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Old 21st June 2009, 08:26 PM   #1 (permalink)
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parent's control over you...

was wondering....how strict do ur parent control u after 21 ?

would they like limit u going out ? or still probing u here and there like who u going out and where u going ?

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Old 21st June 2009, 08:50 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: parent's control over you...

I got my "freedom'" since I was about 14 yrs old. I could go out overnight at BBQ or chalets but I inform my parents prior to my outings.

Parents usually control their daughters more than guys, cos gals are likely to lose out more than guys.

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Old 21st June 2009, 09:01 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: parent's control over you...

Erm.. I'm above 21 now. Every now and then my parent do call me and ask me about my location and why isn't I back home yet during wee hours.
But I am fine with it. From my point of view, no matter how old you are, in your parents' view they still see you as their young child because every minute you turn older, they also turn older. Parents' can be seem annoying when they keep calling your HP or asking you where are you going or who are you hanging out with. Different parents have their different ways of "controlling" their child. But the end of the day, they are just concern about you.

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Old 21st June 2009, 09:05 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: parent's control over you...

i've my freedom every since 14, now 15.
erm, i can go out anytime i want, for a valid reason larh, not just because i feel like it.
but i do inform my parents, like 1 or 2 days before.
for overnight stays like chalets, probably discuss with them, and they would mostly allow me to go.

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Old 21st June 2009, 09:28 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: parent's control over you...

even b4 i'm 21, ard 19 like tat i alreadi have my freedom.. My mama n papa wont ask where i go n so on..

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Old 21st June 2009, 09:40 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: parent's control over you...

HAIZ.

im used to it alrdy.
but not bad alrdy i feel.

but my mum always peek at my phone.
like when im reading msg,
my MSN too.

cannot spontaneous go out.
like when ppl ask, want go for dinner or wad ..
need to tell in advance.
then ask go where, with who, till wad time.
then at the timing will call and chase me.
even for school days.

im going to be 18 already lo.
never mind, im aiming for NTU.
den stay in hostel.
hopefully after i grad from uni.
i get more freedom ?

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Re: parent's control over you...

My mum does not control my movements...but then i just inform her where i am going and what time I will be back... Good enough to suppress my mum's anxieties..

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Re: parent's control over you...

i'm 17, and my parents don't give squat what i do. hehhehhheh.

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Re: parent's control over you...

i will just tell them im going out, then they will say go out dont anyhow ah! then i say orh byebye im gone..lol

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Re: parent's control over you...

My parents dun really control me. As long as I tell them where will I be and with who, do wad, I'll be fine. I think it's responsiblity on my part that they should know. After all, I'm still a gal and they will obviously worry.

When I'll be reaching home late, Eg 12mn, I'll give them a call to let them know.

I've a curfew. It's at 11.30pm. It might be a bit of a hassale for me, but no choice lor.

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They wont bother u already u are already a grown up

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Re: parent's control over you...

They will only ask me where i go..

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Re: parent's control over you...

I'm 17 this year not yet 21 haha!
Have freedom lah and it's getting more as I grow older, Like when I was younger and I got home from school I had to call my mum but that was when I was 13 and that's not controlling lah that's more of concern.
So, I have my freedom and will get more as I grow older. I hope haha!

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Re: parent's control over you...

They dont really control me already

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Re: parent's control over you...

reaching 21 and they dun control me much. Even if last minute want stay overnight at chalet or friend's hse just a phone call will do

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Re: parent's control over you...

nw im 15.. girl.. being at my age i am damn f*** rebellious.. i dont care. i just go.. but i make it a point to be home by 11 so i show those idiots i am as responsible as i am without them ..

and besides.. hahas..

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Originally Posted by phgoh View Post
HAIZ.

im used to it alrdy.
but not bad alrdy i feel.

but my mum always peek at my phone.
like when im reading msg,
my MSN too.

cannot spontaneous go out.
like when ppl ask, want go for dinner or wad ..
need to tell in advance.
then ask go where, with who, till wad time.
then at the timing will call and chase me.
even for school days.

im going to be 18 already lo.
never mind, im aiming for NTU.
den stay in hostel.
hopefully after i grad from uni.
i get more freedom ?
im 18 as well, and i feel your pain >.>

my mom does tht too.
th only 'freedom' i get is whn i go to work,
after work, she'll confirm call to ask where i am.
thn at night check my phone for messages .

x.x th pain of being th only daughter.

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Originally Posted by death anqel View Post
nw im 15.. girl.. being at my age i am damn f*** rebellious.. i dont care. i just go.. but i make it a point to be home by 11 so i show those idiots i am as responsible as i am without them ..

and besides.. hahas..
u dun look rebellious eh.

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You cant judge a book by it's cover.
Regardless. You must show how much you value yourself as a human, in order to gain the trust of others.

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Originally Posted by Uyoku View Post
You cant judge a book by it's cover.
Regardless. You must show how much you value yourself as a human, in order to gain the trust of others.
yup some of the human nature are nt displayed on the face ya

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