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Old 8th March 2009, 03:41 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Problems faced in R/S!

Recently ive been having frequent mood swings and vending anger on my bf which i dunno why and find it rather hard to control... For example; I would get frustrated during the train ride and then i would ignored him till he asked me wads wrong and stuff... Or example; While smsing him, i would get irritated when he takes more than 30mins to reply or find that his replies are too short...recent case: He went out to meet his forum friends and he told me he was happy today when he made new friends, i was glad for him till the moment he said there are a few girls in the group of boys then i got aggitated and ignored him and told him im going bed early...then i started weeping away... I have not idea wads wrong with me recently..do u think its because i hasnt been feeling well these few days?
wad can i do to make sure i dont flare up too frequently@@

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Old 9th March 2009, 12:44 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

how bout thinking twice before you start ignoring him, etc. ask yourself if there's a need to or not. or you may wna try talking to him bout it. :-)

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

There are two reasons why this is happening:

1. You love him to much and you want to have the whole of him, not wanting to share with others.
2. You are starting to get irritated by the little actions he does, because you cannot accept the fact that he is like that.

To solve, I guess only a few options.
1. Break Up
2. Control Your Temper
3. Think before you speak
4. Build up trust

All above are easier said than done, but just follow your heart. If you think you love him, then give him trust. If you think you get irritated over the things he does, there's seriously no point in being together anymore.

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Old 9th March 2009, 02:02 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

Originally Posted by cinnabel View Post
There are two reasons why this is happening:

1. You love him to much and you want to have the whole of him, not wanting to share with others.
2. You are starting to get irritated by the little actions he does, because you cannot accept the fact that he is like that.

To solve, I guess only a few options.
1. Break Up
2. Control Your Temper
3. Think before you speak
4. Build up trust

All above are easier said than done, but just follow your heart. If you think you love him, then give him trust. If you think you get irritated over the things he does, there's seriously no point in being together anymore.
I agree with her..
I am like u in the past..
Try to change..

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

Okay i ll take note of the advices thanks alots ladies=)
And i think i do jump onto conclusions too soon...=c

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

Do communicate with him more before executing any actions, save a lot of troubles and unnecessary worries. Anyway, did the mood swing occurs cos of PMS?

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

hmmm.. Maybe your could find 1 day and have a talk with each other and just voice out what you are unhappy with and happy with. In a r/s, somehow communication and time is the key to a successful r/s. Trust needs time to build up as well. Maybe you two can have a heart-to-heart talk, at the same time can slowly build up trust when both of you know what each other wants.

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hmmm.. Maybe your could find 1 day and have a talk with each other and just voice out what you are unhappy with and happy with. In a r/s, somehow communication and time is the key to a successful r/s. Trust needs time to build up as well. Maybe you two can have a heart-to-heart talk, at the same time can slowly build up trust when both of you know what each other wants.

Hope this help. =)

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

Originally Posted by xiaowen88 View Post
I agree with her..
I am like u in the past..
Try to change..
agree above~~

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

There are two reasons why this is happening:

1. You love him to much and you want to have the whole of him, not wanting to share with others.
2. You are starting to get irritated by the little actions he does, because you cannot accept the fact that he is like that.

To solve, I guess only a few options.
1. Break Up
2. Control Your Temper
3. Think before you speak
4. Build up trust

All above are easier said than done, but just follow your heart. If you think you love him, then give him trust. If you think you get irritated over the things he does, there's seriously no point in being together
anymore.
Lol remind me when I was at that stage..
Some part make me think that you are jealous XD
well every girl will feel that.

agree with the solutions ^^ hope everything is fine!

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Old 14th March 2009, 02:03 AM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

Among our frens, they are sure some from different sex, so no need to get jealous if they are having a normal fren talk, n of cos not the flirting type.You also dun wan a anti-social/emo bf rite? If one day, ur bf restrict u from talking with others than gal, will u be angry too? this is a trust you should give to your bf which both of you need to build them up.

If you still don't feel gd, go out with his frens to see what type of girls they are, if u really think that they are someone going after your bf, let ur bf know, a gd bf will know how to avoid all these.

