Have parents with traditional mindset? - Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Sitemap Contact Us FAQ Singapore Forums by SGClub.com
Home Photos Member List Register Mark Forums Read  
Go Back Home > Lifestyle > Love & Relationships > Family Matters » Have parents with traditional mindset?

Why aren't you a member of SGClub.com yet??

» Join 130,000+ other members in chatting.
» Make lots of new friends here.
» Keep up-to-date with current events.
» Participate in Club outings.
» Download lots of Free Stuff!

Registration just takes 2mins and is absolutely free so join our community today!

I Want to Choose my Own Personal Nickname Now!


Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 27th April 2009, 03:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
Wuliaoren will become famous soon enough

 
Wuliaoren's Avatar
 
Posts: 171
Join Date: Mar 2005
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Have parents with traditional mindset?

Have parents with traditional mindset? I guess majority are brought up in such family (being Asian). I am personally brought up in one.
Parents are still holding on to certain traditional mindset/values (No doubt some values are still good.) although we are living in the 21st Century. Yup. I guess in some point of time, it annoys us and it hinders a dream that we want to achieve.

So let's share:
1. What is/was the problem you are facing?
2. How are/did you handle the problem?

Sponsors:
Wuliaoren is offline  
Add to Wuliaoren's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 03:52 PM   #2 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
devilevilchris is just really nicedevilevilchris is just really nice

 
devilevilchris's Avatar
 
Posts: 8,072
Join Date: Jul 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

hmm... i am wondering... this topic shd not be post here... ask be in SGClub cafe instead...

__________________


Click on the pic to join the NOC!!

Do Visit and leave a comment...

Join Passionate Singing Club (PSC)

More details of Photography

Ways to host image in forum click here

Last edited by devilevilchris; 27th April 2009 at 03:53 PM.
devilevilchris is offline   Add to devilevilchris's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 05:19 PM   #3 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
iloves- is on a distinguished road

 
iloves-'s Avatar
 
Posts: 2,506
Join Date: Sep 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Not very tradition lah ._.
only dont allow tatoo and drug and whatever. (:

__________________
Digging your grave,.
iloves- is offline   Add to iloves-'s Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:24 PM   #4 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
xDarkJo is on a distinguished road

 
xDarkJo's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,501
Join Date: Aug 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

nope... my parents are open minded.... as long as wad we know we are doing...

xDarkJo is offline   Add to xDarkJo's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:35 PM   #5 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
eatwhat is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 85
Join Date: Apr 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Originally Posted by Wuliaoren View Post
Have parents with traditional mindset? I guess majority are brought up in such family (being Asian). I am personally brought up in one.
Parents are still holding on to certain traditional mindset/values (No doubt some values are still good.) although we are living in the 21st Century. Yup. I guess in some point of time, it annoys us and it hinders a dream that we want to achieve.

So let's share:
1. What is/was the problem you are facing?
2. How are/did you handle the problem?
I am speaking as a modern parent....
take it easy on children and support and let them chase for their dream!
As long as they go the right direction.
I cannot force them what I want them to be....

eatwhat is offline   Add to eatwhat's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:38 PM   #6 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
Silly_God_Disco has a spectacular aura about

 
Silly_God_Disco's Avatar
 
Posts: 4,670
Join Date: Feb 2009
Likes: 9
Liked 24 Times in 19 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

my parents will say students muz avoid shopping...

__________________
Men talk of killing time, while time quietly kills them.
Silly_God_Disco is offline   Add to Silly_God_Disco's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:42 PM   #7 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
Fusionopolis will become famous soon enough

 
Fusionopolis's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,404
Join Date: Nov 2008
Likes: 0
Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

1. What is/was the problem you are facing? We facing money problem
2. How are/did you handle the problem? Pray to god for more wealth for us

Fusionopolis is offline   Add to Fusionopolis's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:45 PM   #8 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
dslitemylove is a jewel in the roughdslitemylove is a jewel in the rough

 
dslitemylove's Avatar
 
Posts: 5,625
Join Date: Feb 2009
Likes: 4
Liked 2 Times in 2 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

got


Last edited by dslitemylove; 27th April 2009 at 06:57 PM.
dslitemylove is offline   Add to dslitemylove's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:45 PM   #9 (permalink)
Addicted SGClubber
dodochicky will become famous soon enough

 
dodochicky's Avatar
 
Posts: 854
Join Date: Feb 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

same as fusionopolis said.

