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Old 4th August 2013, 09:12 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Is It Okay to be the Only Girl in a Group?

A group of friends can compose of mixed sexes/genders and personalities that click because of a common interest or idea.

But, as girls, do you think it okay to be in the only girl in a group or clique? Coz sometimes girls dont wanna be friends with girls but like the company of men. Is it ok? What is the pros and cons of such relations?

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Re: Is It Okay to be the Only Girl in a Group?

Doesn't matter. Guys are more simple-minded than girls, so I don't mind.

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Re: Is It Okay to be the Only Girl in a Group?

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Doesn't matter. Guys are more simple-minded than girls, so I don't mind.
I think like you..

But just for benefit of convo..what about the malicious stares from everybody? Like being labeled slutty when seen the only girl in a group?

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Re: Is It Okay to be the Only Girl in a Group?

Originally Posted by abbie.gail27 View Post
I think like you..

But just for benefit of convo..what about the malicious stares from everybody? Like being labeled slutty when seen the only girl in a group?
Coz they are jealous and I have been called 'slut' so many times until I don't even bother to entertain them and I am in relationship. I mean those people not tired keep calling names?

But being a only girl in a group has more benefits. They are so fun and devil

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Originally Posted by noorizone View Post
Coz they are jealous and I have been called 'slut' so many times until I don't even bother to entertain them and I am in relationship. I mean those people not tired keep calling names?

But being a only girl in a group has more benefits. They are so fun and devil
Lol..I get you on that last bit..have a lot of male friends too and hs..was always the only girl..has its fun high and low's..

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It's definitely okay. I've been with only guys more often than I can help it because my course is guys dominated. But I miss having some female friends around occasionally. There are some things only a person with the same gender as you can understand.

But ultimately, I feel that personality matters more than gender if you're considering a friend.

However, I feel it's easier to start a conversation with guys sometimes. Maybe because they're less concerned about only talking the things they're interested in.


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It's definitely okay. I've been with only guys more often than I can help it because my course is guys dominated. But I miss having some female friends around occasionally. There are some things only a person with the same gender as you can understand.

But ultimately, I feel that personality matters more than gender if you're considering a friend.

However, I feel it's easier to start a conversation with guys sometimes. Maybe because they're less concerned about only talking the things they're interested in.
Me too..I feel it easier. On my end, I find it easier because they are less likely to judge you. You may seem corny or off with the topic, but they would enlighten you and try to come up with genuine response unlike some girls who are plastic.

Just saying..

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Re: Is It Okay to be the Only Girl in a Group?

I've been that girl, and it is both good and bad, depending on your relationship with each guy and also the opinions of others looking in. Sometimes me being friends with guys put a snag in my love life because since I was always surrounded by boys (despite that they were just friends) other guys found that to be intimidating. Also, some of the guys developed feelings for me, and since my feelings were not the same, I would have to friend zone them, and that affected my friendships. Or if I was interested in the guy and another guy was also into me, that could affect his friendship with the other guy.

A positive thing I think about it is that there were lots of laughs and good times had, and it was nice to feel like I fit in somewhere instead of awkwardly sitting silent when hanging out with a group of particularly catty girls. :x

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I think its ok. I've more guy friends compared to girl friends. guys are usually more easy going and 'steady'

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It's fine if you can trust the guys and they are your friends... I've always been the girl in a group of guys. They are easier to talk to and actually a lot gentler than having girl friends. All the girls it seems like they are competing against you and others.

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Re: Is It Okay to be the Only Girl in a Group?

I am currently in that position. i find guys are fun to hang out with. Especially when they treat as as one of their "bro" too. Plus some will take good care of you too. They are fun to bitch with too haha

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