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

i oso face this probs, i'll get vry emo & sad when i koe tat my bf tok to other gals or add gals in facebk..it's a kind of feeling tat u feel insecured in u r/s bah.. most of my gf will just say, he add gal nia, nv do anything wat, y r u so inconfident of urself?? but of cos, i'll just ignore my bf & hav cold wars wif him till i cool dw..

initially, my bf will get angry aft he koe wat's i'm angry of .. cos, to him, he say tat he koe wat's doin & most of the time, this kind of chat will die off aft sometimes.. but i reali feels vry uncomfortable & sad .. i told him tat if i dun love u, u'r my nobody, i wont care wat u had done!! u get wat i means?? woman & man r diff!! most of the time, man will tink tat as long as he koe how to behave himself.. ther's nothing more to say abt it..

aft we talk abt it, he oso understand tat i dun feel confortable tat he talk to other gals, is bcos, i care abt him & this r/s.. & i want him to tok openly to other gals letting me koe if possible ( but of cos man wont let u koe lah) anyway, i only caught him once chatting wif other gals. letting ur man koe wat u can & cant accept was important.. at the same time, i oso try to change myself, as long as he do this "infront" rather then "behind" of me.. i'm safe..

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

i get annoyed with him too when he talks about/to other girls... if its with girls that i know than its okay.. arghhhh!! but i guess for guys, this kind of things are nothing.. so i know its easier said than done... but i guess we need to trust them more and have more confidence in ourselves..

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

Originally Posted by ashlynncheng View Post
Among our frens, they are sure some from different sex, so no need to get jealous if they are having a normal fren talk, n of cos not the flirting type.You also dun wan a anti-social/emo bf rite? If one day, ur bf restrict u from talking with others than gal, will u be angry too? this is a trust you should give to your bf which both of you need to build them up.

If you still don't feel gd, go out with his frens to see what type of girls they are, if u really think that they are someone going after your bf, let ur bf know, a gd bf will know how to avoid all these.
Hmmm normally i dont really have the chance to see wad kind of girls they are cause they would most probably have all men in the gang ^^' Similarly he did told me he tend to feel jealous when i bump into some of my guy friends when im out with him but he said that this is a sign of being over possessive and he does not like it>< so both of us belong to the possessive typesxD but im trying to change ! Thanks alot ladies for ur kind attention and suggestionsxD!

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

apologize for flaring up.

then,
think about what's wrong.
this is doing harm to your r/s.
i'm sure you don't wanna end up in a breakup.

is it due to stress?

perhaps it's becos you're not well too.
try to keep your cool in future.
think,
before you were to snap.

always take a deep breath,
and breathe out when you're gonna flare.
it usually helps.

if not,
try to talk it over with him.
in a r/s,
it works 2 ways.
he'll understand.
keeping it to yourself will not solve the problem.


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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

maybe it's PMS bah? i'm also like this :p

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

I do too, face all these problems! D; It's super distressing to find out that he's msging other girls.

But I don't only have the problems with his girl frens but with his gaming habits too! I can't take it when he has to talk about games,games and still games! Even when we're out celebrating our month anniversary, he can speak on the phone with his gaming pals until the meal ends and continue talking about it with me.

What? Am I not as important as a game to make him consider my feelings?

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

hmm. maybe i'm weird? but it's only some days when i feel like this. happened a few times and it's over a few days. like, i get irritated and upset with him really easily. like for eg when we go out, he started looking for his own things, not talking to me at all. i will feel neglected and then get upset and go really quiet just because i dont feel like telling him 'u are neglecting me. why arent u talking to me?' sounds too unreasonable. and when such feelings came the second time, i told him straight: tht i have emo days when i go unreasonable, ridiculous and demand a lot from him. if i dont get it, i emo and tht's why i go all quiet. now he knows he makes an effort to make me feel pampered. and when i feel neglected on one of those days again, he will ask 'are u emo-ing again? dont emo ok. i'm still here with u.' it just makes u feel a whole lot better, more secure.

it's just a suggestion tht u can do tht. just so he knows it's unintentional for u to lose ur temper sometimes. or well, u could try and control it. up to u actually. (:

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i m also always like tat..when i m not feeling well then i will scold people 4 nothing or vend my anger ccompared when i m feeling well,..... try 2 control.....boys obviously dont like gals 2 show anger at them....

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Re: Problems faced in R/S!

try to tell him that you arent feeling v happy though you dunno why.
and tell him in advance that if you do flare up, ask him to please understand.

than tell him that you will try to change ba

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