dodochicky is offline   Add to dodochicky's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 06:46 PM   #10 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
eatwhat is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 85
Join Date: Apr 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Originally Posted by Silly_God_Disco View Post
my parents will say students muz avoid shopping...
That's a cute wan!

eatwhat is offline   Add to eatwhat's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 27th April 2009, 07:25 PM   #11 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
Wuliaoren will become famous soon enough

 
Wuliaoren's Avatar
 
Posts: 171
Join Date: Mar 2005
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Originally Posted by eatwhat View Post
I am speaking as a modern parent....
take it easy on children and support and let them chase for their dream!
As long as they go the right direction.
I cannot force them what I want them to be....
3 cheers for eatwhat. I totally need that freedom. Lol.

I think the problem that I'm facing is they feel a girl should not be hanging out with guys (be it alone or as a group). It would be bad for the 'reputation' of the girl. I never understand why they still have this thinking although I tried explaining that it is just friends hanging out. -.-

2nd would be traveling overseas alone. Yup I always have this wish to backpack the world. Instead of supporting, all they would think is about the bad things that is going to happen. And thinks I should just stay in Singapore since it is more 'safe'. In conclusion, girls should not travel alone and is totally a helpless creature.

Wuliaoren is offline   Add to Wuliaoren's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 28th April 2009, 12:43 AM   #12 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
Deino is on a distinguished road

 
Deino's Avatar
 
Posts: 47
Join Date: Apr 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Define traditional? If traditional being culture, then i guess culture is something should be preserved. rather than copying western cultures just becoz we think its cool.

I dun think that there are such things as traditional or modernised mindset...rather i think that its either about openness and how well one thinks and how much one knows...

Deino is offline   Add to Deino's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 28th April 2009, 10:13 AM   #13 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
eatwhat is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 85
Join Date: Apr 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Originally Posted by Wuliaoren View Post
And thinks I should just stay in Singapore since it is more 'safe'. In conclusion, girls should not travel alone and is totally a helpless creature.

just remind me the singapore girl was killed in India during the terrorist attack...poor thing and sad

eatwhat is offline   Add to eatwhat's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 28th April 2009, 11:02 AM   #14 (permalink)
开心就好!
BeRRies-* has a spectacular aura about

 
BeRRies-*'s Avatar
 
Posts: 6,211
Join Date: May 2007
Likes: 38
Liked 7 Times in 7 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

=.=?
Question mark.

__________________
❤ 幸福莫過於三件事:有人信你,有人陪你,有人等你
BeRRies-* is offline   Add to BeRRies-*'s Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 28th April 2009, 05:45 PM   #15 (permalink)
GRL
Cool SGClubber
GRL is on a distinguished road

 
GRL's Avatar
 
Posts: 68
Join Date: Feb 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Parents just hope goodness for children

__________________
Here for Fengshui Solution
GRL is offline   Add to GRL's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 28th April 2009, 07:45 PM   #16 (permalink)
Addicted SGClubber
. h i t o r i . is on a distinguished road

 
. h i t o r i .'s Avatar
 
Posts: 382
Join Date: Feb 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

My parents are pretty cool! I don't think they're traditional at all. =)

. h i t o r i . is offline   Add to . h i t o r i .'s Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 7th May 2009, 12:52 AM   #17 (permalink)
Cool SGClubber
crystal_gal is on a distinguished road

 
crystal_gal's Avatar
 
Posts: 81
Join Date: Jul 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

super traditional,
even i'm already 21 now, they will call every 30mins to 1hr after 6p.m.. alwas suspect me doing wrong things.. cant stand them...

crystal_gal is offline   Add to crystal_gal's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 7th May 2009, 12:58 AM   #18 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
steelheart is on a distinguished road

 
steelheart's Avatar
 
Posts: 1,166
Join Date: Aug 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

they are slightly traditional when it comes to culture and disciplinary issues. they condemn smoking, dont want us to drink, go hangout at nightspots and spend too much money on what they determined to be 'useless' items. though i'm holding myself responsible for breaking some of their 'laws' i mean, i cant forever be a mummy's boy and go with what they deem right. i gotta grow up too right! hahahaha

