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Old 21st January 2008, 08:25 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Saying I love you

Do your bf say "I love u" to you all the time? Sometimes i just feel that if he dont say it, it doesnt give me a sense of security. If he say it all the time, its like not sincere and i will wonder if he really mean it.

Is it good to say 'I love you' everyday?? Will it loses its value?

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Old 21st January 2008, 11:41 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hmmm I also have the same dilemma as you in the past actually, especially when I just got into the relationship. Then... I would feel more secure if he says it often... but of course not everyday because I feel it DOES feel a little insincere. It would seem as if it's monotonous already and has lost the meaning...

Now.... 3 years later, I guess it's mutual. We can feel it and it shows in our actions and words... It's not necessary to hear it all the time. ^^


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Old 21st January 2008, 11:49 PM   #3 (permalink)
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'i love you' i wld only love to hear tt once from my guy and tts it.

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Old 21st January 2008, 11:52 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Saying I love you

Originally Posted by BiBi View Post
'i love you' i wld only love to hear tt once from my guy and tts it.

Oh wow. And throughout the entire relationship there's no need for any form of reassurance? You must be one confident lady! You go Gal!

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Re: Saying I love you

Its not the case, what if yr bf keep saying i love you?
then it defeats the meaning right? D:

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Old 22nd January 2008, 12:06 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Its not the case, what if yr bf keep saying i love you?
then it defeats the meaning right? D:
Haha yup that's what I feel too... It's really sweet if the ambience is right and he says those 3 words.. but saying it all the time really defeats the purpose.

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Old 22nd January 2008, 12:09 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Saying I love you

*nods*
i feel the same way as you are, ts.
i'm one who feels insecure easily & will anyhow think de...
but if you say "i love you" to me evday, i'll feel that u'll saying it for the sake of saying.
like last time when i'm with my ex, i nv say "love you" to him b4 i end a conversation, he'll get angry.
crazy right?
but now.. words are just words to me.
love should be expressed thru actions.. your care & concern..

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Re: Saying I love you

i also do feel that..
when he everyday said it, it just like normal saying only..

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yea..its like saying for the sake of saying...but he did asked me will i hate it if he keep saying i love u to me. I said no...cos i guess i felt more secure when he said this to me. At least im aware im being loved. Anyway he doesnt speak english and it is a long dist relationship, so physically hes not here...i guess saying i love u is the only way we can convey our love in a more direct manner............

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Saying I love you
Is not the words I want to hear from you
It's not that I want you
Not to say, but if you only knew
How easy it would be to show me how you feel
More than words is all you have to do to make it real
Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me
Cos I'd already know

More than word lyric

haha.

My bf and I will say 'love you' frequently-we say it to each other almost everyday-instead of saying 'i love u' frequently =) Without the word I, the effect is really different from the latter. haha.

That's how i feel =) haha. Though he and I've been together for more than a year, we didn't feel that doing the act of saying 'love u' frequently is insincere =) haha.

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we say i love you to each other all the time.. it's those "i love you!!" then cuddle cuddle... sincere ba.. hehe

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Re: Saying I love you

Originally Posted by noti. View Post
Hmmm I also have the same dilemma as you in the past actually, especially when I just got into the relationship. Then... I would feel more secure if he says it often... but of course not everyday because I feel it DOES feel a little insincere. It would seem as if it's monotonous already and has lost the meaning...

Now.... 3 years later, I guess it's mutual. We can feel it and it shows in our actions and words... It's not necessary to hear it all the time. ^^


Exactly my thoughts.
Its not necessary to hear it all the time, I would rather feel it than hear it. And just like the saying goes.. action speaks louder than words.

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Old 29th January 2008, 12:29 AM   #13 (permalink)
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I find it heartwarming if he says it with his heart and you can really feel it....though my ex-s don't do that AT ALL

GRR =p

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We both say "I love you" to one another daily.
It's like a habit to say "I love you" especially before we both go to bed and end the beautiful day.
We would probably feel weird, especially me, if I don't at least hear one "I love you" per day.
Coz right from the start of our relationship, we've always been saying this to one another.
In a very sincere way, that is.
We would often just look into each other eyes, fell onto his arms and say "I love you".

I guess it really have to depend on what kind of a person he is, how "sincere" he said it and all other reasons to feel secure that "oh, yes..he loves me, really."

However, there is also this saying that, if you BF or Husband does not say "I love you" since years of dating or marriage, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He could have already proved it in another way, such as buying whatever things you want, caring about you, etc. I once heard that, if a guy say "I love you" everyday but still look at other women, it doesn't mean shit anyway.

So afterall, it depends!

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Re: Saying I love you

Originally Posted by enDlessly View Post
We both say "I love you" to one another daily.
It's like a habit to say "I love you" especially before we both go to bed and end the beautiful day.
We would probably feel weird, especially me, if I don't at least hear one "I love you" per day.
Coz right from the start of our relationship, we've always been saying this to one another.
In a very sincere way, that is.
We would often just look into each other eyes, fell onto his arms and say "I love you".

I guess it really have to depend on what kind of a person he is, how "sincere" he said it and all other reasons to feel secure that "oh, yes..he loves me, really."

However, there is also this saying that, if you BF or Husband does not say "I love you" since years of dating or marriage, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. He could have already proved it in another way, such as buying whatever things you want, caring about you, etc. I once heard that, if a guy say "I love you" everyday but still look at other women, it doesn't mean shit anyway.

So afterall, it depends!

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my guy n i say 'i love you' everyday..

especially after we end phonecalls.

or when we're parting.

so ya..

just telling..

muN-

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For me, saying I LOVE YOU is a serious thing. I will only say I love you when I mean it.
My ex used to always say I love you. And now I doubt its true.

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me and my boyfriend usually tell each other 'I love you' in smses or msn. but in real life, we oni say tt to each other when thr is special thing goin on or when we reali reali mean it. and he said those 3 words to me in the face oni aft 4mths tgt, which makes me feel totally secured!

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It's alwaes more sincere to express " i love you " through actions as words are jus nth. For some ( no off taken ) they will jus swear it without thinking they even lyk u . these are truly nt sincere guys . As for saying " i love you " frequently , although it's heartwarming, but imagine ..if in the future when both of u get married eg.. and he stops saying it to u , then dun tell me u feel that he dun love you anymore ? Love can only be expressed through actions . Words are jus empty. they oni let u hear wat u wanna hear ,,tts all

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Re: Saying I love you

Originally Posted by Mehda View Post
*nods*
i feel the same way as you are, ts.
i'm one who feels insecure easily & will anyhow think de...
but if you say "i love you" to me evday, i'll feel that u'll saying it for the sake of saying.
like last time when i'm with my ex, i nv say "love you" to him b4 i end a conversation, he'll get angry.
crazy right?
but now.. words are just words to me.
love should be expressed thru actions.. your care & concern..

super duper agree!

should show love by your actions, not just words.
but once in awhile i'd hug him really tight and tell him that he means the world to me and of coz, 'i love you'! (:
i think it's sweeter this way. agree?

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Me & my boyf say it to each other all the time too (:
In real life, sms-es, everything, it's become a part of our daily talks, haha =X

I don't think it will lose it's value, as long as you cherish each one that he said to you & vice versa,
that's all it matters (: (IMO ^^)

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