe View Post
he's my dad's sister's son.
lol.

but very sad lah i also dunno what he feels about me
Uhh sorry to say this, but that is blood related. you guys share the same grandparent...

The really not blood related scenario is this. my mom's sister-IN-LAW's sister's daughter. that will be legitimate, plus i was even push by my mom to go for it haha. sux... so if you guys really get together and do stuff, it will be considered incestuous. Remember to have no blood relation it must be from IN LAW side.

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Old 12th August 2008, 07:10 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

for asians okay, but i think they frown upon it in western societies.

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Old 12th August 2008, 07:15 PM   #25 (permalink)
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apparently there are alot of people who fall in love with their cousins! lol.

i'm just saying.. i like him. but i don't expect anything..
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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

Originally Posted by Khloe View Post
apparently there are alot of people who fall in love with their cousins! lol.

i'm just saying.. i like him. but i don't expect anything..
sigh.
like might become love and the more hope u get u would start to expect more things bah

so I think better stay away from him for the time being bah

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Old 12th August 2008, 08:22 PM   #27 (permalink)
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you're right..

mmkay.

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I don't really believe in love what's more love for cousin, I think it's hard to be accepted..

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i guess for now you wait for him to take action, since you said he 'maybe' also like you.

you are now 15, don't you attracted to any guy in your school? those shuai shuai one? dun tell me theres none. =,= in secondary school this kind of stuff shld be common mah.

haha, whatever, good luck to you anyway. CHEERS.

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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

the title of this post struck me coz my boyfriend's ex gf was his cousin.
His dad and her dad are brothers.
And they were together for 2 years.
No one knows of their relationship as family will disapprove.
Anyway, people say that if you marry someone related to you,
future offsprings will have somthing wrong one
coz genes too similar.

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Of cos alright to fall in lust with your cousin, its so common everywhere any ages at anytime from centuries ago. Go for it, i support you 100%.

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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

I believe it is ok. But you will have to overcome obstacles such as parental objections (if they are traditional kind) or not being worried about the genetic issue

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The answer is 'YES' according to the scientist.

Check this link for more explanation: http://www.news.com.au/perthnow/stor...8-2761,00.html

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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

Originally Posted by CmdrAdobo View Post
The answer is 'YES' according to the scientist.

Check this link for more explanation: http://www.news.com.au/perthnow/stor...8-2761,00.html
haha i tink it will b alrite for tis days liao...

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It's ok. There is no 'right' and 'wrong' in this world. There are only free will and consequences, ethics and cosmoethics ('morality' is an illusion of man).

Generally, the karma is such that one has little sexual attraction for one's own relatives, particularly immediate family. However, because every individual is his/her own soul and responsible for his/her own choices, as an adult, there is certainly nothing 'wrong', or even unethical, when two people who might be related by family ties, fall in love, or have sex. As long as both are consenting adults, this even applies to brothers and sisters, or even (in more extreme cases) parent and child.

While I'm not advocating or recommending this, I'm stating a fact that in the eyes of Heaven (so to speak), from the viewpoint of highly evolved beings, guides & helpers, there is no judgement on these, it is not unethical, as long as both are consenting adults.

Similarly with homosexuality (including lesbianism), bisexuality, or transexuality (including transvestism). There is nothing 'wrong' or unethical, no bad karma will result, other than from your own feelings (misguided or otherwise) about these issues.

While there are various psychological, karmic, or psychospiritual issues that the individual may be struggling with, that predispose the individual towards, manifesting and working with the karma expressed as, various 'abberations' or unusual tendencies such as the above (eg. so-called 'incest' or love/sex with relatives, and/or homo/bi/trans-sexuality issues), but none of these are 'wrong' or 'evil' or unethical by itself. Again, I emphasize, provided all parties involved are consenting adults.

However, there is always, especially in regard to such 'abnormal' or unusual tendencies and/or specific cases (eg. with a specific someone, whether he/she is of the same gender as you, or is your relative), a significant and specific karma either entirely within yourself, or with that particular individual, or both, that you might wish to seek to understand further.

One avenue of further investigation for means of (personalized) advice, is via the Hilarion Reading. For those interested, google it.


So to answer your question, "Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?"

The answer is, YES of course it is. (Even if you're of the same gender as he/she is, which incidentally in your case, you're not).

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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

try dating him then tell us how it went

i want to see the drama

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OMG tat is crazy lei..

blood-related or not, i'll feel weird..

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eh. i think better not lah. we are in asian society. dont think your parents will agree anyway, what for get into this kinda problems.

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Re: Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?

Originally Posted by KENJ View Post
i guess for now you wait for him to take action, since you said he 'maybe' also like you.

you are now 15, don't you attracted to any guy in your school? those shuai shuai one? dun tell me theres none. =,= in secondary school this kind of stuff shld be common mah.

haha, whatever, good luck to you anyway. CHEERS.
got luh but i like him on and off. i've had 5 exes.

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Originally Posted by UltimaOnline View Post
It's ok. There is no 'right' and 'wrong' in this world. There are only free will and consequences, ethics and cosmoethics ('morality' is an illusion of man).

Generally, the karma is such that one has little sexual attraction for one's own relatives, particularly immediate family. However, because every individual is his/her own soul and responsible for his/her own choices, as an adult, there is certainly nothing 'wrong', or even unethical, when two people who might be related by family ties, fall in love, or have sex. As long as both are consenting adults, this even applies to brothers and sisters, or even (in more extreme cases) parent and child.

While I'm not advocating or recommending this, I'm stating a fact that in the eyes of Heaven (so to speak), from the viewpoint of highly evolved beings, guides & helpers, there is no judgement on these, it is not unethical, as long as both are consenting adults.

Similarly with homosexuality (including lesbianism), bisexuality, or transexuality (including transvestism). There is nothing 'wrong' or unethical, no bad karma will result, other than from your own feelings (misguided or otherwise) about these issues.

While there are various psychological, karmic, or psychospiritual issues that the individual may be struggling with, that predispose the individual towards, manifesting and working with the karma expressed as, various 'abberations' or unusual tendencies such as the above (eg. so-called 'incest' or love/sex with relatives, and/or homo/bi/trans-sexuality issues), but none of these are 'wrong' or 'evil' or unethical by itself. Again, I emphasize, provided all parties involved are consenting adults.

However, there is always, especially in regard to such 'abnormal' or unusual tendencies and/or specific cases (eg. with a specific someone, whether he/she is of the same gender as you, or is your relative), a significant and specific karma either entirely within yourself, or with that particular individual, or both, that you might wish to seek to understand further.

One avenue of further investigation for means of (personalized) advice, is via the Hilarion Reading. For those interested, google it.


So to answer your question, "Is it OKAY to fall in love with your cousin?"

The answer is, YES of course it is. (Even if you're of the same gender as he/she is, which incidentally in your case, you're not).
HAHHAHAHHA. SORRY I COULDN'T HELP IT.

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