__________________
could you be there, cause i'm the one who waits for you.
or are you unforgiven too?
steelheart is offline   Add to steelheart's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 7th May 2009, 08:00 PM   #19 (permalink)
Experienced SGClubber
sky99 is a glorious beacon of lightsky99 is a glorious beacon of lightsky99 is a glorious beacon of light

 
sky99's Avatar
 
Posts: 10,466
Join Date: Nov 2008
Likes: 0
Liked 8 Times in 6 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

Originally Posted by iloves- View Post
Not very tradition lah ._.
only dont allow tatoo and drug and whatever. (:
which parent allow drug ?

sky99 is offline   Add to sky99's Reputation Reply With Quote
Old 8th May 2009, 01:52 PM   #20 (permalink)
New SGClubber
whitecat is on a distinguished road

 
Posts: 29
Join Date: May 2009
Likes: 0
Liked 0 Times in 0 Posts
Gender:

Re: Have parents with traditional mindset?

As a parent, our children wellness & safety tops every other issues. Tis include our life, too. Watever strict regiment policy been intuated fm yr upbringing days, r meant to nurture yr readiness faced by future obstacles.
Believe it, once u hv own family later, u will b 110% grateful after all those years of nagging...!!!

whitecat is offline   Add to whitecat's Reputation Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Politically correct parents ditch 'offensive' traditional fairy tales *StarDust* International & Singapore News 4 7th January 2009 07:36 PM
Would you want your kids to have a business mindset too? Shazwi Workplace and Business Forum 7 3rd May 2008 06:58 PM
How to change my mindset? LaoBuSi87 SGClub Cafe 13 23rd June 2007 06:06 AM
Traditon Mindset Tristanity Love & Relationships 14 6th June 2007 11:14 PM
11 wrong mindset boaz SGClub Cafe 12 25th December 2006 01:38 AM

» Sponsors
Watch Free Movies Online
Celebrity Gossip
Food Delivery

» Facebook Fans
» What's Going On?
Title, Username, & Date
[Hard Truth] 69.9% of Singaporeans are more stupid than dogs and monkeys.
[Poor Health] Karma strikes ex-Health Minister Khaw Boon Wan hard.
Hepatitis E infections surge in Singapore, virus found in raw pork liver: SGH
Christianity and Buddhism have more in common than differences: (moderation and restr
[SG] Wants higher birth rate, but unwilling to fund treatment for childhood mental pr
E-scooter rider going at 28km/h at void deck injures man’s leg, gets 6 weeks’ jail
PMD users warned: Behave responsibly or face total ban
Supplier iPassion fined for putting SAFETY marks on unregistered PMD charging adaptors
SFA recalls US brand of flour over possible bacteria contamination
Female infant and male occupant sent to hospital after PMD-related fire in Bukit Batok...
Repost comment.
Top income brackets should be taxed at 99%.
Do you know?
480GB Transcend ESD350C Portable SSD Review
SFA suspends import of quail eggs from Malaysian farm due to drug residues
King Arthur Flour product recalled due to potential presence of E. coli
FS (10Pieces) Apple iPhone 11/11 Pro/11 Pro Max(Website www.esellibuy.com)$6...
Inspirational Songs
Instead of increase GST, what other more progressive wealth tax options (e.g. Replace
Elderly should be given free e-scooter try outs ASAP.
Featured Photos
by marisoljames322
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by marisoljames322
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by pdsubbu
· · ·
Member Galleries
20359 photos
13619 comments
by Vikas Dhar
· · ·
Photography
35 photos
36 comments
by aaudreygan
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by aaudreygan
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments
by a8paris
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by a8paris
· · ·
Guy Photos
1581 photos
946 comments
by aaricia
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments
by aaricia
· · ·
Girl Photos
4351 photos
28608 comments

 

All times are GMT +8. The time now is 01:36 AM.


Powered by vBulletin
Copyright ©2000 - 2019, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Copyright© 2004-2013 SGClub.com. All rights reserved.