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Old 16th January 2009, 09:39 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Recently, i heard from my bf, that his mom is not happy with me. To me i think it's trival matters. Maybe becos, recently i m stressed at work (company restructure/ retrenchment)
so i was not careful to think abt their feelings. I feel sad, and this add on to my stress.

Any gals with the same problems

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Old 17th January 2009, 09:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

I have no problem with my bf mother.
Maybe you can try to ask your bf, what happened that her mother is not happy with you?

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Old 18th January 2009, 10:32 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

I have no problem with my bf mother or his family member.
Maybe you can try to ask your bf why his mother is not happy with you?
Is your bf the only child in the house or the younger son of the house?
Maybe they put lots of hope on his gf.

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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

I guess you need to figure out why she's upset. Then try to get into her good books.

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Old 21st January 2009, 12:29 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

buy some stuff back as respect?cook her fave dish?

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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

i suggest in order to keep things going smoothly,
honesty is the best solution.

get them some Bengawan Solo kuehs or new year goodies, ba kwa?
go to their place, tell them about your upset at work and apologise to them if at any case you're insensitive to their feelings.

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Old 22nd January 2009, 11:46 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

i guess i am d extreme here?

i used to be bothered by how they think of me, how they c me, wat they unhappy abt etc etc.

but later i realised that at times, they are jus being ridiculous --> jus like i bought a camera for my mum --> they felt i am wasting money? --> i am not using their son's cash wor.

now, i didn't bother anymore, wat they wan do, wan say etc, dun affect me anymore.

my partner already said i v super le.

but when things crop up in his family, i will still help, jus dat i am immune to their comments --> but i told him dun let his family know is i helped de. (",)

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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

Maybe you will want to talk about your situation with your company to her?
Let her know how things are like, she should be able to understand.
Assure her things will be fine & talk to her about your plans.
And bringing some CNY goodies for her will be good too.

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Re: Problem with Future Mother-in-law

I guess communication is needed, you just got to talk to them, perhaps start from the mother why she is feeling this way and start explaining yourself.

I'm quite immuned to other people's comment though. I just speak my mind and make sure they get my message, if they want, I accept room for discussion too. So far, the only thing that I'm not happy with my bf's family is how lazy the family members can get, expecting money to fall from sky.

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Buy some stuff give her for cny :x

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